Cool or Uncool?

[Guest082513-02]

Originally Posted by KenMonk

Its called.... number change :P

Did i tell you that you could speak?

<gives Ken the LOOK as I swing the anal hook and nut crusher around>

LOL

[Johngalt0316]

Completely depends upon the chemistry between the two players, and the perceived level of interest on the guys part. Also agree expectations on the business arrangement should be made clear. Maybe a pm asking if it's cool to text/email to a hobby phone/email would be best first step? I, for one, would dig it if certain providers (you know who you are),would reach out to me if they were wanting to see me.

[royamcr]

Still waiting on my picture. :-)

[Longermonger]

Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

Did i tell you that you could speak?

<gives Ken the LOOK as I swing the anal hook and nut crusher around>

LOL

...not sure I'd want a lady with an anal hook (WTF is that?!) emailing me.

[KCQuestor]

Because "nut crusher" is much more reassuring?!?

[JackStorm]

Originally Posted by Johngalt0316

Completely depends upon the chemistry between the two players, and the perceived level of interest on the guys part. Also agree expectations on the business arrangement should be made clear. Maybe a pm asking if it's cool to text/email to a hobby phone/email would be best first step? I, for one, would dig it if certain providers (you know who you are),would reach out to me if they were wanting to see me.

John beat me to it but for me its a no brainer. A PM on site is more anonymous than an Email. Also If they are on site they are more likely to be interested.

[Guest080613]

Originally Posted by MsElena

Its nice to send them an email within 24/48 hours after your session with them. Anything after that is in bad taste in my opinion. Unless you're traveling and they asked you to email them.

I pretty much agree with MsElena. On the other side, I also think it's OK for the client to send a provider a PM within 24/48 hours to let the provider know they had a good time but then leave the ladies alone unless you want to schedule (for the most part).

The one area would be if the lady is offering a special to her "preferred" clients and wants to let them know about it. Then it would be appropriate. I would not, however, text them. Believe it or not a lot of guys do NOT have a hobby phone and an unwanted text from a provider at the wrong time can cause serious issues. Stick to emails.

Jack

[Guest080613]

Originally Posted by Starry69

Maybe a PM thru ECCIE would be safer?

Personally I would like to receive a PM or email from a provider I clicked with, it would be soothing for the ego. Having said that, my ego is down to earth enough that I don't think I would mistake it for being OTC.

I can see how that could be a problem though.

Depending on the tone of the PM from provider to client and the mood of the client, the PM COULD be construed as spamming for business regardless of the intent of the provider. This isn't allowed and if a client reports it the Provider might end up with an infraction, so I'd avoid the PM route myself.

BTDT as a mod having to deal with these issues and it kinda of sucks sometimes because we know the provider wasn't really spamming but the client took it that way.

Jack

[hairyhoudini]

I was a long time regular. Do to living arrangements with another roomate her incall time was very limited.So I would take care of accomodation. She knew about every 6wks or so I'd be contacting her. She started contacting me when she had the place to herself. Saved me $ and allowed me to see her longer. I appreciated it very much.