Etiquette Question

[lookintoo1]

Ok heres the deal. I have set the appointment and I have a couple of request. My lady has the landing strip and I would prefer bare. Not a deal breaker tho. Secondly my lady does greek and around the world. Also not a deal breaker if she was not in the mood. But I plan on it,maybe around the world maybe. How do I ask her to Prepare for these without being creepy and what not. Or do I just not worry about it and wing it when we meet? This is the first time i have seen this lady so everything I have stated come from her reviews. I have only seen one lady recently and so my experience is lacking on how to handle this. I want to maintain some respect for her and myself.

Thanks

[guest010313]

Get over the pubic hair, I cannot imagine that she will shave it off for a first time client.

The other stuff? Ask her if she is comfortable discussing activities before the date, but keep in mind....that will get you dropped by a fair number of women. If Greek is that important to you it is probably better to find a girl that always has it available.

[MsElena]

+1 of what SG said.

Myself, if a guy starts asking questions of if I'm bare or not or he starts asking about what activities are available, I tell him I don't discuss that and politely end the call.

The same goes for if he tells me to prepare for a certain activity.

[lookintoo1]

2great answers and advice I will follow. I will notbe bring anything up till we are good and comfy with each other. Because nothing here is a deal breaker by any means. Thanks again for the help!!

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Maybe I'm missing something (not difficult, I know), but if you know your provider does greek, she'll probably "come prepared for it", if you ask for it (or she wants it) in the session. If it doesn't happen the first time, and she's good enough for a return visit, maybe you can discuss in person what you'd like on that 2nd trip?

Otherwise, like the ladies have already said, limit the inquisitions over the phone, otherwise, you'll be talking to a dial-tone. Have fun!

[rharley]

THIS is why there's a review section!

[dbflyer]

I'm not at all picky about grooming. I like 'em all. I usually find out what the lady likes or allows from reviews, but on occasion I have asked if it was ok to talk about requests/desires after screening if there was any question. I've never had one say no to that.

[Guest080613]

I check the lady's reviews, read what I can on her P411 profile if she has her activities listed, and go from there. The first visit I NEVER ask anything over the phone, text, or email that might be inappropriate. My research will tell me if our first get to know you BCD visit has a chance of being successful.

If we both seem to have a good time then after the session I might make some inquiries while we're still together if I have any questions or requests, but by that time the provider will know I am who I say I am and not a threat to her.

Jack

[AllThisMeat]

Rarely should anyone ever discuss menu items. I go by what a chick's showcase and reviews read. If it says she's bare, then you'll probably get a bare girl. If it says she likes greek then that shouldn't be a problem either. However, most girls want a little heads up if you're going to be coming in the back door. I had a gay room mate once and he used to do a lot of prep before his "friends" would come over. I would assume that ladies have a similar ritual for preparing for rear-access.

It looks to me like you have the right idea as it is though.

[Guest020720]

well - as far as greek goes - i need to know that's what is specifically wanted.

I don't go into every session prepared for it - good god no.

I mean - talk about fucking up my system.

Discussing things is one matter - preparing a lady for it is another.

Does that make sense?

Not to be overly blunt - but hey, I am who I am.

it's not like I walk into sessions 3 days blocked up or anything - but there is a HUGE difference between being prepared for greek vs. not being prepared.

Who's to say you aren't a 8 incher with some decent girth? Just being eh, "maybe" isn't going to be passable. KNOWING is better than a "maybe".

See what I'm saying?

As far as the landing strip goes? Leave that be.

Every time I start to grow - I listen to some dumb ass tell me to shave it and I regret it!

Leave her alone on that.

You may now go back to your regularly schedule decent and pleasant conversations. LMAO!