Secret Life Of A Hooker. Would YOU Really Care?

[royamcr]

You can lie to me all you want. :-)

[Guest013121]

Let me clarify what I meant by looking for clues. I was in this mans car almost every day for five years. I never snooped, never opened up glovebox or consoles or broke into his briefcase or anything. One day I would see lots of books and footnotes and think he writes books, he's an author! Then another day I would see law books so I was like, oh! He's a lawyer. Then another day I would see like paperwork galore and more books so I decided he must be a professor. I was being observant, not snooping. Very big difference. Did I invade his privacy? Uh, no. He invited me in his car. I always just figured he was a book salesman or professor. And I left it at that. Its in everyones nature to always be curious about someone's job or personal life when you are in a relationship with that person. Yes, he was a client, but he was also a dear friend of mine. I really don't care about crossing me off your 'to see' list threats. LMAO! Honestly, if you have never seen me and then you threaten me to not see me that just sounds lame.

[pheonix63]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Let me clarify what I meant by looking for clues. I was in this mans car almost every day for five years. I never snooped, never opened up glovebox or consoles or broke into his briefcase or anything. One day I would see lots of books and footnotes and think he writes books, he's an author! Then another day I would see law books so I was like, oh! He's a lawyer. Then another day I would see like paperwork galore and more books so I decided he must be a professor. I was being observant, not snooping. Very big difference. Did I invade his privacy? Uh, no. He invited me in his car. I always just figured he was a book salesman or professor. And I left it at that. Its in everyones nature to always be curious about someone's job or personal life when you are in a relationship with that person. Yes, he was a client, but he was also a dear friend of mine. I really don't care about crossing me off your 'to see' list threats. LMAO! Honestly, if you have never seen me and then you threaten me to not see me that just sounds lame.

He could have been all 3. John Grisham is probably the most notable, but I have had professors that are lawyers and writing books as well. At the same time he could have not been and just been trying to better himself by going to school and learning about the law. Either way when something is in plain view that isn't snooping. Speaking of Grisham if anyone gets the chance to read A Painted House, do so. It is a very good read.

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Let me clarify what I meant by looking for clues. I was in this mans car almost every day for five years. I never snooped, never opened up glovebox or consoles or broke into his briefcase or anything. One day I would see lots of books and footnotes and think he writes books, he's an author! Then another day I would see law books so I was like, oh! He's a lawyer. Then another day I would see like paperwork galore and more books so I decided he must be a professor. I was being observant, not snooping. Very big difference. Did I invade his privacy? Uh, no. He invited me in his car. I always just figured he was a book salesman or professor. And I left it at that. Its in everyones nature to always be curious about someone's job or personal life when you are in a relationship with that person. Yes, he was a client, but he was also a dear friend of mine. I really don't care about crossing me off your 'to see' list threats. LMAO! Honestly, if you have never seen me and then you threaten me to not see me that just sounds lame.

I was just saying that it could have been considered that way. How you worded the comment etc impied some snooping was involved, more then just items sitting around in the car. I can understand being curious, and if i saw the same lady once a week for 5 years she might know more then just my name and the car I drive.

[Truckman1]

I think as long as you are not lying about health issue let both side say what they are going to say.

[JD Barleycorn]

I do like to ask questions because I am curious but try to keep them non revealing. I don't have a problem answering questions as long as where I work or live is off limits. I had a couple of experiences years ago where a woman showed up at my door at 2 and 3 AM shouting my name. The neighbors were not amused. Another gave the information to her boyfriend (pimp) who ripped me off the next week.

[The Sixth Beatle]

I think I'd be naturally curious, but if she doesn't want to talk about it, I wouldn't press. I respect other people's privacy.

[anyfool]

For me its about two adults (ok, maybe three sometimes) acting of their own volition. If I were to get a sense that another party was pulling the strings I would be out immediately. True, it may not be easy to tell, but that's why I research new friends carefully.

[britneyboobiesxoxo]

Here's my .02. I ALWAYS have guys asking me questions( I think it's because I'm young,22, and they feel they CAN, or maybe because I'm so sweet they just ask) A lot of dudes ask me "do you parents know what you do" or "what city do you live in" Would I think it's wrong to fib, although I usually don't..if I feel a guy is potentially stalker status, I fib. Men, most of you are normal sane guys with families at home who wouldn't care to delve too much into personal life, or furthermore wouldn't think to use the info. gained in conversation againest a provider. BUT we do not worry about you guys...we worry about the stalkers, the crazies, and the dangerous...heck even the guys who "fall in love" and then becomes a big problem. I appreciate the guys with the attitudes of "as long as whatever the lie is doesnt endanger me, I dont care" Because trust me babes, you guys would NEVER want a provider to be brutally honest in a session...simply would ruin the fantasy- and then it's just like bein at home anyways !!!! Healthy views on this hobby are very important, or else you could get youre feelings hurt(both ways)
xoxox -R

[Guest012814]

Well said Riley. I second that and most other opinions here. I personally don't ask a lot of questions as I like to keep the session in the realm of fantasy. Providers that talk way too much about there personal lives detract from the fantasy. A little get to know you chit chat is good for building a rapport and chemistry, but too much information takes me out of the fantasy and ruins it.
I'm totally comfortable with providers asking certain questions for their protection but again, I'm not comfortable answering 100 questions about specifically what I do for a living and where, where I live, specifics on home situation etc.
Both providers and hobbyists alike do this for the fun and fantasy. Too many questions takes it from fantasy to reality.

[Onatop]

I have always experienced a few minutes of chit chat - kind of breaks the ice on a first time meeting - the thread was started on the subject of secret life of a provider - it would be interesting to know for some but I agree on a thread comment - after you leave really no one cares or should they ? I tend not to see a provider that works for a agency ( they are pimps but in a glamorous way ) - I did experience a meeting twice with a nice provider whom use to post on here well reviewed - once I was like a little late and had to be hurried due to another was scheduled - during the second meeting it was mentioned that she was told by him not to let no one get any free time - while driving home I thought about this - hmmm well she did not post as independent or as with a agency - but in a way found out she has had a overseer ( pimp ) from the day she started -
Me personally it bothers me to see a provider whom is not independent or free of a pimp - I guess I looked at it as benefiting from someone else's work -
Kind of difficult to find a real pic independent care free provider
But I was spoiled once when I started the hobby that was the perfect provider - client relationship and no she did not have a pimp even went to her house a few times as she did mine - oh well there may be another .

[Still Looking]

99% of the providers I see.... I happen to be their first and only appointment of the day, almost everyone is going through schoool, they all don't require it but certainly appreciate tips and none of them have ever done bare back.

[Onatop]

Well the one provider I referenced I was lucky to schedule late morning or the first out of the rodeo pen - did try several other times to see again but schedules conflicts and middle of day or end of day seemed to be the only option. Yes seeing a one a day provider would be great - tipping is ones choice but if you do such some tend to expect more each meeting
and money does not grow off trees either. SL you seem to make the rounds - geographic location makes a big difference - thanks for your reply.

[Guest013121]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

99% of the providers I see.... I happen to be their first and only appointment of the day, almost everyone is going through schoool

This seems to be the case for me and a lot of the other well-known ladies around. Even when I tour I still tend to see the gentlemen I know (I'm just a little busier, lol). I have enjoyed reading everyones views and opinions throughout this thread. It shows that we all need to make sure we participate in this hobby with our eyes wide open.

[gary5912]

I know I will get hammered for saying this but for all you gents and ladies, according to the good book adultery is one of the ultimate sins, which I am guilty, just a thought