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Outdoorsman · 10-14-2010, 02:01 PM

Has anyone ever had this happen before? This is a new one for me. You see a new provider and you know her from others parts of your life? Or for you ladies you know him? From kids school or church or somewhere innocent to the hobby world even a neighbor. I have heard of it before. No this did not happen to me but I saw pictures of someone I know, my little secret, lol. Do not think I will approach her, but I actually think it is kinda cool, she does not know about me yet!!!

Chellablaine · 10-15-2010, 06:57 AM

I think I would leave it alone. Ive ran into clients before in public, one the other day while at a coffee shop with my neice. He got the "dont you fucking dare talk to me" look.

Then again, if she is not hiding her face then maybe she doesnt care. You can tell her you saw it while browsing sites. Others may know but just dont talk about what lil suzy really does.

DallasRain · 10-15-2010, 08:13 AM

It happens alot! I just wink & pretend like "we have a dirty lil secret that will stay secret"...lol!

VeronicaMoore · 10-15-2010, 08:34 AM

I had a hobbyist before, an ASPD member, approach me--- while out with three of my friends--- while at a coffee shop, studying, and ask NOT ONLY if I was "working" but asked if my friends were working too.

Thankfully, I was able to tell them, "OMG WHO IS THIS CREEPER??" and we all had a good laugh about it. That's pretty much when I realized that not only is New Orleans too small to try and keep any type of secret identity, but that once something is on the internet, it's there for good. And that's when I started blurring/cropping my face out of my pictures LOL.

cbr1000r · 10-15-2010, 08:37 AM

When I first started in the hobby I made a date with a young lady who turned out to be the sister of a friend, she nearly passed out when she walked into the room...after a few minutes of discussion things went famously...we saw each other - hobby-wise - frequently until I moved away from the area. When I'm heading back there I see look her up...we have a great time, even stopped by her brother's to party with them, she just told everyone she ran into me dowtown.

Another time I had a girl come who I had graduated high school with many years before...a good time again...not so bad and those little secrets make it even more fun somehow...

Chellablaine · 10-15-2010, 08:53 AM

Wow CBR you had a great outcome with yours, PUN intended.

I had someone show up that was my ex husbands' uncles business partner. He said to me that I looked familiar.

I just simply stated "I get that a lot. Now get naked!"

He stopped thinking about it...great diversion and quick thinking.

Jacquie · 10-17-2010, 08:13 PM

I met up with a Dad who coached track in his free time for a school I attended. He lives in the same subdivision I grew up in. Very fun client. We saw each other twice in Houston. What a small world, you know?

trekker · 10-17-2010, 08:54 PM

I saw my best friend's ex GF in a Backpage ad. I didn't pursue. One provider and I maintained a casual friendship after she retired and couple of times providers patronized businesses where I worked.

If I saw a lady in public that I've hobbied with, and we were both alone, I'd just make eye contact and see what happens. With the ones that I believe I'm likely to meet in "real life"-through business, mutual friends, etc. we agree on a "cover story" about how we met.

GingerMcNaughty · 10-21-2010, 08:17 PM

I worked for an outcall agency when I first started and lucky me I knocked on my uncles hotel room. It was a race to tell the family before he did and its now a running joke at family functions.

dilbert firestorm · 10-22-2010, 04:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Aria_Adams

I worked for an outcall agency when I first started and lucky me I knocked on my uncles hotel room. It was a race to tell the family before he did and its now a running joke at family functions.

who got busted? you or the uncle????

Eden_Monet · 10-24-2010, 01:26 AM

About a year ago, I showed up to a session and it was one of my professors... he recognized me from my ad and called. When I realized it was him when I arrived at his place, I was mortified!

RickForFun · 10-24-2010, 02:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Eden_Monet

About a year ago, I showed up to a session and it was one of my professors... he recognized me from my ad and called. When I realized it was him when I arrived at his place, I was mortified!

Hope you received an A in that class.

trekker · 10-24-2010, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Eden_Monet

About a year ago, I showed up to a session and it was one of my professors... he recognized me from my ad and called. When I realized it was him when I arrived at his place, I was mortified!

Did you go through with it?

DallasRain · 10-24-2010, 08:46 AM

lol-Eden!!

I went to a Halloween costume party friday night...I had a single guy come up to me and tell me "I know who you are".....thank god he did not tell anyone else who I was!

A client I know in Alabama went to an outcall last month...when the provider opened the door,it was is neice!

trekker · 10-24-2010, 09:53 AM

If I met a provider and it turned out that we know each other, as long as she's not a relative or an SO of a friend, I'd probably go through with the appointment.