another matter got me real confused 
and it got me even more confused on handles 
a handle can be male or female and just what most users have 
a sandle is a males female 2nd handle 
 a mandle is a females male 2nd handle 
both if gay could be just a handle I be guessing and swap em if a 2nd 
so guessing a male TS's 2nd handle would be a mandle 
"whew" thanks Carlos for that  quote 
But what if bi or if I have the meaning right "non binary"
 would the 2nd handle then be  nondle ???? bindle ???? 
 or could the 2nd handle be any of the above ????

 help please n thank you 
so I use the right name/term for a 2nd illegal handle  
maybe I'm just to fucking old faction to understand 
 but please try n help me anyways
thanks 
ocd