Is age a factor for providers?

[hotlicks58]

I know that many providers will not see a client under a certain age, which is understandable, but I wonder how many have an upper limit as well. I am in my 60s and started in the hobby back when Susan, Candice, Becky and Jenna were the crème de la crème in KC. In recent years I haven't been as active and have mostly seen a couple of UTR providers so my references became dated and newer providers sometimes refused to see me. I completely understood their reluctance and, thinking this would solve my dilemma, I joined p-411 which involved revealing some very personal information getting verified by 2 current p-411 providers. Right away I tried to schedule an appointment through p-411 with a local provider who is well known on eccie. That was nearly 2 weeks ago and she has yet to respond to my request. A week later I sent a private message through p-411 to another well known local provider, who is also on eccie, requesting info about donations, as they were not posted anywhere, and I have yet to hear from her. Both of these ladies get great reviews and, from their posts on here, seem to be very professional so the only conclusion I can draw from this is that some providers just don't want to see older men but won't come out and say so. So ladies, how important is age to you? If it is a factor, would you be up front and tell a prospective client or would you just ignore him and leave him wondering?

[Allie_Kat]

Judging by your reviews, you seem like you have the necessary references. Your age makes no difference in MY decisions at least. I believe you've inquired with me in the past, but for some reason we haven't been able to meet yet.

[hotlicks58]

Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

Judging by your reviews, you seem like you have the necessary references. Your age makes no difference in MY decisions at least. I believe you've inquired with me in the past, but for some reason we haven't been able to meet yet.

Thanks Allie,
I'm still hoping to meet you...our schedules just haven't jived.

[ampad]

It's always nice when a ladies showcase indicates a preferred age range if they indeed have a preference.

[sinbad6969]

Hotlicks I feel your pain. I am not in my 60s but I'm up there. If I get a sub-par preformance from a younger provider who has good reviews I feel it is because of my age. If this is the case, I wished I would have known going in. As a result I look for an older provider but sometimes you just want someone whi is a little younger. I agree with ampad when he said it would be nice if ladies would indicate a preferred age range. This would help with making a more comfortable experience for everyone concerned.

[wildcat88]

When make a p411 appointment request or go through ECCIE I try to indicate my age, 60s, and sometimes the providers don't even bother to reply, frustrating. However, the ones who do reply know what they are getting into and that has worked out well.

[big country]

If the young providers have a hang up with older guys I think they are in the wrong profession. Rent might be a little late if they wait on young studs to grace thier doors.

[KCAbdan]

I am in my mid 50's and haven't had any providers that seemed to be disappointed with my age (or anything else for that matter), but I have seen providers that list the age that they prefer and I am too old for some. Personally I wish there were more providers in their 40's and 50's, since I normally don't like those in their 20's (there are always exceptions of course). So, I understand if younger ones don't prefer those of us that are getting up there. But they should either state that someplace or give it their best. And, for the ladies, COME ON you MILF's, where ARE you?

[KenMonk]

I have had the same issues with age but from the younger side. I am 30 and I have met some ladies they said they won't see me based solely on my age, which is fine. If they don't wish to see me or they force themselves to do something they don't want to do how can I have a good time?

[Missy Mariposa]

Much like race, I refuse to discriminate based on something so petty. When I was robbed, it was an older white man. When I was assaulted, it was a young white guy. If I were to paint everyone with the same brush, I'd be out of business.

So to me, no - your age is not a factor, as long as you are above the age of consent!

[Taylor Sims]

I see guys from 21 and up!!!!!!! As long as I am treated nice and with respect I dont mind seeing anyone. Hugs and Kisses!!!!!!!!!

[cuddlyteddybear]

I remember Jackie posting about having a longtime client who was 20+ years older than you.

[JayceeRivers]

over all I prefer to see someone 30 and over. I don't have a age cap. with age comes wisdom intelligence and often a well practiced gentleman. There are occasional exceptions to all rules and I try not to judge anyone prior to meeting them. In fact I try never to judge them at all just enjoy them for who they are

[DallasRain]

age is not relevent if you are a gentleman! lol

[hotlicks58]

I agree that a lady has the right to set age limits and I wouldn't want to spend time with her if she was not comfortable with me, I just think she should be out front about it. I find it interesting that neither of those who ignored my inquiries have responded here either though one of them posts often in this forum. I would like to hear their thoughts on this and would not "out" them if they wanted to comment.

Originally Posted by KenMonk

I have met some ladies they said they won't see me based solely on my age, which is fine. If they don't wish to see me or they force themselves to do something they don't want to do how can I have a good time?