is it me?

[theasianview]

I am in Austin for a few days, decide to see who is around, see some that I am interested in, pm them here and texted them. They ask for handle and than dead air, is it bad that I am from out of town?

[fun2come]

May be the Yankee dollars are no good here?

Are you being nice, polite respectful in your PM/texts?
No Yo's, hey there's, or forbidden topic's?

May be somebody from the Newbie friendly list will suit you? I know you are NOT a newbie, just an idea.
http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...06&postcount=5

I am sure it will turn out fine for you. We got some AWESOME ladies here

[theasianview]

no yo, or anything that would be considered disrespectful, more like hi, how are you, see your ad on eccie, they ask handle and than the crickets starts playing

I was hoping that while I was here I would get to hear some awesome southern accent, surprisingly, I haven't heard any

[fun2come]

Try the ISO section: http://www.eccie.net/forumdisplay.php?f=796

May be: Looking for Southern Accent with a few dialects

[Mia Christine]

Originally Posted by theasianview

I am in Austin for a few days, decide to see who is around, see some that I am interested in, pm them here and texted them. They ask for handle and than dead air, is it bad that I am from out of town?

Hi! Welcome to Austin!
Ummm, I can't see why there would be an issue at all. You are
from another state, but very well established. Like F2C said, as long as your
inquiries were respectful, I don't see a problem. They may be checking references,
but should let you know that your verification is in progress, and offer updates. At least, that's what I do.
I'm so sorry to hear that you're having trouble!

We are honestly, quite a friendly bunch!
Enjoy your stay!

[Britttany_love]

I agree with what others have said im not sure why they wouldn't respond you are established here. Maybe some girls aren't comfortable seeing guys that aren't local with references they know. Not sure what ladies your contacting but they could also be girls that have horrible tcb.

[Austintatious Lilly]

I LOVE To Entertain Out Of Towners!!!


I ALWAYS Give Them A SWEET TASTE Of AUSTIN!!!!!

[19Trees]

Be persistent. There are a LOT of providers on duty now, a raft of newbies looking for reviews and a bevvy if visiting providers.

One little thing seems to help a lot: include in your SUBJECT LINE "Request for [incall/outcall] appointment on Thursday August 22" ... seems that peeps with short attention, peeps with small cellular phone (use mobile version m.eccie), peeps who get 8 inquiries for every one confirmed appointment with reliable hobbyist... PM's often get "lost" or overlooked...

Use subject line, be specific and persistent. Thanks for visiting and HAVE FUN.

19Trees

[JennsLolli]

Hello fellow traveler -- I'm from out of town myself and in Austin for a few days. I used to work up in Boston, but never got around to NY. I don't know where I'm going with this, it's late and I'm tired...but just wanted to say something. Or something. =) This getting my brains fucked out seems to cut down on my ability to be clever on here.

[fun2come]

theasianview, you are one smart Yankee !!

So that's how you get all the Ladies to come out ...
Mia, Britt, Lilly, Lolli, quite an all ATX all star line up with one return visitor.

Even a Tree with some deeply rooted advice (BTW Tree, your excellent advice way back then on how to ask for a meeting - almost got me a date once - J/K.

[shayla84]

I am also available sweetie

[LordBeaverbrook]

Originally Posted by 19Trees

Be persistent. There are a LOT of providers on duty now, a raft of newbies looking for reviews and a bevvy if visiting providers.

One little thing seems to help a lot: include in your SUBJECT LINE "Request for [incall/outcall] appointment on Thursday August 22" ... seems that peeps with short attention, peeps with small cellular phone (use mobile version m.eccie), peeps who get 8 inquiries for every one confirmed appointment with reliable hobbyist... PM's often get "lost" or overlooked...

Use subject line, be specific and persistent. Thanks for visiting and HAVE FUN.

19Trees

Great advice, may have to try. There seems to be a lot of bad TCB and inconsistent TCB, but ladies are often trying to corral IM, PM, phone, e-mail, forums, etc.... I try to be understanding, but I also look for who shows to be online by the little green light, I PM them to see if they respond, plus I check their showcase to see if they have a contact preference (Like ALily for instance) phone or e-mail listed. I also usually have three or four picked out if the first couple don't get back fairly quickly.

Funny story, last night I was setting up a session with a new lady and had a backup plan (I'd called both earlier to see if they would pick up, hear the voice and ask if they were likely to be free later) while having some phone and IM issues with my 1st pick, I IM'd the backup with "Hey BB?" and got a reply of "No". Now I'm thinking that she though BB was a name not "baby", but it did perplex me for a bit. Fortunately for me, directions were a bitch in a sketchy part of town, but I uncovered a gem that I may introduce over here soon when I can't have her all to myself anymore

[theasianview]

thank you all for the kind encouragement

[Britttany_love]

Hey Aus you might have confused that said provider with the " Hey BB? " to some that could be misinterpreted as " Hey Bare Back? That could have been the reason for a quick no, as there are many who still solicit that.

[fun2come]

Yup, that's how I read the "Hey BB?"

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