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alwaysonthemove · 08-07-2014, 11:41 AM

So, against my better judgment, I contacted "Mandy" (316-453-9152) on BP:

http://lawrence.backpage.com/FemaleE...152-22/7150363

Couldn't find any reviews, but I was intrigued by her looks and the Lawrence location (I live on the KS side). I texted her, she texted back pretty quickly, everything was cordial, and we set something up for the next day. That day (this happened earlier today) she calls to confirm that we are meeting, because she needs to take a taxi to the incall location, and she wants to make sure I'll be there. I confirm that I'll be there. She tells me to meet her around back of a Lawrence hotel (there is a inconspicuous door located there). She asks me the color and type of my car.

As the time approaches, I get there a little early to scope things out. I see her standing by those back stairs with a couple of guys (not one but two!). I'm scoping things out so I don't want to linger, but it appears that she is with them. I cruise by a few more times, and every time, all three of them are there. She calls to ask if I'm still on my way. Little head and Big head are doing battle about how to proceed. Little head wins and I say, "I'm just about there, see you in a minute." She tells me to park in the back.

As a concession to Big head, I park in the front of the very full parking lot and walk around towards the back. She is not by the back door, but the corner at this point. She looks right past me, because she is scoping for my car. I don't see the two guys anymore (I can't see the back door from the corner, so it's possible they are standing over there). I say hi to her, and make it clear that I am her appointment. She asks where I parked. I tell her that I am in the front. She says, "well, park in the back over there, I will go in, get a room, and then let you in back there." I say OK.

As I walk back to the car, all kinds of alarm bells go off. The girl is the girl from the pictures, but what about those two guys? Are they LE? Are they pimps/protection? Am I going to get arrested or robbed? I walk back to my car and just take off. After I get a couple of miles away I text her and tell her I saw her with the guys and I'm just too freaked out. She texts back that she doesn't know them, they were just hanging around, and please don't leave her there. I didn't respond, just too freaked out.

So, has this happened to you? Did I do the right thing, or am I kind of a jerk? (or maybe both!) The moral of the story, of course, is don't contact random BP girls, just stick to ECCIE girls with great reviews! I have never gotten a bad vibe from any of them!

alwaysonthemove · 08-07-2014, 11:59 AM

The other problem, I have, of course, is finding someone to help out poor Little head, who did not get what he was expecting today!

oldman49 · 08-07-2014, 12:13 PM

Always best to play it safe, if you are not confortable leave. Shouldn't make a difference where you park once she has a room and can text you the number.

JD Barleycorn · 08-07-2014, 12:20 PM

I would have, and have, bailed when I saw her with the two guys.

alwaysonthemove · 08-07-2014, 01:03 PM

Thanks for the moral support, oldman and JD!

Jayhawker · 08-07-2014, 01:21 PM

I had that experience with the Jessica chick before. Told her I was a bit away but was really outside. Listened at the door heard the guys talking. They climbed down the balcony and circled around. I asked her about them and she tried to deny it. I left and didn't return...since then I have heard a few negative things. Glad I walked away.

http://kc.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts...un-21/13787341

JRLawrence · 08-07-2014, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by alwaysonthemove

Thanks for the moral support, oldman and JD!

What is wrong with this statement?
"She says, "well, park in the back over there, I will go in, get a room, and then let you in back there."

Think about it. The statement is a command, as in: (You will) park in the back over there!

Does it matter, where you park, or what type of car you drive? NO!

When someone is trying to control you, it it time to avoid them.

You did a good job of self-protection. Congratulations.

JR

vitokc · 08-07-2014, 01:34 PM

When in doubt, go with your gut, tell little head there is always tomorrow. LE or pimps, neither are beneficial to you. She didn't know them..yeah right.

alwaysonthemove · 08-07-2014, 02:24 PM

Yeah, it was exactly the moment that she was uncomfortable with where I parked that I went from nervous to EXTREMELY F'N NERVOUS! Obviously I could still be let in the back door of the hotel regardless of where I parked! Really creeped me out. The only thing I can't figure out is if I was about to be robbed or arrested!

I'm loving this ECCIE support network! You guys rock! I'm getting more experience, but I'm still kind of a newbie.

Guest061814 · 08-07-2014, 02:42 PM

Excellent example of getting out when things see sketchy. Good for you. Not a jerk at all. No reason to park in the back.

jackson842 · 08-07-2014, 03:12 PM

Had anything you described happen at night, I would have been gone in a flash. Daytimes (the only time I am off the leash long enough to hobby) I put myself in more questionable situations that many would not enter into...but that's me. As far as being a jerk, no way! Unless you are a terminal adrenaline junkie, having all these bad vibes AND paying for it adds up to a bad experience no matter how you cut it...hey...to thine own self be true...

algrace · 08-07-2014, 04:42 PM

...the ol' rear entry gone awry.
No sense in being jumped or worse. While ‘lil' can sometimes be difficult to turn down, ANY time the situation is against your gut feelings, walking away to play another day is a better bet.

I would add that a basic courtesy you fulfilled is to let the lady know you were uncomfortable and left.

cuddlyteddybear · 08-07-2014, 05:09 PM

I can't think of a LEGIT reason she would insist you go out front to your already parked car and move it to the back when you were already there. No reason you couldn't have just waited there until she got the room and was ready. There was something suspiciously important to her about having your car around back where her buddies were seen. Maybe I'm missing something that can only be appreciated from a provider's perspective. I'd love to hear from some of the providers.

Listen to your instincts--they're usually right. Even if you were wrong, you live to play another day, and in a more comfortable setting. You made the right decision.

Guest061814 · 08-07-2014, 05:48 PM

I'm known for having excellent instincts and I concur. I am 95 % sure the OP avoided something bad. 100% sure he avoided a bad time.

Helicopter206 · 08-07-2014, 06:09 PM

Wow, this was really sketchy.
She had to take a taxi, form Wichita isn't that the area code on her phone.
Park in the back, if LE, makes it easy to tow the car,
If bad guys, makes it easy to beat the crap out of you and take your car.
Hard to explain to the police why you got jumped, and you weren't a guest at the hotel.
And how you got in the back door of the hotel.
You get those little hairs standing up on the back of your neck, bail and fast.