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Old 05-29-2010, 07:31 PM   #1
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Smile Best True Book about Providing?

I was sitting here, enjoying all the fun (and more disturbing) posts) of both hobbyists and providers, when I started thinking of what it must be like to be a provider. You know, as a female type person in the business full time.

I really did. Well, for about 1 minute,48 seconds. Until i was this cute 38 year old girl trying to make car payments, child care payments, health insurance, rent, health club, etc, and all the other things a regular income takes care of. But i had to do it all by seeing strange guys and never knowing what the week's income would be. The uncertainty scared me to death. And I hadn't even gotten to imagining the scattering of rude, smelly, cretins waiting for me so I could pay the bills. Whew. ya gotta be one tough cookie.

My question is: what do you think is the best book available that explains what it is like to be a provider? The real story. the ups and downs, strange discoveries and (of course) the ins and outs (pun intended).
Surely some nice lady has written a biography or tell all book. Can't wait to ask my library to get it for me!
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Old 05-29-2010, 07:39 PM   #2
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This book, Soiled Doves, by Anne Seagraves is quite fascinating:

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Old 05-29-2010, 10:52 PM   #3
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[IMG]http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A9G_bF7R7gFMXhsACbqjzbkF/SIG=1221p2acd/EXP=1275281489/**http%3a//www.bookitinc.com/pictures31/157199.jpg[/IMG]

I remember reading this book when I was a teen.
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Old 05-29-2010, 10:53 PM   #4
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Tried to send an image, sorry. Got lost in cyber space. The book is The Happy Hooker by Xaviera Hollander
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Tried to send an image, sorry. Got lost in cyber space. The book is The Happy Hooker by Xaviera Hollander


There you go, doll.

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Old 05-29-2010, 11:17 PM   #6
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If you want to read a good biography about a woman in this business try, "Working" by Dolores French. It's accurate and real.

If you're interested in a book offering specifics with advice and helpful hints, click on the link below. It's the best two "how to" books on the market. Affordable, too. BTW, Amanda Brooks is a member of this site.

http://www.theinternetescortshandbook.com

Good luck,
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Thank you Anonone!
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Elisabeth....... OMG thank you! I clicked on your link and it was like a treasure trove! Thank you, thank you, thank you! Oh and a very big THANK YOU to Lollygag for asking the question! Have I got something for you!
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Old 05-30-2010, 11:21 AM   #9
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solied doves is a great read!!!

I think for me,experience,reading forums on escort boards/blogs, and getting info from other reputable providers has helped me alot!

One day i am going to write a book on the "funnier" side of providing...lol
{name suggestions???....Green eggs & hooking????.......Chicken Soup for the hookers soul???......A funny thing happened on the way to the bedroom???.....Oops Did you just fart in bed????....etc}
Sorry for rambling,I had a late nite and am going slow steam today!
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I remember when the Happy Hooker came out and the graduate for that matter, my how times have changed.
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Old 05-30-2010, 01:55 PM   #11
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I used to spurn computers, said I would never have one. Look at me now!
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this article appeared in Gambit Magazine. I forget who this was, but she lived in New Orleans. I think she came out of retirement.

http://bestofneworleans.com/gyrobase...id=oid%3A32012
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Old 05-30-2010, 07:43 PM   #13
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Our library doesn't have Soiled Doves. It does have Segraves' other book, Women Who Charmed the West. I will try inter-library loan. thanks for the suggestion
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Nicolet, you are getting to be an absolute wiz at this internet and posting stuff. Keep it up!
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Old 05-30-2010, 08:51 PM   #15
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Smile Cool. many thanks ladies & gents

Found Working by Delores French and the Happy Hooker in our state library.

Can you believe EBR library has neither? whatever happened their devotion to scholarly research??? hmmmm? Now I have to learn about sex in the gutter. <G>

Soiled Doves I suppose I'll hafta buy but that's ok.

Many thanks to all for helping my overly curious and very prurient mind learn more about something I was completely ignorant about 2 months ago.

Now I Are A Xprt! but gotta continue my field research .... wheeeeee
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