I would love to know this.

[SexyKaylen]

What drama do I have? Lubeman aka.mexmex and others think I have drama I would love to know what drama you guys are talking about? Please show everyone the threads I started that was drama. I have people calling and asking what are you guys talking about. So please let them know because I don't know what to tell them. This is messing with my work and im getting pissed about it. I don't mess with no ones work and I would like the same respect. Thank you for any info.

[i'va biggen]

Don't start any threads, don't comment on any threads = no drama. I have never seen a bad review on you so there is no drama there.

[SexyKaylen]

I know hun but everyone say I have drama. My job is to get my name out there to make money and I think I do a good job at getting my name out there but if people say I have drama well that messes up with my work. I had people not come to see me because they say they read that I had drama. I would like to know what drama are they talking about that's all.

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Don't start any threads, don't comment on any threads = no drama. I have never seen a bad review on you so there is no drama there.

[Lubeman]

Like I told you in my responses to your 4 nasty pm's you just sent me before this drama you got me mixed up and leave me alone. I have nothing else to say. Bye

[SexyKaylen]

I didn't say nothing nasty to you mexmex I asked what drama you were talking about that's all. You cant even tell me what drama im in.

[mrtee]

I am unaware of any drama..but I finally got completly OPEN schedule and was hoping to see you tis wknd and you up n go to Wichita...WTF....LOL well guess im still stuck on the Anxious to see Kaylen list :-(..dont sweat small stuff sweetie..

[bigryan222]

Kaylen, opening threads in public to discuss these sorts of things are going to be precieved as drama by some. You openly defend yourself which is fine, but many times you do so in a way that escalates the issue.

You certainly do get your name out there effectively and often. Even a perfect person is going to eventually rub someone the wrong way though and I doubt there are any perfect people on this site. There is always going to be drama on message boards, but not falling for people baiting you into a conflict and resolving legit misunderstandings privately would help.

The other big thing is that your account was recently banned for a month as was a guys account at the exact same time. I don't know what happened, they may be unrelated, and it may be none of our business. That said, it is natural for minds to wonder what happened.

Please take my as constructive. It is hard not to get sucked into drama sometimes and this includes myself.

[SexyKaylen]

I don't post threads like this at all.
Me starting this thread was to ask why and where is the proof of me starting drama. Everyone say I start drama.
You for one don't care for me. The people that don't like me should not say anything I don't see the point but to piss me off and that makes me say stuff to guys like you and that's why you guys think its drama because I try to defend myself. So its not me starting drama its guys like you that start stuff not me.. If You wanna ask the other guy why he got banned ask him not me.im not him so I cant tell you. I still don't have prof where I start drama! like you said I try to defend myself and that's the only truth. defend myself and starting drama two different things. I guess that's only me that thinks that.
I don't mess with your job so don't mess with my job. Im sure you would be pissed about people messing with were you work.

Originally Posted by bigryan222

Kaylen, opening threads in public to discuss these sorts of things are going to be precieved as drama by some. You openly defend yourself which is fine, but many times you do so in a way that escalates the issue.

You certainly do get your name out there effectively and often. Even a perfect person is going to eventually rub someone the wrong way though and I doubt there are any perfect people on this site. There is always going to be drama on message boards, but not falling for people baiting you into a conflict and resolving legit misunderstandings privately would help.

The other big thing is that your account was recently banned for a month as was a guys account at the exact same time. I don't know what happened, they may be unrelated, and it may be none of our business. That said, it is natural for minds to wonder what happened.

Please take my as constructive. It is hard not to get sucked into drama sometimes and this includes myself.

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Me starting this thread was to ask why and where is the proof of me starting drama. Everyone say I start drama.
You for one don't care for me. The people that don't like me should not say anything I don't see the point but to piss me off and that makes me say stuff to guys like you and that's why you guys think its drama because I try to defend myself. So its not me starting drama its guys like you that start stuff not me.. If You wanna ask the other guy why he got banned ask him not me.im not him so I cant tell you. I still don't have prof where I start drama! like you said I try to defend myself and that's the only truth. defend myself and starting drama two different things. I guess that's only me that thinks that.

Kaylen, you started this thread asking about proof that you cause drama. I tried to give a polite, but accurate response and you state that I don't care for you and more or less say that I am trying to piss you off.

To be blunt now, your response to me is an act of drama. You asked a question and I gave you a general answer. I did not come back with a list of threads, because I sorta feel like that would be an a-hole thing to do. You turned a response to your question into an attack on you. It was not an attack, just a response to a topic that you brought up. If you really want I can spend a little time to get a thread list of examples where a reasonable person might think there was drama, but I certainly think it would be counter productive for both of us. I guess if you don't want to know the answer to a question you probably shouldn't ask it. Especially when the polite truth is something you don't want to hear/read.

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

I don't post threads like this at all.
Me starting this thread was to ask why and where is the proof of me starting drama. Everyone say I start drama.
You for one don't care for me. The people that don't like me should not say anything I don't see the point but to piss me off and that makes me say stuff to guys like you and that's why you guys think its drama because I try to defend myself. So its not me starting drama its guys like you that start stuff not me.. If You wanna ask the other guy why he got banned ask him not me.im not him so I cant tell you. I still don't have prof where I start drama! like you said I try to defend myself and that's the only truth. defend myself and starting drama two different things. I guess that's only me that thinks that.
I don't mess with your job so don't mess with my job. Im sure you would be pissed about people messing with were you work.

Also, if you want feel free to clear the air on why you were banned for a month. The timing with Pilsen could be a coincidence, I am very open to that. Also, it is not uncommon for providers to get a short ban for points (more rules to follow with ads and such), but it appeared that you were gone for exactly a month which traditionally has been a punishment for a specific issue.

I didn't really start to post in this thread to call you out, but this is an opportunity to clear the air. I don't read every post so you may have explained in the past, but I didn't see it.

Owning up to mistakes is a way to get rid of drama also. If it was just accidental rules issues such as posting in the wrong place or time for an ad most people wont care minus a comment or two from people in the thread.

[SexyKaylen]

Why is it any of your business sir? Like you say i start drama so if i said anything about the ban that be starting more drama for me. People that know me know im a good person and i don't have drama period.

I started the thread to ask a question that's all. Im not going to keep defending myself.
where is the proof i start anything bad on this bored?

Originally Posted by bigryan222

Also, if you want feel free to clear the air on why you were banned for a month. The timing with Pilsen could be a coincidence, I am very open to that. Also, it is not uncommon for providers to get a short ban for points (more rules to follow with ads and such), but it appeared that you were gone for exactly a month which traditionally has been a punishment for a specific issue.

I didn't really start to post in this thread to call you out, but this is an opportunity to clear the air. I don't read every post so you may have explained in the past, but I didn't see it.

Owning up to mistakes is a way to get rid of drama also. If it was just accidental rules issues such as posting in the wrong place or time for an ad most people wont care minus a comment or two from people in the thread.

[bigryan222]

Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

Why is it any of your business sir? Like you say i start drama so if i said anything about the ban that be starting more drama for me. People that know me know im a good person and i don't have drama period.

I started the thread to ask a question that's all. Im not going to keep defending myself.
where is the proof i start anything bad on this bored?

I suspect your definition of drama is different than most. Having drama does not equal being a bad person. Turning a polite version of an answer to your question into being an attack on you is drama in my opinion. This is also the reason you were singled out earlier this week for playing a victim. I did not attack you, but you responded as if I had.

And the reason I asked about the ban is because normally when there is a ban for what appears to be a set period of time and not just long enough for points to roll off there is drama associated with it. The only time I can remember off the top of my head where bans for set periods of time have happened have been for gaining access to private areas against the rules, and I might remember an outing incident. When you and Pilsen (who has reviewed you) were suspended at the same time for what appeared to be the same length of ban there is going to be additional precieved drama. It may not be related, but considering none of your posts near the ban appeared to break rules and how you responded to me it would seem you broke a big rule. That certainly equals drama.

[JD Barleycorn]

I think that taking it public prevents someone from making hidden threats in the PM. Let in the daylight and get some accountability.

[jhawq88]

My only question is when are you returning to KC? Need to see you again my dear!

[Thequeen]

Kaylen, Here lately the many threads you have started do not have much drama in them, There might be one or two responses that started up something but for the most part you haven't started any. You do post ALOT of threads and that is your right, you say you want to get your name out there and if that's how you want to do it that's your right!!!!! As I have stated in another thread a while back that was about drama is because in the past you have had some. it's very easy for a client or a provider to make a smart ass comment or joke and then you go "defend" your self which some people would call that drama... You are an attention whore. Let me explain that, Im not calling you a whore by no means in a negative way, You like attention and you post and post to get your name out there and to let everyone know you are here. That is how you want to run your business that is fine. If you feel like posting threads after threads to get attention works for you then great but like I said because of other problems in the past the more you post the more likely someone is going to come along and say something smart.. Everyone knows sooner or later in one of your ad's someone who doesn't care for you will post something to get you fired up and you take the bait. Maybe that gets you more business maybe it doesn't. If I see something I don't like I usually just ignore it and carry on but this is a hooker board and most likely someone is going to start shit. It's how you react and whether or not drama is started. There for a while you did have a lot of drama being associated with your name. Some of the men remember that some new guys might now and when they go to ask about you some will say hey she's kinda had some drama around her.. The threads are here for everyone to go look at for themselves.. Lately your threads have been clear of it but to those that don't care for you when they see it all they think about it drama. There is nothing you can do. Some will like you, Some will not like you but still respect you and some well wont like you and will disrespect you... Ive never not liked you nor have I disrespected you in anyway. Do I feel like you have drama, Sometimes yes. Only because of what I have seen on the boards but unless you bring the drama to me I try to stay away from it.. I would have no problem giving you a reference if you asked, No problem answering a question if you had one for me. I don't think there is any provider or client on here who I have ever had an issue with nor have anyone on here who disrespects me because I don't let little comments set me off, I stay out of most of it because when a client is looking to see someone he will look to see who she talks with on the boards, does she start fights, does she have drama, There has not been a thread where I had any drama going on. Im not sure the real reason you started this thread. I saw a review where there were some comments but just let it go, not everyone is going to like you.. Not everyone likes me Im sure but when you make threads like this well it doesn't make you look any better.. No one wants to see someone who is out running to everyone trying to start drama..

You are a smart woman, you know what you are doing and how you want to do it. Let this thread go and carry on like you have been, no drama... If ppl still think there is drama then whatever you cant please everyone.. There are plenty of other men out here who do see you and want to see you so those who bring up that they have heard drama about you just let it go and don't worry about them, Why give time to someone who already thinks little of you, chances are they are just going to go back and talk about you to stir things up some more.....

Again Ive never had a problem with you nor have I even spoken to you, I don't not like you I just keep to my self so please don't think Im attacking you in my response. If you don't like me that is fine it still doesn't make me feel any different about you. While I admit some of the drama on the boards is entertaining and gives us things to laugh at it really is old and childish. Next time someone says something instead of defending yourself and giving them your attention which they wanted to spark a rise out of you just ignore it. Im not saying don't stand up for yourself but just don't make a big deal out of it and maybe after you ignoring them enough they will stop as well!!!!