Bella/Precious only sees White Males!

[Action77]

Not a review because my friend was not able to "date" her. But Bella/Precious
Stated that see only see's white males, so some of you gents may not want to waste the time.

My friend scheduled and appointment for the early hours this am, made the arrangements to meet at the Downtown hotel incall, drove the 20 mins to get there and wait. Had been instructed to go to a certain door near the parking garage when he noticed Precious/Bella and two other ladies heading to a vehicle. Another phone call had been made asking for his location and he stated where he had been waiting, all the time seeing individuals in the vehicle pulling out of the garage. Then Precious/Bella asked for his description, he informs her and then she stated she does not date black guys. Received a quick sorry and then phone call ends.


http://rochester.backpage.com/Female...ous-20/6633128

[BlackJedi]

Your buddy should have asked ahead of time in order to get that out of the way. Unfortanetely many woman in Rochester do not see Black males for many reasons. Gotta just move on I guess.

[Gotyour6]

There are black women that don’t see black males.
I dated a black girl that wouldn’t date a black male.

I asked her if it was because of the stereo type "Size"
She said it was attitude and 90% of them had one.

[99nighthawk]

If someone has a policy like that, it needs to be clearly stated instead of wasting people's time.. She needs some help with her TCB skills.

[NormalBob]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

She said it was attitude and 90% of them had one.

I've heard that from a couple of women who seemed like smart business people.

In my first period of hobbying, if I heard that a woman wouldn't see black guys, I wasn't interested in seeing her, thinking it was racist... ugly.

Listening to these two women, it sounds like they are playing the odds and avoiding the type of treatment they've come to expect when they didn't have the limitation.

I'm pretty conflicted on it but I'm not the one having sex with a gender that is naturally much stronger than I am.

I agree with 99

[offshoredrilling]

NBA in upstate. Well that's her loss. I know a few black guys on this board. And they are ok, cool, nice guys.

But at the same time I have to respect her choice.

dang I wish this did not come up in upstate.

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by 99nighthawk

If someone has a policy like that, it needs to be clearly stated instead of wasting people's time.. She needs some help with her TCB skills.

Lol,
She is new.
It will come to her with time.

[BlackJedi]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

NBA in upstate. Well that's her loss. I know a few black guys on this board. And they are ok, cool, nice guys.

But at the same time I have to respect her choice.

dang I wish this did not come up in upstate.

Yep, NBA is in effect upstate. I have been denied...many of times or emails not even returned. One popular provider in Syracuse even says in the FAQ of her website that she will see black men....when I mentioned to her I was interested in seeing her and that I was AA I got no response. She even stated she quickly answers emails. When I mentioned to her I was trying to contact her she got nasty with me and said i should have called her instead--lol. Luckily I was able to break my hobby cherry with a popular lady who didnt judge me andg ave me a chance. Thanks AG Like I said earlier the best bet for any minority will be to just email her ahead of time to see if she has any color preferences and PRAY she doesn't--lol. If she does, so be it and just move on. Being upset won't do anything.

[drluv1]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

There are black women that don’t see black males.
I dated a black girl that wouldn’t date a black male.

I asked her if it was because of the stereo type "Size"
She said it was attitude and 90% of them had one.

A Black woman once told me that white guys " were a lot easier to get along with"

A couple providers have told me they get phone calls from black guys trying to " pimp them out". and it wasn't an occasional annoyance but rather a persisant nuisance. I think that is a big reason why some won't some won't see any black men.

[BlackJedi]

Originally Posted by drluv1

A Black woman once told me that white guys " were a lot easier to get along with"

A couple providers have told me they get phone calls from black guys trying to " pimp them out". and it wasn't an occasional annoyance but rather a persisant nuisance. I think that is a big reason why some won't some won't see any black men.

The thing is is that I'm no pimp....and not any of my closest friends are. Alot of these providers lump us all in the same group...but like I said earlier...oh well--lol.

[drluv1]

Originally Posted by BlackJedi

The thing is is that I'm no pimp....and not any of my closest friends are. Alot of these providers lump us all in the same group...but like I said earlier...oh well--lol.

Yes I know it sucks for you. Unless the provider isn't attracted to black men, I think you should be able to ease their fears. It may be a couple extra hoops to go through, but I think it's doable. Do you ever ask to meet at a public place to show them you are genuine? I've done this a couple times to get around screening that I felt was too intrusive.

[BlackJedi]

Originally Posted by drluv1

Yes I know it sucks for you. Unless the provider isn't attracted to black men, I think you should be able to ease their fears. It may be a couple extra hoops to go through, but I think it's doable. Do you ever ask to meet at a public place to show them you are genuine? I've done this a couple times to get around screening that I felt was too intrusive.

Not attracted to black men? LOL--I highly doubt these providers are attracted to some of the men that visit them who are not AA. But to answer your question--I never suggested to meet at an public place to show them I'm not a thug or pimp, etc . I always figured if they dont initially want to see me...why even bother to convince them or 'prove' myself. I will just move on and hopefully find somebody who will see me.

[Gotyour6]

Originally Posted by drluv1

Yes I know it sucks for you. Unless the provider isn't attracted to black men, I think you should be able to ease their fears. It may be a couple extra hoops to go through, but I think it's doable. Do you ever ask to meet at a public place to show them you are genuine? I've done this a couple times to get around screening that I felt was too intrusive.

Has nothing to do with attraction.
They are not in this for the sex, they are in this for the money. You are in this for the sex.

That is why they dont call you afterwards and you dont have to send flowers the next morning.

As I stated before, even black hookers dont like black men.
It sucks but that is what they prefer.
I can't say that I had ever had someone say they wouldnt see me because of something so I have no idea how it feels but i would be a bit bitter about being lumped into a group for no reason.

[drluv1]

Originally Posted by Gotyour6

Has nothing to do with attraction.
They are not in this for the sex, they are in this for the money. You are in this for the sex.

That is why they dont call you afterwards and you dont have to send flowers the next morning.

As I stated before, even black hookers dont like black men.
It sucks but that is what they prefer.
I can't say that I had ever had someone say they wouldnt see me because of something so I have no idea how it feels but i would be a bit bitter about being lumped into a group for no reason.

I probably shouldn't have used the word " attracted". I meant , in general, if they aren't attracted to certain kind of men, then they won't see any type of man. However,I've had provides tell me they won't see customers if are rude, too aggressive, bad hygene or various other reasons. so In that sense they do need to be "attracted" to you.

[brutusbluto]

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