Location, Location, Location.

[Joey_Gleet]

Could the ladies please include their approximate locale when posting updates ?

KC is pretty spread out and transit time, as well as comfort with any particular area, can be a big factor wether or not a gent decides to pick up the phone and give you a dingaling.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Joey_Gleet

Could the ladies please include their approximate locale when posting updates ?

KC is pretty spread out and transit time, as well as comfort with any particular area, can be a big factor wether or not a gent decides to pick up the phone and give you a dingaling.

Some ladies are worth driving across town to visit: some are not worth walking across the street to visit. Location information would be very nice: other information is important.

[Savannah Moon]

Some do..
Yet for discretion purposes or those who use hotels that can be problematic.
Sometimes reviews can be useful or a simple message, text , or email.
Part of your participation includes research. That's never going to change.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

....Yet for discretion purposes....

Exactly.
Btw, except for rush hour, I can be at the flying bus stop to Brookside in a half hr. Less to College Blvd.

KC is not Houston where it does take an hour to go accross town.

[Get Lucky]

We each have our own opinion. I share OP’s opinion. Unfortunately, it is the very first question I ask when contemplating a tryst. And... I have to ask it a significant majority of the time.

We each have varying degrees of flexibility on our schedules. To UC’s viewpoint ..., 30 min drive + 1 hour session + 30 min drive is not user friendly for me. That formula does not account for traffic issues or slight delays on the providers part.

I simply request for “ general” area of the city. I don’t need hotel info, etc.

A little upfront info would go a long way in avoiding unnecessary conversation if the location doesn’t work.

Just my 2 cents.

[KatiforYou]

I always put general area because it’s the first question I get asked if not.

But I understand why ladies don’t. Especially lately.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by KatiforYou

But I understand why ladies don’t. Especially lately.

Well, they aren't the current target..
Therefore they will not understand until the table turns.

I state my area..But how hard is it to type What is your general location.
You have to inquire about donation as well
And Availability.

Discretion is a two sided coin here..always has been.
Believe it or not a womans discretion right now In KC is A PRIORITY because these undesirables are not Playing their usual cards.
Yep.
So, guys, perhaps a bit of inquiry may be inconvenient..
But, that is where things are at the moment.

Be safe Stick to what you know & understand some people have consequences that will UNFORTUNATELY affect their integrity in this venue.and it will directly affect you.

Be safe..Be thorough..and keep each other informed
Mods are good go to folks if things don't seem appropriate per se

[Get Lucky]

Savannah... not sure I understand the undesirable situation you refer to. But, everyone has their own opinion and none are wrong based on the hobby landscape.

But from my personal perspective ... if I see “airport,” for example, in an ad ... I will not even need to inquire at the outset about availability, etc. From an efficiency standpoint, that was/is the point I was trying to make.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by Get Lucky

Savannah... not sure I understand the undesirable situation you refer to. But, everyone has their own opinion and none are wrong based on the hobby landscape.

But from my personal perspective ... if I see “airport,” for example, in an ad ... I will not even need to inquire at the outset about availability, etc. From an efficiency standpoint, that was/is the point I was trying to make.

I get it, Trust me I do. Discretion vs Efficiency.


I tend to Spider web my responses at times..Believe me, A Ton of People completely understand my response.

OX
Savannah

[Joey_Gleet]

Originally Posted by Get Lucky

We each have our own opinion. I share OP’s opinion. Unfortunately, it is the very first question I ask when contemplating a tryst..

If location ( approximate) isn't in the update / ad, for me there is no phone call.
As for 30 minutes from MCI to JOCO, that's 60 round trip and, factor in possible delays , ladies not ready etc, that's quite a chunk of temporal change if one has a limited time frame.

But, still respectful of the ladies who choose not to.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by Joey_Gleet

If location ( approximate) isn't in the update / ad, for me there is no phone call.
As for 30 minutes from MCI to JOCO, that's 60 round trip and, factor in possible delays , ladies not ready etc, that's quite a chunk of temporal change if one has a limited time frame.

But, still respectful of the ladies who choose not to.

LOL.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

LOL.

Next excuse to be used by a client... “If you weren’t so damn far away, I wouldn’t have been abducted by aliens!!!”

As a preferred breakfast-time/noontime “slip-away-from-office” kind of guy, I do appreciate those providers who include in their ads general locations, i.e. Plaza, airport, JoCo, stadiums, Triangle, etc, etc.

[Audrey Astor]

I understand what Savannah is speaking about.

I will PM some of the guys who are having heartburn with this.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by Audrey Astor

I understand what Savannah is speaking about.

I will PM some of the guys who are having heartburn with this.

Thank you

[Joey_Gleet]

I think there's a safe middle ground here somewhere. For me , general area is good enough with 10-15 minutes. I understand not wanting to be to precise but I think general locations such as Mid-Kc, North of River, between JOCO and Grandview etc are acceptable.
But, everyone has to follow their own instincts on this.
I also understand that with ladies who need to move around the once a week posting restrictions are an issue also.