Kinky?

[saddletramp]

Ever see a lady's advertisement that said she was kinky or kinky friendly? So what does that mean?

Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-fuckin', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered,vibrator usin',dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex.


In human sexuality, kinkiness or kinky (adjective), is a term used to refer to a playful usage of sexual concepts which are overt, accentuated, unambiguously expressive of sexuality. The term derives from the idea of a "bend" (cf. a "kink") in one's sexual behaviour, to contrast such behaviour with "straight" or "narrow" sexual mores and proclivities. The term "kink" has been claimed by some who practice sexual fetishism as a term or synonym for their practices, indicating a range of sexual and sexualistic practices from playful to objectifying and paraphilic.
Kink sexual practices go beyond what are considered conventional sexual practices as a means of heightening the intimacy between sexual partners. Some draw a distinction between "kink" and "fetishism", defining the former as enhancing partner intimacy, and the latter as replacing it.[1] Because of its relation to "normal" sexual boundaries, which themselves vary by time and place, the definition of what is and is not kink varies widely as well.

I know these definitions.......but what is yours?

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by saddletramp

...Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-fuckin', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered,vibrator usin',dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex.

I would say that ^^ about covers it! Lol

I'm good for at least half of the list!

And throw in some deepthroat!

[notequiteatroll]

i must be missing out on all sorts of fun. but just 2 hrs of plain vanilla is so satisfying. maybe one day

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by notequiteatroll

i must be missing out on all sorts of fun. but just 2 hrs of plain vanilla is so satisfying. maybe one day

You need a double, NQAT. Sarahlynn...where are you?

[notequiteatroll]

you hush. trying to fill my mind with carnal obsessions?

[Ginger Doll]

I plead the... Oh hell. Yes, I was. Lol

[DallasRain]

Great post!! "The Dallas Experience" can involve many realms into kinky town...BUT
I always say that there are alot of kinky things I WILL do,but there are a few I would NEVER do! It just all comes down to doing whatever makes ya feel good and happy!!!

[Danielle Reid]

I haven't met a client that's into kink...or at least one that isn't afraid to mention he's into kink

[Guest061415-1]

Originally Posted by MaryBeth

I haven't met a client that's into kink...or at least one that isn't afraid to mention he's into kink

MB, that's because at its core, "kink" is a private thing. To admit to another person what truly turns you on is opening oneself to vulnerability, and we're all afraid of humiliation. We fear the judgement from others, and so we keep our innermost desires carefully hidden away.

Think of the folks who are into watersports, or bondage. Role playing. Whips and neo-Nazi leather leotards. All of it opens up our private "self" to another person. In the case of a true relationship, such revelation takes time and emotional investment. In the hobby world, it's a lot harder to share that innermost fantasy with a provider.

If I asked you to pee in your panties while performing BBBJ-CIM on me, and I was wearing a Howard The Duck costume, you might be tempted to laugh at me. And I really don't want folks to laugh at me.

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Slingerland

MB, that's because at its core, "kink" is a private thing. To admit to another person what truly turns you on is opening oneself to vulnerability, and we're all afraid of humiliation. We fear the judgement from others, and so we keep our innermost desires carefully hidden away.

Think of the folks who are into watersports, or bondage. Role playing. Whips and neo-Nazi leather leotards. All of it opens up our private "self" to another person. In the case of a true relationship, such revelation takes time and emotional investment. In the hobby world, it's a lot harder to share that innermost fantasy with a provider.

If I asked you to pee in your panties while performing BBBJ-CIM on me, and I was wearing a Howard The Duck costume, you might be tempted to laugh at me. And I really don't want folks to laugh at me.

Is that Howard the Duck?? lol

[Ginger Doll]

LOL!!!

Remember Slingerland, if you keep your penis in my mouth, it's nearly impossible for me to laugh.

[jim1995]

Kink covers a lot of ground IMO. One persons kinky might be nibbling on your nipples while the next is whips, chains, leather, multiple people, humiliation, toys for boys, or torture with a safe word. Maybe beyond all of that.

The craziest I ever get is porno style session - sport fucking with some dirty talking from her and maybe a facial/CIM.

[Guest061415-1]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

LOL!!!

Remember Slingerland, if you keep your penis in my mouth, it's nearly impossible for me to laugh.

"Nearly" doesn't quite cut it beautiful lady... but if you'll bring the elf costume, maybe we can get the "feathers flying"

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Slingerland

"Nearly" doesn't quite cut it beautiful lady... but if you'll bring the elf costume, maybe we can get the "feathers flying"

That Christmas elf has been my most requested outfit, ever!! Lol. An elf and a duck... I'm feeling it!

[tuckahoe]

And a lot of providers advertise "freaky". Is that different from "kinky"? Do they really want to be a freak?