Haters. What would you do if...

[Likinikki]

you found out someone had created an imposter profile of you on myspace, facebook, or twitter, etc., and, used actual photos to out you to your closest friends/family...and, you were able to find out who it was?

What would you do...and what do you think is justified as a payback...or would you just let it go?

[tim_29m]

Definately wouldn't let that go...if I were to find out who it was I would hunt them down and use every muscle in my 6 1/2 foot body to ensure they wouldn't do anything like that again to somebody else! Kind of like my privacy!! :-)

[Doglegg]

Nope couldn't let it go, definitely time for old testament retribution---eye for an eye.

[Marcus78]

I wouldn't let it go. If I knew who it was, there would be Hell to pay! I hope this is purely hypothetical and that nothing like this happened to you Nikki!

[sanantonioman37]

Hoping this is just a What If question.

Damn thats a horrible situation to be in, sounds like the damage has already been done. Someone has decided to fuck with your family, friends and life. Thats just unforgivable, you can't let it go. I do not advocate violence but this would cause me to come damn close. If its a hobbyist, then do an alert and/or post in the powder room. I would say create an impostor page about this person on myspace, facebook, twitter or etc. But at this point not sure if it is actually worth it, the damage has been done.

It takes a real asshole to go after family and friends.
If this happened to you, Good luck.
If you need, you have friends here for support.

[Laz]

I would do anything I could to harm them but only if it did not harm you more by dragging it out and stopping you from minimizing the damage to you.

Like everyone else I hope this is theoretical.

[Mossman]

If this were to happen, it would obviously be the work of a very vengeful and unstable personality. That said, we all hide here behind our handles and provider personas, not only because of legal issues but also because of fear of personal damage to ourselves and our loved ones. We make the choice! Knowing we could be "outed", we still make the choice. I think we have to own our choices, no matter what the pain. It's been said, "don't get down in the mud with a pig, you'll just get muddy and the pig loves it." Make amends with friends and family and move on. Reaction is what this person is looking for...don't give him or her the satisfaction!

[Travelingbro]

I agree with dogleg.... the old testament he mentioned and take it even to a tooth for a tooth. Think it out and be patient.... and then go for that tooth!

[flinde]

First thing, in that situation, you need to be very cautious and careful - you already know that you are dealing with a psycho, and who's to say how psycho. Better to be safe, embarrased maybe, than to be embarrased and get into a dangerous situation by escalating.

[Pepper_Springfield]

Post all their shit online! Out them right back! Friends, family, and if they have a reg job, out them there too! That's what they get for fucking up! buahahahahahaha And if you dont know their info, get a guy friend to set up an appt with them if it's possible, and then try to get info on them from there, like at least where they work from and you can out them there, if nothing else. Yup, I guess Im a little evil if you would fuck with me! But you have to defend yourself when someone does something like that to you! Eye for an eye! If it isnt another provider, hmmmm let me think about that LOL

[Likinikki]

I've always been a person to say, "two wrongs never make a right," but, where do you draw the line? When someone has no regard for a person's family...should a person look the other way?

[Pepper_Springfield]

They do that because they think someone wont do anything about it. I would be super mad and even if it doesn't make a right, they did you wrong, so why try to make it right for them? Fuck that! If that were me, I would say, "It's on bitch!"

[Laz]

Mutually assured destruction worked for years as way to avoide nuclear war. The same concept applies here. People need to know doing something like that will have severe consequences to them also. Reality is that someone will probably be stupid enough to do it. Making an example of them will be a warning for the next person and may prevent it from happening to someone else.

I would normally agre with your attitude on this Nikki but in this case it might prevent a future harm.

[Likinikki]

Haha...gotta love ya Pepper!

[Precious_b]

Happened to our mutual friend, Nikki.
She had to a whole lotta dancing to put on a convincing act for those she was outted to. Never knew the complete repercussions of that. Or if it was related to her departure.