4 Year Newbie ....Frustrating Day....No Eccie Cred at all...!

[sasnaK]

Sent a Verified provider who was advertising this week on Eccie a PM through Eccie last night and again this morning with no return answer. Sent another to their personal E:mail no response. left voice mail at 9:30 am. Finally got a response by personal E:mail around noon and with approx location and a request for references. Gave her my 2 most recent and explained they were somewhat dated but that I had several reviews on Eccie. said she would check and get back. I stated I would call after 2:15. which I did and left voice mail received another E:mail stating she was waiting on my ref. but would not be available till 5:30 and would get back with me. I stated that was fine. did not get a later response so I E:mailed around 5:00 stating I assume you have not heard from my ref....? Received a response at 5:37 stating she had not heard back...! E:mails were polite but so slow to respond I pissed the whole day away .....Very Frustrating....Trying Again Tomorrow.....have a tentative I Hope for in the morning.....!
Bad part is I realized tonight my reviews only go back 4 years and I had many more before..? Is that when the board switched over...?

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by sasnaK

Sent a Verified provider who was advertising this week on Eccie a PM through Eccie last night and again this morning with no return answer. Sent another to their personal E:mail no response. left voice mail at 9:30 am. Finally got a response by personal E:mail around noon and with approx location and a request for references. Gave her my 2 most recent and explained they were somewhat dated but that I had several reviews on Eccie. said she would check and get back. I stated I would call after 2:15. which I did and left voice mail received another E:mail stating she was waiting on my ref. but would not be available till 5:30 and would get back with me. I stated that was fine. did not get a later response so I E:mailed around 5:00 stating I assume you have not heard from my ref....? Received a response at 5:37 stating she had not heard back...! E:mails were polite but so slow to respond I pissed the whole day away .....Very Frustrating....Trying Again Tomorrow.....have a tentative I Hope for in the morning.....!
Bad part is I realized tonight my reviews only go back 4 years and I had many more before..? Is that when the board switched over...?

I ran into the same thing especially when I gave up my 411 which Im thinking I may get back.....but if the girls you seen on Eccie were in the last 6 mos you should be good.

Also you have to understand if she is awaiting references those girls may not be accessible due to the holidays....did you notify those references you needed them?

I dont think reviews mean a whole lot...time recently seeing the girls does from a provider perspective

[sasnaK]

Well one of them was working all day today.....! I think I should have called her instead...!

[Audrey Astor]

Originally Posted by sasnaK

Well one of them was working all day today.....! I think I should have called her instead...!

That may have worked well for you. A lot of ladies are better at getting back to appointment requests than reference requests. :-( The other option is to just screen with the lady you are wanting to see if your references are out of date. I hope it all worked out for you, and you got to have FUN!

[JayceeRivers]

The thing is, screening takes time. If a lady sends out three emails to three providers, each one of those providers are on different schedules. One may sleep during the day. One may be out of town or with family, another may have a busy day of appointments and does not get the chance to check her email.

Normally it is best to get screened WELL in advance of the appointment you are considering. It never hurts to get screened if you simply think you may like to see a certain lady in the undisclosed future.

It does not hurt to email/text/call the girls you are using as a reference and let them know or ask them if you can use them as a reference. This helps speed up the process. I would recommend looking into p411.

Screening goes 100 times faster for me when my gentleman caller is using p411.

[Emmie]

Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

The thing is, screening takes time. If a lady sends out three emails to three providers, each one of those providers are on different schedules. One may sleep during the day. One may be out of town or with family, another may have a busy day of appointments and does not get the chance to check her email.

Normally it is best to get screened WELL in advance of the appointment you are considering. It never hurts to get screened if you simply think you may like to see a certain lady in the undisclosed future.

It does not hurt to email/text/call the girls you are using as a reference and let them know or ask them if you can use them as a reference. This helps speed up the process. I would recommend looking into p411.

Screening goes 100 times faster for me when my gentleman caller is using p411.

+1

[Sens55]

Haha. Take a couple of years off and see how little that cred is! I actually had one even worse. It's a girl that travels. She's hot. I've seen her at least 4 or 5 times over the years. And, on several occasions have picked her up and/or dropped her off at the airport when in town. We've done dinner. We've texted off and on for years about all kinds of things. I have no illusions we're "friends". But, I am KNOWN to her.

She was coming to town recently and I know she does couples and I thought my GF would really like her. So she asks me if we have provider references as a COUPLE!?! I was kinda shocked by that considering she knows full well I'm real.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

The thing is, screening takes time. If a lady sends out three emails to three providers, each one of those providers are on different schedules. One may sleep during the day. One may be out of town or with family, another may have a busy day of appointments and does not get the chance to check her email.

Normally it is best to get screened WELL in advance of the appointment you are considering. It never hurts to get screened if you simply think you may like to see a certain lady in the undisclosed future.

It does not hurt to email/text/call the girls you are using as a reference and let them know or ask them if you can use them as a reference. This helps speed up the process. I would recommend looking into p411.

Screening goes 100 times faster for me when my gentleman caller is using p411.

Exactly!