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Cumslinger · 08-14-2012, 07:20 AM

Date: 8-13-2012
Provider: Lindsay
Phone: -
Email Address: -
URL / Website: http://kc.backpage.com/BodyRubs/what...the-30/7505215
City: kansas city
State: Missouri
Address: -
Appointment Type: Incall
Did the Appointment take place at the agreed-upon time?: -
Activities: None. Agreed to meet at 4. I arrived at the gas station as she requested and called for final directions. No answer. Left voice mail. Still nothing. Tried a couple more times over the next 20 mins and finally left
Session Length: -
Fee: -
Hair Length and Color: -
Age: -
Smoking Status: -
Ethnic Background: -
Physical Description: -
Recommendation: No

Cumslinger · 08-14-2012, 07:29 AM

And I still haven't heard from her. I understand that last minute things can change ones plans but that is no excuse to not let the other party know so they don't waste their time. That little round trip cost me almost 2 hours. Thanks.

Guest052813-01 · 08-14-2012, 07:30 AM

Moved to Coed Discussions as this was an NC/NS appointment and no activities took place.

beechguy · 08-14-2012, 08:51 AM

I know the feeling CS! I was stood up buy her in June and it was really annoying, wasted the whole morning for nothing!

skinless · 08-14-2012, 08:52 AM

She did the same to me a while back, which is why I have yet to see her. Everything was on the level, and at the last call no answer.

Cumslinger · 08-14-2012, 09:33 AM

I was also stood up by MJ Mary Jane a while back but didn't know about this site back then so I never posted about it. I just don't understand the mentality of an individual who is so completely thoughtless and inconsiderate. The MJ trip also cost me a couple hours. Surely they must know they will get negatively reviewed. There's simply no reason to waste peoples time and inconvenience them. If something comes up that precludes a scheduled mtg then simply say so! Its just so easy. Most of will understand and reschedule. But due to these two individuals complete lack of consideration, the same consideration they no doubt expect from their clients, I and hopefully many more will not patronize them. They both lost any future business from me.

Sweetwilliam · 08-14-2012, 09:59 AM

Lindsay did the same thing to me last week. I talked to her 15 minutes before I arrived at Highway 71 and Blue Ridge and then called four times and sat around 20 minutes. I didn't realize she makes it a habit. No excuse for that.

SinsOfTheFlesh · 08-14-2012, 10:52 AM

There are alot of ladies on here who do not have a history of NCNS. Just sayin

sinbad6969 · 08-14-2012, 12:36 PM

I just don't get. What's the point of the NCNS after they have gone to the effort of placing an ad and then going thru the process of setting up a meeting. I understand life's issues do come up and those can usually can be handled with a simple call or text. It would appear that several people go thru alot of effort only to NCNS. In any event I appreciate tje info from everyone.

Sweetwilliam · 08-14-2012, 01:52 PM

You're right, Stacy, and those are the ones we should support. I must not have done my homework because I had only seen good things about Lindsay. NCNS without a valid reason is the one thing that is a deal breaker for me.

friscowindsor · 08-15-2012, 11:32 AM

Lindsay 3 times without incident. I know she has been in the middle of extensive renovations to her home (which she normally operates from) and has used other locations to work. Another unfortunate situation. I personally do not like this two call system thing where a girl says go to a location and then call for final directions. Don't know why it started, it's not necessary, if I get that, I pass. Plan B is always, always necessary. Have a backup plan. I am new to the site here but have been hobbying waaaay too long, LOL. I am not supporting her for these incidents, but she is an awesome girl and worth consideration. It would be a shame to trash her too heavily for (logistic issues). There are plenty of girls out there that false advertise, are a mess, and give shitty service, NOT the case with LIndsay. Her renovations are complete at her home, things should settle down, just sayin..........

SinsOfTheFlesh · 08-15-2012, 11:55 AM

Well if you pass on women who use a two call system, you must pass up alot of women, because I don't know any woman who doesn't use two calls to get their specific location.

THere are several reasons for using two calls. First off, when you arrive at the location I give you, I want to SEE you. Yes, I'm looking out my window. I want to see if any other cars are pulling up, and if you are alone in your vehicle. Most importantly, we get alot of flakes too. In 6 years of escorting, I've never NCNS'ed anyone (except you Mex, and that was an accident for which I apologized profusely). But I can't count how many times I've been flaked on. There is no way in hell I am going to give someone my specific location, only to have them not show up, and now I have no idea in hell who is running around out there with my location. Finally, the two minutes it takes to provide my security code and room number is used to put the finishing touches on my preparations - a quick swish of mouthwash, a bit of lip gloss, and the finishing touches on whatever lingirie ensemble I've chosen, turn on some music, and do one last sweep to make sure my incall is tidy. Yes, I am in fact superwoman to be able to do all that in about 2 mins, but its worth it.

I use a fixed incall too, and over the years have had repairs, water pipes bust, lost power, even my street torn up which pretty well trapped me for an entire week and made it impossible for anyone to get within two blocks of my building. Guess what? When my pipes busted, when I had some painting done, when work crews tore up my street - NONE of these things caused my PHONE to break, or cost me an internet connection so that I could not EMAIL or call someone and cancel.

As I said in my previous post, stick with women with a solid history of being reliable, and two call systems aren't a problem. It is done for security, and my safety trumps your paranoia.

BeautifulBree · 08-15-2012, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Cumslinger

... the same consideration they no doubt expect from their clients,

Oh cumslinger how I wish we got that consideration... Ive been stood up toooo many times...

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Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

There are alot of ladies on here who do not have a history of NCNS. Just sayin

YESSS!!!!!

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Originally Posted by friscowindsor

I personally do not like this two call system thing where a girl says go to a location and then call for final directions. Don't know why it started, it's not necessary, if I get that, I pass.

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Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Well if you pass on women who use a two call system, you must pass up alot of women, because I don't know any woman who doesn't use two calls to get their specific location.

THere are several reasons for using two calls. First off, when you arrive at the location I give you, I want to SEE you. Yes, I'm looking out my window. I want to see if any other cars are pulling up, and if you are alone in your vehicle. Most importantly, we get alot of flakes too.

But I can't count how many times I've been flaked on. There is no way in hell I am going to give someone my specific location, only to have them not show up, and now I have no idea in hell who is running around out there with my location.

As I said in my previous post, stick with women with a solid history of being reliable, and two call systems aren't a problem. It is done for security, and my safety trumps your paranoia.

YES I dont think these guys understand how much we are flaked on ... or better yet how many people call to set up appointments just to play on the phone... or how many creepers really try and set up appointments... I use a 2 call system ... Ive had guys who say they are pulling in and they arent... when you dont use the 2 call system you give your specific location ... and then nobuddy shows up... it creeps you out... or if in a hotel they show up and for some reason the house maid is in the room or in the hall (AWKWARD) .. A girl wants a 2 min heads up ... not too much to ask.... me personally I am terrified of every worst horror movie event happening to me... sooo i want to see who you are before i tell you where I am ....

Grizzly · 08-15-2012, 01:40 PM

What Bree you don't want recreate the Physco shower scene bummer.I'm joking Bree. I've got no problem with giving. You ladies a heads up

friscowindsor · 08-15-2012, 05:54 PM

Maybe I got off track, this is not about me, my preferences or yours. I think this thread started about a Lady named Lindsay, who if I recall is in the Body Rub section. I agree there is no excuse for NCNS by anyone ladies or gentlemen. A phone call is such a simple a easy courtesy "I can't make it, something came up"
I don't and I seriously don't know what happened with these situations with Lindsay, I have had nothing but good experiences with her. Every story has two sides, we all have our paranoia. We all share our fears, we all have our bad experiences, I can guarantee you I have been fucked over by more ladies and I use the term loosely, than I have offended. I try to treat everyone with respect, we are all in the same game. I say this once and I will say it again, Lindsay has treated me well, I don't give her reason not to. As I say, situations happen, and there are always two sides. Lindsay's "atta girls" will highly outweigh her "oh shits" she will be fine.