Sex with Trans women, and encounter reports.

[asianlover504]

Many guys on the forum don't know where to post encounters with tran women, or they are scared to post because of being labeled. I will post in Encounter Reports and sometimes Another Realm. Don't make negative comments if someone post their encounter, especially if you haven't experience it and are just homophobic.


If you are wondering here is what I found out.


Sexual orientation is about who you are generally attracted to, not whether a partner is cis or trans, or what specific acts you did together. From what you describe, your experiences most clearly show that you are attracted to women (including a trans woman), which fits comfortably within being straight, though some men also choose labels like bi, heteroflexible, or just “no label” for similar experiences


Sexual orientation is usually defined by the gender(s) you’re attracted to over time, not by one encounter or specific acts like anal sex or oral sex.


A trans woman is a woman; many cis men who date or have sex with trans women identify as straight or heterosexual and do not see themselves as gay.


Everything you describe involves you with a woman, who happens to be trans, and you enjoyed that; that is consistent with attraction to women rather than to men.


Enjoying being penetrated, giving or receiving blowjobs, or swallowing semen does not, by itself, make someone gay; those are just sexual behaviors, and many straight-identified men enjoy similar acts with partners they see as women.


It is valid to say you are straight if you feel primarily attracted to women (including trans women), and it is equally valid to use another label or no label if that feels more honest to you; you get to pick what fits, and it can change over time

[haya1300]

Not my thing, but I say to each their own. Who am I to judge anyone for what their liking and preference is.... I say just go enjoy yourself and be safe!!

Cheers

[runkle]

Agree with haya above. To each their own, what you do behind closed doors is your business and no one else'. With that said, its not my thing, but dont try to kid yourself by pretending that man who has tits and wears makeup is a woman. He will ALWAYS be a man. Thats a FACT. If you want to do that, by all means go for it, just dont kid yourself. And maybe being penetrated by another penis, giving and receiving bjs from another man, and swallowing semen dont make one gay.....but it does make one gayer than me. But if thats your thing, go for it and dont let me or anyone else stop you. Just dont pretend that a man can ever possibly be a woman.

[Xio1156]

Trans women are men. There is nothing wrong with being gay, you do whatever makes you happy. What two consenting Adults do should never be a crime, be safe out there.

[Boosh]

I agree, it makes no difference to me with what you or anyone else does in the bed room. Its just not my thing. All id ask is that, if there is an encounter report for a tranny, please include the TS in the title. So those of us who dont want to read about it can skip it. Thanks and Merry Christmas