I guess since we would be looking at gfe the main thing i would want would be a provider that actually gets into kissing ...long deep passionate kisses with lots of tongue.
then if i could go to a little kinkier side i wouldnt mind trying a session where i either tie up the provider and do anything i wanted to her with a blindfold on including toys and oils or vice a versa where i took my turn with blind fold on tied up and let the provider have her fun.
then you could always add another provider to make it even more fun..but lots of people arent up to that the first time you see them because it takes a little trust for someone to tie you up and blind fold you and let them have their way with you.
im game for anything that is fun !