"Perfect" First Contact

[atxdream]

I thought I might post this to help some of the newer members (and some veteran's) understand how to really stand out when contacting a provider for the first time.

1. Read her website and ad for preferences on method of first contact (phone, pm, email, website form, etc.) - Follow her request
2. Check her reviews and website for the services she provides, her rates, and general times available.
3. Send her a message that includes the info in the following sample message (all ficticious info).

"Hi my name is John. I saw your reviews on eccie and would like to make an appointment with you. The following providers have seen me recently and can be contacted as my references. Atxdream http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=3859 and Naughty Jezabelle http://www.eccie.net/member.php?u=3716. They know me as John. I am a 47 year old white male with dark hair - 6'1", 205 lbs and a tribal tattoo on my arm. My phone # is 210-555-1234 and my email address is john@email.com. (All this info will help the screening process go seamless - or provide p411 code instead, also lets her know that you are serious about seeing her).
I particularly liked the activities listed in the review by hobbyisthandle (gives the girl a heads up on what you like & that you paid attention to the services she provides). I hope to see you on Wednesday around 3pm for 1 hour at your incall. If that doesn't work with your schedule, Thursday morning will also work for me. I look forward to your response.
~John"

Other ladies are welcome to chime in on what they look for in a first contact. I know that when I get a message similar to above, it takes total precedence over an email that has "Hey", "How much?", or "When can I see you?" as the entire message.

[darter]

You mean this doesn't work?
" Damn babe, you're hot! Can I come over in an hour and get freaky with you?"
That's my best line!! : ) J/K of course, where were you when I was new? LOL

[bamatide]

Thanks for the info...great starting point.

[Ramos]

"I particularly liked the activities listed in the review by hobbyist handle (gives the girl a heads up on what you like & paid attention to "


Thanks, good post! The above, in quotes, is especially helpful when trying to convey a special need
without running the risk of being offensive.

[Ez5417]

This is PERFECT babe!!!! Ty soooo much for posting this!!!!i hope ALL members take notes. Not just newbies. Last min incomplete inquiries are just a nono when it comes to booking. Sorry to be blunt, but just being honest. Having traveled all over Texas, and very habitually I may ad, SA i find, does this too often.


If I'm emailed w " above example of info" I can promise you it will be booked. W enough time to screen and get away that is.

[Naughty_Jezabelle]

Great advice. The more info you give in initial contact the quicker it is that we can get you screened and available to meet.

Thank you to all the wonderful gentlemen that accommodate this. You are greatly appreciated !

[Pepper_Springfield]

Also, do NOT list activities you are looking for. Read reviews. I just ignore people who do that. You weird me out damn it! lol

[Guest072013]

I agree with all... thanks to OP for posting this. It is frustrating and time consuming to hobbyists that email u with " hey would like to see u" lol
Hope newbies read this post cause it is VERY helpful for sure.

Happy Monday BTW.. licks and kisses

[atxdream]

I have a seperate one that I've done for newbies on my website. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Here's the link

http://atxdream.escortwebsite.com/ne...ead-this.phtml

[Redleg42]

Great 411. I'll use it. Thanks