Dealing with Breast Cancer and being a Provider

[Naughty Gurl]

How will this work I'm no leash just enjoy doing what I do ..........
Feeling kinda scared of being pushed away from being a Provider and having Breast cancer

Does anyone know if hobbiest are ok with that situation or do I get pushed out of hobby because of what I have .......? Being a Provider is how I pay my bills and pay for my own medicine and doctors visits and all

What to do ...........😞😞😞😞😞😞😞

[CoverMe]

There are a couple of teriffic ladies - one here in town and one in the Valley -who have beat breast cancer and continue to thrive and are wonderful providers. They're strong women and I hope that they would reach out to you.

Science has progressed to where breast cancer is far removed from being the terror that it once was. But I know that does little to ease your mind right now, and I wish you strength and peace and a full recovery.

[ck1942]

Hang in there, Gurl!

All of us at some time or other suffer ailments or have close family or friends who do. Grim Reaper catches all of us sooner or later.

Breast cancer is not contagious, and, for that matter, breasts come in all shapes, sizes, and sometimes even go missing.

As long as you and your medical team are cool with intimate action, your true friends will continue to show.

You won't be the first lady in SA with this issue/question, nor the last.

[HUMP!]

NG,
I'm sorry to hear of the dilemma you're in; I can't begin to imagine the unsurety of many things you must be feeling. I don't know what a woman experiences in dealing with breast cancer so, I'm really no help. I hope some experienced ladies can offer you comfort and advice.
I am aware of a provider who has had a double mastectomy several years ago and continued providing (it's not my business to know if that is what you are facing). Will try to locate her contact info for you.
I'm at a loss and inadequate, but here's a warm hand of strength to you.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

NG,

You're welcome to PM or call me anytime should you need a shoulder to lean on during your hour of need. I am also going through a bout of cancer myself and still providing when I am able to around treatment. Though not the same kind you have, but this is not my first time either. I've beaten it before and plan to again. If there is anything I can do for you whether it is to provide advice or just someone to listen know that I am here and willing. Anytime. Day or night.

KKA
.210.418.2900.

[CashmereLove]

So sorry for what you are going through,stay strong like KKA.
Sending positive vibes..xoxo

[Guest112916]

I used to see a woman who had breast cancer. We had a weekly OTC meet up. Her husband wouldn't touch her. He said she was tainted.

Here are a few things I learned when having sexual relations with a woman going thru treatment and breast cancer.

When going thru treatment and providing remember the following.

Do not be self conscious when he's fondling your breasts that he may feel the lump or be feeling for the lump.
When you have treatment the girls will be tender and sore. Let him know ahead of time to not be rough with hands or mouth. You can still enjoy stimulation of the breasts but the tenderness may become too much. My friend would wear a sports bra to keep them from jiggling.
During treatments, you will be more susceptible to infections. If you allow DATY or FIV, you may want to ensure his fingers are clean or limit what you will allow to be transferred into your body.
Unfortunate side effects of nausea may appear during a session. It's inevitable. it wont be pretty but if you have a regular client base who cares for you, they will understand.
Although many will understand, you will lose clients.
Don't be fooled by the fetish freaks who will call for appts for the thrill of their fetish.

As stated above. Technology is catching up. it can be treated and beat. I wish you nothing but luck and hope all goes well.

[ssstar09]

My SO had breast cancer 5 years ago. Treatment and success rates are phenomenal and you will come thru this healthy and whole.
As a nurse practitioner told her, "one year from now this will be nothing more than an unpleasant dream".
I personally would consider it a privilege to spend time with you. And if you're not up to it, everyone will understand.

[gimme_that]

Do you have to get one of your breasts removed or altered?

[nerdy123]

My Mother has been through it twice, and beaten it, like the tough old bitch I love so dearly. Keep your chin up, it doesn't change who you are or what you do, it just helps you learn how strong you can be.

As for providing, I am sure there are plenty of gentlemen here who would still like to see you, but there are some fools who believe, subconsciously, that any disease is catchable.

[Camille Fox]

I am so sorry to hear this, very very very sorry. Please, be very careful if your treatment leaves your immune system weak. Be very gentle with yourself. There are many resources to cancer patients, be sure to talk to a social worker.


Much love,

Camille

[SARR]

That would not give me one seconds' hesitation in seeing you. If your clients decide not to see you then it's their loss.

[pickupkid]

So sorry to hear this. but my mother had cancer and she beat it. so can you

[guy fawkes]

http://www.texasoncology.com/ They have the best centers in Texas and gets more funding and study grants then MD ANDERSON

The centers are built to cater to the patient and you are treated like a person not a number

You can PM me for more info. before you visit a center in Texas

[Lariyah_Cash]

I'm sorry to hear about what you are going through. My mother also had cancer 20+ years ago. She got through it and it never came back. Keep your head up and stay positive you can beat this!