Guy set appt got address and..... NOTHING.

[Goddess_Kc]

Hey this guy called from ***2481. Used kaylen and cici for reference. Didnt refenrence check. He sent face and dl pic. So not completely sure of his m.o. maybe trying to find location to lurk in area. Or may have been 5-0 trying to find info out. I always give a bogus address thats not close but in the general area of incall for reasons such as this one. Just to be safe id stay away ladies. And when i called him out and told him i was going to write an alert thread about him. He responded and said it was the rate and another girl had aggreed to something cheaper and he decided to see her. This is odd because he aggreed to the rate. Sent pics etc got addresss and agreed. But nonetheless i agree to the same rate as the mystery girl and still nothing. Anytime someone gets address and doesnt call or show is a red flag in my book. Ladies its too many guys out there just stay away from bullshit. I do have pics and if you need the entire number pm me for details. Stay safe.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Goddess_Kc

Hey this guy called from ***2481. Used kaylen and cici for reference. Didnt refenrence check. He sent face and dl pic. So not completely sure of his m.o. maybe trying to find location to lurk in area. Or may have been 5-0 trying to find info out. I always give a bogus address thats not close but in the general area of incall for reasons such as this one. Just to be safe id stay away ladies. ...........

So, if a guy who already agreed to meet you goes to the fake address he probably knows you lied to him.

Once a woman is known to be a lier, we don't know what else to expect. It is time to move on.

I have never had a lady give me a fake address. READ THAT AGAIN EVERYONE. I said a fake address. What usually happens is that a lady will tell me to go to a 7-11, Quick Trip, gas station, Sears parking lot, intersection or hotel parking and place another call to receive the final address or room number. That is the safe and honest way to handle the second call.

But giving a guy a fake address shows a lack of honesty. Time to move on and find someone else. None of have time for bull shit, which is a heads up for possible danger.

If everything doesn't compute in your big head; it is time to walk away.

JR

[Goddess_Kc]

It wasnt a fake addres just not the one to my house. The address is to a church a block up from my house. I understand completely your side but why give a guy my address if i dont know him. Thats what bogus addres meant. Yes read again. Because i have to be safe. Its just me. Not me and some pimp with a gun so i have to be safe. I dont think it should matter it was in the same vicinity. Walking distance. Im a home owner not living in hotels anymore so i am a little more cautious.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by Goddess_Kc

I always give a bogus address thats not close but in the general area of incall for reasons such as this one.

Yeah, a few years back, I had a provider do that, as well... she gave the address of the next-door-neighbor's house and instructed to not go to the door before calling upon arrival. She then made an appearance so you knew where she actually was. Always wondered how many guys knocked on the neighbor's door, anyways.

Ladies, give out bogus addresses and you'll continue to have NS's.

We.don't.like.it.

I have absolutely no problem in being given a general intersection, or some other obvious nearby landmark, with further subsequent instructions. That's how the 2-call or 3-call system works. But don't give a completely false address. You will get what you deserve. My 2 cents....

[thebuffmantraples]

Originally Posted by Goddess_Kc

It wasnt a fake addres just not the one to my house. The address is to a church a block up from my house. I understand completely your side but why give a guy my address if i dont know him. Thats what bogus addres meant. Yes read again. Because i have to be safe. Its just me. Not me and some pimp with a gun so i have to be safe. I dont think it should matter it was in the same vicinity. Walking distance. Im a home owner not living in hotels anymore so i am a little more cautious.

You don't have to share that much right now!
While JR makes a good point and is trying to be helpful! He may have been a bit heavy handed. But someone has to share the info with you and try to guide to a compromise of ideology!?!

Nice rear view by the way.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

Stop jumping up and down on the new girl. What she does is not uncommon. I do the same thing. For guys with a GPS I give them a street address that gets them to the correct block. They don't get the correct street number until they arrive.

Getting you to the correct location while withholding my specific location makes me smart, not dishonest.

JR, as usual, Mr. "I only see UTR girls", you need to check yourself. Don't try telling a provider how to run her business. It only makes you look more foolish than you usually are.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Stop jumping up and down on the new girl. What she does is not uncommon.

Originally Posted by Goddess_Kc

The address is to a church a block up from my house. I understand completely your side but why give a guy my address if i dont know him.

OK, I will do a bit of a "mea culpa", on this, as I typed and posted my previous comments without seeing Goddess's follow-up post regarding the church address.

If it's an obvious specific address just to get the person in the vicinity, I have no issues with that. By no means, Goddess, should you be giving a full address at the outset. My example, however, was clearly a legitimate address of a residential house next door, and that's where I was trying to make the distinction.

On most current GPS systems now, though, I believe you can enter cross-intersections, rather than specific addresses.

[ElisabethWhispers]

I cannot imagine giving a guy a NEIGHBOR's address and then, having him call you, first. Sometimes, men just don't listen to directions.

However, I always give the closest intersection (or a building/church/grocery store on the corner) for the person to know where I'm basically located.

I never give the full address to someone until they're very close. Mainly for the reason above.

A lot of new clients will ask for the address and then? Not show up. It's just easier to have him call you when he's getting close and then, you can guide him in, so to speak.

If I feel confident about the man, I have no issue with giving him my street name and then, when he gets close, I'll tell him the actual address.

In the years of doing this, I've never heard of a female giving an actual fake address. An intersection? A location very close by? Sure. An actual fake address but having him call, first, to tell him that it's a different address?

Other than it doesn't seem like a good idea AT ALL ... it also sounds like a lot of work, plus the possibility of really having an issue with a confused neighbor. I see all types of wrong with it.

Anyway ... back to the actual topic. Men make appointments and then, they find something else to do (and make an excuse) or they decide to touch themselves or for whatever reason, they decide to go in a different direction.

It's annoying as heck, but it's part of the job.

It doesn't happen a lot to me, but it happens. Sorry it was such an issue for you.

Happy Wednesday!
Elisabeth

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Goddess_Kc

It wasnt a fake addres just not the one to my house. The address is to a church a block up from my house. I understand completely your side but why give a guy my address if i dont know him. Thats what bogus addres meant. Yes read again. Because i have to be safe. Its just me. Not me and some pimp with a gun so i have to be safe. I dont think it should matter it was in the same vicinity. Walking distance. So what, doesn't matter.) a home owner not living in hotels anymore so i am a little more cautious.

Don't you understand that you lied!.

Think about it. He would have gone to the church, discovered that you are a lier, and left. No appointment. You lost because you lied.

It would have been easy to tell him to go to the church at the given address and give you another call.

The situation was not as presented to him. So he left because you are a lier. That is enough to make him uncomfortable with anything else you say to him.

Cautious is one thing, lying is something else. I am amazed by some of the women in the hobby who are totally clueless about normal courtesy and honesty.

JR

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Stop jumping up and down on the new girl. What she does is not uncommon. I do the same thing. For guys with a GPS I give them a street address that gets them to the correct block. They don't get the correct street number until they arrive.

Getting you to the correct location while withholding my specific location makes me smart, not dishonest. I agree

JR, as usual, Mr. "I only see UTR girls", you need to check yourself. Don't try telling a provider how to run her business. It only makes you look more foolish than you usually are.

I don't care how a girl runs her business, that is her call. Being sent to a church would be an obvious fake address.

Being told that this is the general area and to give a call when the guy gets there is normal and acceptable.

My point, in case you missed it, is that being lied to is a big red flag that tells the guy to walk away. There are a lot of red flags that a lady can put up to scare away customers.

She lied, he walked away, and now she is crying about him not keeping an appointment. She lost money because she was a lier.

Please understand that playing safe applies to guys too.

JR

[thebuffmantraples]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Don't you understand that you lied!.

Think about it. He would have gone to the church, discovered that you are a lier, and left. No appointment. You lost because you lied.

It would have been easy to tell him to go to the church at the given address and give you another call.

The situation was not as presented to him. So he left because you are a lier. That is enough to make him uncomfortable with anything else you say to him.

Cautious is one thing, lying is something else. I am amazed by some of the women in the hobby who are totally clueless about normal courtesy and honesty.

JR

Come on JR that's why Its best left to the ladies and they did awesome.

Are you trying to say you were never wet behind the ears? Or are you showing how in some instances ya' still are " wet behind the ear"?

The great all powerful EW chimed in and you felt the need to still point s*** out huh!?!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

I cannot imagine giving a guy a NEIGHBOR's address and then, having him call you, first. Sometimes, men just don't listen to directions.

However, I always give the closest intersection (or a building/church/grocery store on the corner) for the person to know where I'm basically located.

I never give the full address to someone until they're very close. Mainly for the reason above.

A lot of new clients will ask for the address and then? Not show up. It's just easier to have him call you when he's getting close and then, you can guide him in, so to speak.

If I feel confident about the man, I have no issue with giving him my street name and then, when he gets close, I'll tell him the actual address.

In the years of doing this, I've never heard of a female giving an actual fake address. An intersection? A location very close by? Sure. An actual fake address but having him call, first, to tell him that it's a different address?

Other than it doesn't seem like a good idea AT ALL ... it also sounds like a lot of work, plus the possibility of really having an issue with a confused neighbor. I see all types of wrong with it.

Anyway ... back to the actual topic. Men make appointments and then, they find something else to do (and make an excuse) or they decide to touch themselves or for whatever reason, they decide to go in a different direction.

It's annoying as heck, but it's part of the job.

It doesn't happen a lot to me, but it happens. Sorry it was such an issue for you.

Happy Wednesday!
Elisabeth

Very well said, and very professional. Thank you.

JR

[i'va biggen]

Probably all are legit reasons, but is the main reason I don't do incalls. why go through all the BS .

[Goddess_Kc]

JrLawrence stfu. I didnt lie about anything. You acting as if you were the client in question. I told him that my place is near the address. You are very ignorant. You dont know the situation besides what i posted and i didnt mention certain details because they seemed minute. I havent been busted and im doing just fine so I see know reason to change what im doing. Its about my comfortability not your opinion. You didnt have to comment as this post was concerning ladies about a ncns i had. Someone got my addres and didnt show. Quit pulling this mans dick and get off my back.

[bigryan2222]

Goddess_KC, in the future it might be best if you post this sort of stuff in the womens info share. It is none of our (the male members here) business if a guy ncns you. The ladies on this board certainly would care about a guy that would NCNS though.

Also, this isnt technically an alert because you dont seem to think you are in danger from him. Guys do the same all the time, but if you really want to air dirty laundry in public for men to see the Co Ed section is better for this thread.