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apack77 · 03-11-2012, 09:39 AM

Where would you guys go if you were trying to find a sugar baby / sugar daddy?? Wasn't sure if there was a site or anything that you all would recommend. Let me know your thoughts!!

MsElena · 03-11-2012, 10:22 AM

There's all kinds of sites, just type in sugar daddy in google/yahoo and you'll see them.

But, make sure you want that type of relationship and have a good idea of what you're willing to offer her, what you're expecting of her and make sure she's real.

BigMikeinKC · 03-11-2012, 11:56 AM

I'm still looking for a sugar mama!

apack77 · 03-11-2012, 05:52 PM

thanks elena... ideally what i'm after is someone thats just up for coming over and hanging out 2 to 3 nights a week and have some fun..

MsElena · 03-11-2012, 05:58 PM

I do have a question. Are you expecting the amount to be less than what a provider would charge you? Because if you're wanting 2 or 3 nights of hanging out and fun....I can tell you in all honesty, that in 95% of the time, it won't be.

BigMikeinKC · 03-11-2012, 06:02 PM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

I do have a question. Are you expecting the amount to be less than what a provider would charge you?

I'm sure it will be a hell of lot more in the long run. With a provider you always know what the score is. Being a sugar daddy is sure to be very costly, might not seem as much at first but it will in the long run.

Guest102513-1 · 03-11-2012, 06:07 PM

2 or 3 nights per week???

May I suggest Match.com

Guest052813-01 · 03-11-2012, 06:38 PM

It'll be cheaper for you in the long run to troll the bars.

Bartman1963 · 03-11-2012, 08:00 PM

It would be cheaper to masturbate constantly as well, but Apack wants to spend his money another way. I say go for it. See what happens. It's your debit card not mine.

But if you really want to drop a load of cash on a relationship that will ultimately leave you unfulfilled, empty and broke why not pay a porn star to fly out and entertain you? She'll only be doing guys you don't know about half a continent away, not in your bed or hot tub when you aren't around. Plus she'll be getting paid to do them by some producer, not the money you worked your ass off for. Hell, later you can even pay her to come back and do her while you watch her do them on the big screen you bought with the savings.

Not that I have any real feelings on the subject.

Really.

At all.

ks_marine · 03-11-2012, 08:19 PM

Apack - I recommend you start with the dedicated SD/SB national forum here at Eccie. There is a TON of info and some you'll see some KC specific details as well.

bartipero · 03-11-2012, 09:43 PM

A few weeks ago one of the TV network news mags did a story on this, either NBC or ABC, I'm not sure which now. It struck me that expectations would not be met, you will likely get the run around and you would probably get what you want with a regular provider you get to know probably for the same or even less ala carte. Now if money doesn't matter, it's a water fall to you, then consult with Charlie Sheen or the Sultan of Brunai.

JayceeRivers · 03-11-2012, 10:53 PM

Be prepared the SD/SB thing seems easy to find expecially on your end but ive heard some stories not scary persay but dampening to say the least. Good luck on your search though!

AllThisMeat · 03-12-2012, 10:47 AM

All good advice listed above. However, I've found 90% of my arrangements with SBs to be less costly than a provider. Sure, I end up paying a bit more month over month, but, I get more for it as well... more visits, longer playtime... great quality & menu.

The key for me is to agree to terms ahead of time & get what you want before paying for what they want.

apack77 · 03-13-2012, 07:54 AM

It's not really about the money it's more about what your getting in return. I don't have time to really date and things like that so the sd sb is kinda as close to the real thing as one can get without being in a real relationship. An I think as long as the expectations are understood on both ends from the start I don't know why it wouldn't work out. Just my thoughts....

guest010313 · 03-13-2012, 09:39 AM

I have had several successful sd/sb relationships. At the end of the day, there has to be trust and a genuine connection. I have read a number of versions of this discussion and the people that are anti sd/sb seem to fall under two categories. The women are unhappy because they think a sd has the right to control y,our life, and the men are unhappy because they feel it is a power struggle to keep from getting ripped off. I'll give you the same advice that I give women. Have a meal your first meeting. With the understanding between you that there will be nothing going on after. And stick to it. Wthout the pressure you will be able to see if you like to spend time with her, and she with you. If she is just looking for a hustle she will ask for cash. Pass! I would also recommend that you bring with you a *small* gift or card with a token amount in it. Keep it til you are leaving. If you like her, give it to her, thank her for the company and go.

The biggest mistake that I have found is a lack of respect on both sides. A good sd/sb relationship can be really amazing, and I genuinely care for the men that I have had that with. Good luck!