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Originally Posted by fathomer
THanks
what kind of background check/info do you think I should tell the ladies?
What's usual to tell?"
work?
real name?
favorite food?
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That's a real good question. Some would say they would never give out their real name, real work, drivers license info, etc., others would. Whether you do or not, my advice is that if it isn't a well reviewed lady, I wouldn't. The list I gave you has a lot of well reviewed newbie friendly ladies. The ones I have seen didn't go overboard asking for those kinds of personal references but I don't remember exactly what they asked for. I'm sure some of the guys on here that have been here longer than me will answer this better. I am still a newbie to most of them.
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Originally Posted by fathomer
I do find it "funny/ironic", that I don't trust any provider, yet I want to get naked with them.
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Do you want to sleep with everybody you don't trust?

Trust is something that has to be earned and is up to the person giving the trust. I have friends that I have known for more than 25 years that I trust for some things, but I don't trust anybody for everything. Heck, there are a couple of providers that I trust more than some RL friends, of course those providers aren't drunk trying to drive me home either.
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Originally Posted by fathomer
I have LifeLock(tm) so I don't think I have issues about giving out info(432-23-44-5323) 
but if I got p411 or some service like that, would that help the ladies/allievate fears?
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P411 could help a little but I'm not sure how much as a newbie. You will notice that most on P411 still require references. Some require 1 but I have seen some that require 5+. Many of them are also on eccie.
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Originally Posted by fathomer
I understand I can read their reviews and they have no idea about mine... so it's not fair and I want to make this begining as easy as possible.
Im sure once I see a few ladies, get references, I'll be fine.
thanks again.
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As long as you aren't stupid......use common sense, if it sounds TGTBT, it probably is. Go with your gut feelings.