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Old 04-09-2021, 11:41 AM   #1
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after you carefully word an introduction with all the details that have been listed as screening you wait for the reply. Sometimes it goes well and sometimes you get a short little reply and never hear back, others ya just never hear back. Are we getting that sensitive that the lady can’t just tell you that no appt is goin to be set? Why ghost someone after you told them they were good to go on screening? I get trying to avoid time wasters but this is supposed to be a fun hobby and it’s getting outta hand
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Old 04-09-2021, 11:47 AM   #2
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"Getting" out of hand? Dude....it's always been this way. I mean, maybe it's somewhat worse now, but only because the field of talent is so poor. But this type of flakiness has always been common.

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Old 04-09-2021, 11:54 AM   #3
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The whole I don’t reply to anything people text me is new to me. You gotta come across like your interviewing for a job.
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Old 04-09-2021, 12:57 PM   #4
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Most girls are terrible with TCOB
The ones that are good can make a killing
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Old 04-09-2021, 08:30 PM   #5
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TRUTH! The ones with good TCB are generally the more professional ones & without a whole shelf of bad habits.
If you’ve been screened & given the green light to make an appt, simply send one follow-up message if you haven’t heard back within a reasonable amount of time. Sometimes things fall through the cracks, we’re human.
I’m on top of my tcb but in the rare occasions that real life distractions occur, it prohibits me from being as responsive as both parties would like.

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Old 04-10-2021, 09:36 AM   #6
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May I ask, do people really pay with apps n things for this. I try and tell them I only have cash because that is what I want to use but it sounds like people really prepay. I have been very wrong
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Old 04-10-2021, 09:37 AM   #7
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The "whole shelf of bad habits" thang is what sums it up, for the most part. But you boyz keep linin' up, so they'll keep knockin' ya down.

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Old 04-10-2021, 09:39 AM   #8
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Idiots prepay there’s too many of them sadly
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Old 04-10-2021, 11:49 AM   #9
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Sounds like a good idea
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Old 04-10-2021, 01:21 PM   #10
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Never prepay!!!!
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Old 04-25-2021, 07:53 AM   #11
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Personally, if all screening, date/time set, and deposit being sent isn't taken care in a few messages I don't reply anymore.
I ghost if they: send explicit messages, send explicit selfies, have alerts, ask if I'll recreate things in my reviews or want exact scenes from porn, hesitate screening, don't have at least one recent (within a year) reputable reference, cold call more than once(call randomly without asking), or get pushy if I don't reply right away.
I don't answer 99.9999% of calls. I don't even open 99% of"Hi", "What's up?", or"Available?" Texts or emails. If I see it's from a real number and not a texting app or from a legit work email address with thier name sometimes I'll reply with a cut and paste message asking for an introduction and screening info.
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Old 04-25-2021, 08:28 AM   #12
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Being dismissive of your customers is so edgy.
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Old 04-25-2021, 03:03 PM   #13
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Those girls do.

Never prepay!
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Being dismissive of your customers is so edgy.
Time wasters aren't customers. They just want attention. Your head would explode if you knew how many guys write and just want small talk or "to get to know you before booking". I tell them to cashapp me, send amazon gift cards, or gift me in my cam show if they'd like to chit chat. I don't put up with carrot dangling or do free emotional labor. This is a business.
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