The risk reward of Escort Alligator

[Spider-fly]

The sites with legit ads always seems to rotate a bit. EA has become a one of those sites some amazing and legit providers post on. I have had some amazing success using it but damn... It also has a dark side. Often instead of a reply, you get a threatening text with a horrific picture trying to fear extort money. It has gotten to the point of being much more trouble than what it's worth. Many of the ads quickly change numbers and sometimes use pictures from legit ads.

I've noticed that many providers will post on multiple sites to try and get max exposure. Even then there getting catfished or ripped off happens way too much. It's almost not worth even contacting a non-vetted provider. massage parlor ladies are far better reviewed but they all seem to chose from the same 4 codes names. It often makes visits impossibly confusing, especially considering how often those ladies move about. Sites like rubs maps seldom describe current staff.

What experiences have you guys had with misinformation and exploitative hostility on sites like RM and EA?

[Spider-fly]

I got a threat a week ago asking for 5g because of passively worded inquiry texts to potential providers. This seems to happen a lot when using EA. Those texts were so many days after I sent the texts I couldn't remember what add the came from. Provider numbers tend to change almost daily during the best of times anyway.

[Dpoundsya505]

I tend to research the phone number and if it has multiple hits on different websites I research those to see if the pictures and info match. If there is no info or something sketch is up like different pics or different girls or multiple ads in different locations at the same time I do not contact. I haven’t experienced threats yet but I have gotten catfished on STG more than a couple of times and robbed and shot at but that was before I started doing more research. AMPS are my go to now a days for the most part because they’re just more convenient and I usually check out who’s on staff at multiple ones and narrow it down to what I’m looking for that particular visit. I’ve gotten lucky a couple of times with the reviews for AMPs but your right they’re usually long goan or a different provider by the time I get there lolz. Take your time and do some digging and I think you’ll have a bit better luck but ultimately it’s always a measured gamble.

[An_Original_UNAME]

EA, STG, EM, etc are all decent websites if you want a "sketchier than average" encounter on short notice. In a city like (arbitrary) Denver or LA? That is awesome because the "average" is already really good.


In ABQ? The average is a lady who has raw dogged half the state, a gal who has been doing this for almost a decade and still can't reliably make her sessions, a dead fish, etc. So our "below average" tends to be more people who... are really doing this to survive and may consider doing other things to survive instead.


I'll second the "just go to an AMP" if you just want to get your rocks off. ABQ honestly has one of the best scenes in the country for that. Some places are in sketchy parts of town, others are right off the main roadways. Basically anywhere with The Neon Sign will give you CFS and you can decide if you "forgot your wallet" the moment the provider gets to the airlock since the mamasan/bait and switch model is not as popular. Reviews are almost entirely nonsense but... you don't really need a review for that.


And if I want something "more" (and none of my regulars are available)? I honestly just skip the games (hee hee) and go straight to tryst/PD. Yeah, the price is considerably higher but the providers are super easy to vet and it tends to be the crowd that have the clarity of mind to make an actual ad and potentially have reviews (not so much at this site anymore but...).


Because, yeah, the STGs of the world are dirt cheap but they aren't THAT much cheaper than an AMP. And the latter is all but guaranteed if you don't reek of shit.

[MrLoverMan505]

I like to hit up the Latinas on EA. Sometimes they're bait and switch. Most times it's the actual girl. They never speak English, but I'm not there to talk. More or less you can weed out the fakes by looking at pics and or searching numbers. I have slipped up and got the cartel shakedown texts... but I'm still alive. Those are usually area codes from the south.

[Mecca]

Originally Posted by MrLoverMan505

I like to hit up the Latinas on EA. Sometimes they're bait and switch. Most times it's the actual girl. They never speak English, but I'm not there to talk. More or less you can weed out the fakes by looking at pics and or searching numbers. I have slipped up and got the cartel shakedown texts... but I'm still alive. Those are usually area codes from the south.

Yeah some of the EA Latin girls are legit. Mostly operate out of the same hotel. I don't see them often cause they upsell and GFE is non-existent.

[Frankthehumanboy]

Originally Posted by Dpoundsya505

I usually check out who’s on staff at multiple ones and narrow it down.

Any tips on etiquette? Do you just walk in, ask who's available, and say "I might be back later"?

When I'm cruising the streets ladies seem to react well to "I'll be driving around for a bit," other forms of dismissal make them hostile lol

[joyote]

I tried that, once

I went in, met the babe,
then tried to leave, saying
“maybe tomorrow”

she took my hand and pulled me back in, saying…
“tomorrow”, with a bit of disdain, “no tomorrow”

she was a lot of fun

[B Friendly]

I agree that there are scammers trying to extort $ on Alligator.
Better luck when only using reviewed providers.

[UnfoldingLaundry]

Seems like even the normally good sites are getting infested with OF spam or scams
Looking at Tryst.... and some on PD
Some even using the messaging platforms I consider to be a marker of a serious lady that is real.... getting pretty annoying tbh but I guess just stick to ladies I can depend on or ones that have an entertaining Twitter feed or know some of the ladies I converse with (enjoy when a reference becomes a recommendation and the new lady gets more excited than me)

no p411 for me, and any ladies I've tried to converse with on here for verification = ghosting

[An_Original_UNAME]

Only Fans is not inherently a scam. In a lot of ways, it is a REALLY smart verification system on our side as real time photoshopping of videos/clips is probably still a few months from mainstream and you tend to get some wank material out of it. A couple years back I was really interested in a "tie and tease" session but was a bit wary of the provider for one reason or another. Saw she had an OF, paid the ten bucks or so as a scouting fee, liked what I saw, and reached out. And a gal I see whenever we are in the same city has begun experimenting with getting her "deposit" in the form of proof of purchase at manyvids.


At the end of the day, it is just another form of social media to help decide if a provider is "real". How needed it is in an era where twitter is more hardcore pornography than dril memes is up for debate, but it is still something that can be used to reverse image search, cross reference against other ad sites, and so forth. And, much like with instagram and snapchat, if someone says to contact them on that platform instead of via text or email (or even the ad site's platform), that is a massive red flag.