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Topgun007 · 03-20-2014, 07:37 AM

Why do some providers post their services on their web site/P411 and others don't?

Wouldn't communication improve in the hobby for all if this was done?

Other wise, we are at the mercy of an accurate reviews, which everybody knows some are more accurate then others.
Any feedback is appreciated.
Thanks

BigMikeinKC · 03-20-2014, 08:10 AM

One reason, I'm told, is that YMMV. If she posts it, you expect it.

Stiffy008 · 03-20-2014, 08:28 AM

Some items on the Menu get 69.
So don't count on the Menu.
Treat the Provider like a Queen and GF, thing's could get Added to the Menu, "just for you"
If your not clean or smell nice, THings can change up in a heart beat, and the SAme goes for the PROvider.
I have read the stories of Clients Running out the DOOR...

Topgun007 · 03-20-2014, 08:32 AM

I think there is more of a chance of a service being performed if it is advertised then if it is not.
We all know that a provider has the right to edit services based on each individual date.

MsElena · 03-20-2014, 08:42 AM

Think of it this way:

If a lady puts Greek on her website, every guy is going to expect it to happen. That's including the guy who has a HUGE dick. She sees his size and says no. He gets mad and storms out with cash in hand. Depending on who it is, he could end up writing a bad review.

If she keeps it off the website or board, then no one gets upset and no hard feelings. We want to avoid conflict, not welcome it.

The better you treat your ATF/providers/whatever, the better you get treated. My regulars get perks that new guys don't. But, it also depends on how he treats me.

malwoody · 03-20-2014, 08:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

One reason, I'm told, is that YMMV. If she posts it, you expect it.

+1

There are two groups at play here..

Those who attempt to live in a B & W world..

Those who realize said world is and always will be full of GRAY....

Topgun007 · 03-20-2014, 08:57 AM

Your point is a good one, but why then do some providers still post? To give us a tease?

Obviously, our provider always reserves the right to provide any service or services.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MsElena

Think of it this way:

If a lady puts Greek on her website, every guy is going to expect it to happen. That's including the guy who has a HUGE dick. She sees his size and says no. He gets mad and storms out with cash in hand. Depending on who it is, he could end up writing a bad review.

If she keeps it off the website or board, then no one gets upset and no hard feelings. We want to avoid conflict, not welcome it.

The better you treat your ATF/providers/whatever, the better you get treated. My regulars get perks that new guys don't. But, it also depends on how he treats me.

MsElena · 03-20-2014, 09:14 AM

I can't say why they do it. They might do it because they feel that they will get more clients if they have everything listed on their menu.

Its frustrating, but maybe some questions could be cleared up once the screening has taken place and if she agrees to talking about it.

A few hurdles to jump, I know........frustrating.

SinsOfTheFlesh · 03-20-2014, 09:52 AM

It is all about comfort level. Just about every decision a provider makes - to show her face or not, include her telephone number in ads or not, list specific menu items or not - every provider decides how to manage her business based on what she is comfortable with. Women also know that the less forthcoming they are, the more likely they are to lose business. But providers have to do what they feel comfortable with, and balance that against what is best for their business.

Listing specific menu items on her website or her profile is not very discreet. Some women feel safer not spelling out explicit activities, which is understandable, while other women are more comfortable with it, depending on the specific website in question. On P411 I list my menu, but I don't on my own website, nor do I mention any specific activities in any other ads.

Topgun007 · 03-20-2014, 10:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It is all about comfort level. Just about every decision a provider makes - to show her face or not, include her telephone number in ads or not, list specific menu items or not - every provider decides how to manage her business based on what she is comfortable with. Women also know that the less forthcoming they are, the more likely they are to lose business. But providers have to do what they feel comfortable with, and balance that against what is best for their business.

Listing specific menu items on her website or her profile is not very discreet. Some women feel safer not spelling out explicit activities, which is understandable, while other women are more comfortable with it, depending on the specific website in question. On P411 I list my menu, but I don't on my own website, nor do I mention any specific activities in any other ads.

Excellent insight, very well put.
Thanks

Guest013121 · 03-20-2014, 12:58 PM

And some providers will post that she offers certain activities when she actually doesn't in order to gain more traffic to her ads. Just like the girls that start monthly threAds about adding a new service to their menu...... But never do. I am GFE, my reviews back me up.

Its about girls not knowing how to market themselves these days. Or its about girls not being comfortable doing gfe, but they know advertising it will get them more traffic. And some girls just dont know the true definition of some of the services.

Audrey Astor · 03-20-2014, 01:24 PM

I list it in P411 as it seems logical to me, and it fits. There are certain times where I offer BNG and advertise for it ( because GFE is not available). It's not my preference though. I don't advertise services in my ads, because I think it draws LE attention. I'm sure it really doesn't, but... The main reason though, is because I am marketing to those who want the whole experience, who want to spend time and let it progress naturally. I'm not interested in just being a hole. There is nothing wrong with those that have a different agenda or opinion. That is just my thought.

Topgun007 · 03-20-2014, 01:37 PM

Another excellent answer. Thanks

bigcockpussylicker · 03-20-2014, 01:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It is all about comfort level. Just about every decision a provider makes - to show her face or not, include her telephone number in ads or not, list specific menu items or not - every provider decides how to manage her business based on what she is comfortable with. Women also know that the less forthcoming they are, the more likely they are to lose business. But providers have to do what they feel comfortable with, and balance that against what is best for their business.

Listing specific menu items on her website or her profile is not very discreet. Some women feel safer not spelling out explicit activities, which is understandable, while other women are more comfortable with it, depending on the specific website in question. On P411 I list my menu, but I don't on my own website, nor do I mention any specific activities in any other ads.

Nicely worded

royamcr · 03-20-2014, 04:19 PM

Greek is always ymmv because it can be very painful and dangerous*even. The amount of pain increases proportionally with size. Show up with a little finger sized dick and most girls will let you bang them in the ass all day. Show up with a baseball bat for a dick and only the gapiest ass chicks will let you play.