regarding condoms

[valkyra]

Okay guys, nobody asked for it but I made it anyway!

Condoms! - Sexy Education by Valkyra


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��THIS IS A FREE, SFW VIDEO��

Safe sex is important to me personally, and the lack of intelligence and awareness surrounding the subject concerns me. I made this FREE VIDEO in hopes I can educate those who want to spend time with me as to why safe sex should be important to them as well!

Do you love it? Do you hate it? I don't actually care, but you telling me about it boosts this thread so please let me know what you think either way.

[lilylivered]

sex ed back in the 70s. Flashback

[bf0082]

No thank you, bbfs cip all the way ��

[biomed1]

Of the Image Standards Guideline

• Topless images, including nipples, and below the waist nudity is not allowed. Thongs, bikini bottoms, etc. are required. No exposed anus or exposed genitalia. No exceptions, even if nothing is exposed, there needs to be some sort of garment worn (e.g., underwear, bikini, thong, etc.). Butt cheeks are welcome. Additionally, images where the subject is wearing something below the waist, but still leave genitalia, the anus, or pubic hair partially exposed are not allowed. Clothing that clings to the genital region or clothing that is somewhat transparent is permitted. Common examples of what is not acceptable are nude shower photos where the lady is covered in bubbles or nude pictures of the lady kneeling even where the genital region is concealed, a garment must be worn and visible.
• No images of sexual acts whatsoever. Also, please avoid even the implication of sex acts (e.g., two people kissing, a person taking off another person’s shirt, etc.). No photos with multiple ladies or photos of two partially clad people. If you are not sure, then simply make it easy and avoid photos with more than one person. Male nudity is also not allowed.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by valkyra

please let me know what you think either way.

plastic man ...wouldnts feels ...safe havin sexy ...times withs ya evens ...ifs the lead shieldin fer a nuclear ...submarines reactor be ...betweens us

[valkyra]

This is why we can't have nice things �� I didn't consider the advertising images in the side, sorry.

Idk if you want bbfs thats fine, there's tons of providers who will work with you. I'm not one of them.

Plastic man, back at ya

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by valkyra

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Bless you for

saving any unsuspecting soles

the horra

[Gdubya110]

Originally Posted by valkyra

Plastic man, back at ya

Pimp handed by… a funnel!

Lead from the plastic pants… not from submarine… Number 2… pencil dick!

[Bigdaddy14606]

I have no trouble using protection. I mentioned before I always have one with me. I’m fortunate in the fact that the few times of weakness I had not used one I came out unscathed. After getting a clean bill of health last year I decided to carry and use one every time. Bare is offered way more then I ever saw in the past which is crazy. I have had a misfire during a nice bbbj does that still count as bare?

[valkyra]

After some thought and a cup of coffee;

Eccie's lame excuse for taking this down is that it links to a page with "other pornographic images" (MV ads on the side)
They also said something about my pasties, but my nipples are covered; so what, I can wear a see-through bikini, but not pasties? Okay /eyeroll/

Eccie... have you seen your own banner lately? In particular I'm looking at the bottom one. Looks like two women engaged in... something sexual.
Are you breaking your own rules?

I guess you guys will look for any excuse to take down something you don't agree with, hm?

It doesn't change the fact that men are allowed to freely discuss unsafe sex practices on these threads, but as soon as I step in to educate about safer practices, I get shut down and my link gets deleted. It's biased and fucked up.

STOP TRYING TO REGULATE UNSAFE WORK ENVIRONMENTS FOR SEX WORKERS.

In light of Eccie's very modest rules, I'll be posting the script so that you may read it without any possibility of seeing pornographic images.
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CONDOMS! - SEX(Y) EDUCATION BY VALKYRA
Hello friends! We are going to have a little sex education today.
This topic is important to me, as I take my own sexual health seriously and I hope by educating you a little bit that you will take yours seriously as well.
So here I am, and I hope I do a decent job explaining this and not hopefully not botching it up too badly. My tits are showing, so hopefully I can kind of keep your attention!

Sex is great, it can't be argued. It feels good, it's healthy to do, and it has a swarm of benefits for us, both physically and mentally. That said, it can also come with a number of risk factors for both parties, especially when it comes to vaginal intercourse.

Some people think, the only thing you have to worry about with unprotected sex, is getting pregnant, so as long as the woman is on birth control, we should be fine, right? - But that is incorrect!

Preliminary data for 2021 show 2.5 million reported cases of Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis, a continued increase from 2020 data. STD's and STI's have been on a steady increase now for over 7 years. There is lots of speculations as to why this might be happening, although there is a general agreement that it is because of the improper sexual education that continues to sweep the country to this day. There is also a general mindset that "it can't happen to me", and it absolutely CAN happen to you, and let me explain how- if you are having unprotected sex with one person, and that one person is having unprotected sex with 5 other people, and those 5 people are each having unprotected sex with another 5 people; you are swapping juices with 25 PEOPLE off of that one encounter alone. That's a lot, right? You can maybe say the one person is clean, but can you say that for everyone they are sleeping with?

The good news is, you don't have to let those statistics scare you, because you can protect against STD's and STI's with CONDOMS!

Condoms are easy to get, and easy to use. If you are having sex with multiple partners, condoms are especially important because they prevent both pregnancy and the spread of STD's. I personally keep a stash, because who likes being caught off guard? That way, no matter what, I always know I'm ready to go. You don't want to worry about if that one-time fling has something you don't want to bring home to my partner.. or even for you to hold onto. Not everyone is symptomatic, and men especially can carry Chlamydia for years, often not noticing until they get a new sexual partner and she becomes infected herself. (How embarrassing!)

Condoms protect from STD's/STI's by creating a skin-like barrier between yourself and your partner that is thin enough to still allow sensation, but not so thin or unstable that it breaks. I personally prefer Bare Skyn because they come in multiple sizes, are latex-free (so no weird smell) and have the least possibility of breakage, in my experience. As long as condoms are used properly, they should protect 98% from STD's and STI's.

Some things to keep in mind to ensure you're using the condom properly;
MAKE SURE THERE ARE NO TEARS OR HOLES. SHOULD MAKE A LITTLE BUBBLE WHEN YOU PUSH ON THE CLOSED PACKAGE. IF IT ISN'T THERE GET A DIFFERENT ONE. If there is an air hole, you don't want to pull out a dry condom - it could be more prone to breaking
MAKE SURE THE SIZE IS RIGHT FOR YOU.

DO NOT PUT LUBE ON BEFORE THE CONDOM!! THIS WILL CAUSE THE CONDOM TO SLIDE OFF. YOU WANT THE CONDOM TO GO ON FIRST AND THEN THE LUBE.

Here are a few more things to consider when using condoms with partners;
If you've consented to having sex with a person, and that person insists on using a condom, they are establishing a boundary with you. That boundary is not there as a test or a tease. It is there for the person's safety and for your own. Nobody has to disclose why they want to use a condom. If that boundary is to change, that is something you have to discuss in-depth with that person.

If you decide that you don't want to use a condom with someone, and remove it without telling them, that is RAPE.
Ergo, if you are having sex with someone who you KNOW has a firm boundary with using condoms, and the condom falls off or breaks during sex, the proper thing to do is to IMMEDIATELY stop what you are doing and tell them. If you do not immediately stop what you are doing to tell them, that is a form of RAPE called STEALTHING. The difference between stealthing and an accident is communication in a respectful time frame. Consent for sex in the beginning of sex does not cover for the entire act, and consent can be withdrawn at any point if boundaries are crossed.

If someone says they have a boundary and do not do something you enjoy, it is not up for you to debate. It is not "lame" that I don't want to expose myself to sexually transmitted infections. My safety is not a game to me. I take it very seriously. I love having fun sexual experiences with all sorts of different people, but I like to do it safely. If that isn't something you agree with or find sexy, that's okay, everyone has different preferences and I'm sure you can find someone who caters to your interest. But if you want to play with me, it's by my rules.
Thanks to listening to me ramble. <3
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[valkyra]

Originally Posted by Bigdaddy14606

I have had a misfire during a nice bbbj does that still count as bare?

what does bbbj stand for, big daddy?
bare oral and bare intercourse are two seperate things, but in both cases "bare" is a stand-in for "unprotected"

[LayingPipe]

Originally Posted by valkyra

I prefer to down the entire shot in one go. Sometimes it takes two milkshakes for me to really taste and appreciate what is being put in my mouth

What category does swallowing fall into ? Asking for a friend

[valkyra]

if you swallow the condom, LayingPipe, you should go to the ER.

[valkyra]

Uncovered oral is also just as risky and puts people at risk of STD's and STI's. If someone offers that, it doesn't mean they have to offer the other. It's a personal preference and is something to consider while you're choosing which provider will work best for you.

[valkyra]

I'm not saying you can't do BB. I'm asking certain people who seem to be particularly persistent about the subject to understand why some people might not want to offer BBFS.

Hardlikker12, you in here? I made this video with you in mind, and I hope you got a chance to see it. If not, please PM me and I will send you a link