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Originally Posted by discreetgent
Why? She is being honest, the gents she sees seem to have a really good time, doesn't sound like she suffers either lol
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Thanks for this! I love that she keeps it real unlike alot of ladies I have encountered on this board!
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Here's my take...
The long dates don't bother me. I just did an overnight last week and what I found was
I worry about how people feel about ME too much. I spent most of my time thinking too much about him
and what he was feeling and not really enjoying the appointment.
One thing this job has thought me is how to look past physical appearence and judge people by character. This has rubbed off in my personal life big time. I no longer date guys because they're hot but how they make me feel. Don't get me wrong.. being hot is a plus but I've come to find that the hot ones usually turn out to be assholes so I don't go for them as much
lol
As far as money is concerned, I just love how some ladies will tell you it's not about the money.
Really? Why not find something else to do? This is risky business.. lol. For me, It IS about the money but do I enjoy the job? Of course. I am 21 years old. I'm a lot younger than a lot of ladies here.
I think that's why I get yelled at alot lol. My family is overseas (Nigeria). I have been saving money since they left before I even entered this business.
This job has allowed me to live very very comfortably and not have to worry about a thing so yeah I'll be lying if I said it's not about the money. Most guys would like the lady to tell them what they want to hear but the ones I know and have had the pleasure of spending time with like hearing the truth.
Rates are funny. I have seen everything from $50 t0 $1000 on
this site. I too have wondered what the hell is
the difference? However from what
I've noticed, The $300/$1000 girls are much more cleaner, can carry a conversation, they're/their pictures are beautiful, they don't indulge in drugs and seem much more approachable. The $50 girls (The ones I've encountered at least) .....I won't get into that here
As far as HDHs are concerned, $300/$400 Is pretty midrange. This is the standard
here in the Carolinas. When I think HDH I think about Pearl elite independents: Chelsy Heyden, Bianca Beauvais, Sara Prescott and my fave Holly Brooks. Do I think these women are any different from the $300/$400 girls? I'll keep that to myself. I imagine that they have other jobs that support them and don't have to work as much. As far as MY rates are concerned, They ARE based on what I am
willing to do not what I can't do. There are somethings I choose not to share/do with the world and keep for my SO (Yes I said it
). I also charge based on the market that's just what smart businesswomen do
I will never be one of those girls that feel they have to stretch their boundaries to make money. So I agree with London this world sure would be a boring place if everyone was the same.
