let me clear the air

[UnderConstruction]

So you're the one guy who watches the local news. Always wondered...

Also, looking out for number one and running out on a lady in distress tells me just about everything I need to know about you. Please don't respond. This shit is getting old. If you want the last word, take it. I must have something better to do than this.

[Guest030317]

Originally Posted by UnderConstruction

So you're the one guy who watches the local news. Always wondered...

Also, looking out for number one and running out on a lady in distress tells me just about everything I need to know about you. Please don't respond. This shit is getting old. If you want the last word, take it. I must have something better to do than this.

Actually running out on her is something I wouldn't do because I wouldn't be there in the first place.

Thanks for the last word... You can go back to eating cheetos and masterbating.

HAIL!

[Ginger Doll]

This situation is definitely tragic for Sarah and her children, and I'm sure everyone here genuinely empathizes and wishes her and her family the best.

However, the danger of being caught up in an altercation with her volatile ex is highly likely based on his harassment & stalking behavior. I don't think any logical person would discount the seriousness of the situation, nor could they ignore the potential that they would risk serious harm themselves by associating with her. It would also be a very difficult thing to explain for most of the gentleman here, who have significant others and families outside of the hobby.

In my opinion, avoiding local hobby encounters for the time being is probably the best thing to do. Hire a sitter, and travel to work in a location where you know your ex won't pose a danger to you, or any of your clients.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

UC, you can argue some weird shit sometimes. Nobody here wants to see a lady in this situation. But we did not put her there and we can't get her out, no matter what badasses we perceive ourselves to be. And the last thing I want is to find myself in the middle of this drama in any shape or form. There are plenty of ways a stalking, crazy ex could lash out at you without ever giving you an opportunity to kick his ass.

[siberia]

She can post her old handle in other
cities through advertising. He will
think she has moved
and keep watching her decoy
ads.
Any suggestions to help her because
She has kids to feed. Ijs
You seem extremely smart Das,
Any ideas?

[Sidinman78]

Originally Posted by siberia

extremely smart Das

I've heard him called worse.

[UnderConstruction]

Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

UC, you can argue some weird shit sometimes. Nobody here wants to see a lady in this situation. But we did not put her there and we can't get her out, no matter what badasses we perceive ourselves to be. And the last thing I want is to find myself in the middle of this drama in any shape or form. There are plenty of ways a stalking, crazy ex could lash out at you without ever giving you an opportunity to kick his ass.

Simple way to avoid it; don't see her.

[UnderConstruction]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

This situation is definitely tragic for Sarah and her children, and I'm sure everyone here genuinely empathizes and wishes her and her family the best.

However, the danger of being caught up in an altercation with her volatile ex is highly likely based on his harassment & stalking behavior. I don't think any logical person would discount the seriousness of the situation, nor could they ignore the potential that they would risk serious harm themselves by associating with her. It would also be a very difficult thing to explain for most of the gentleman here, who have significant others and families outside of the hobby.

In my opinion, avoiding local hobby encounters for the time being is probably the best thing to do. Hire a sitter, and travel to work in a location where you know your ex won't pose a danger to you, or any of your clients.

The voice of reason...

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

Don't see her. Yes sir, that would be my plan
Yes sir. Gather your wits.

[Worldtravler]

Not trying to be a ass or anything, and I don't have anything against the OP. But it doesn't make much since with the name change, if your still signing your post xoxo ***** and have a picture of your face in your signature line. And allowing people to still use your old name in your reviews. If he found you once on here I'm pretty sure he has already put too and too together.

Anyways wish you the best of luck and keep safe.

[Reznornin]

Worldtraveler, that is probably the smartest post in this thread. He already found you here, and you start a thread about how he found you here and why you had to change handles. So if we can read the explanation and reasoning, so can he! Not trying to be an ass, but another handle change seems to be in order, change your pics, only let previous clients know via PM who you are. It sucks, but if you want to start over incognito, it means just that, starting over.

[Btkj30]

Please give Jonesboro a try I would love to see you!!!!

[ShelaMarie]

I have changed my number, email,name, and photos. I choose to work from a hotel for now. My ex has shown up once, he isn't trying to hurt anyone as much as make me out to be a bad mom. I rely on eccie to support myself and two children. Business is slow and a lot slower now that I have all of these changes on my account. If u do not feel thatl I am keeping myself and others safe as I go on this path, then by all means do not book with me. But I can assure u, that safety I's my number one priority. I'm doing my best to make the best of a horrible situation

[Hatty242]

Geez guys!! We're a community. To me that means when one of us gets in a bit of a jam we do what we can to help where possible. Ivanna stopped seeing folks at here private place due to an ex being a jerk. That doesn't mean the world ends and it breaks my heart to see people want to distance themselves because of that. Due to all of this I sent a note yesterday and spent a wonderful hour with Ivanna which helped her with business and I had a great and wonderful time with a great gal. Win win! I hear guys get all sissy-fied for fear of going to a motel. Heck, my personal view is that the risk in a private residence is the same if not higher. Neighbors can notice guys coming in and out and report it. If I go to a motel where you have to walk by the front desk just take a briefcase or a backpack that makes you look like you are staying there - the front desk never notices. Heck -they see people walking by all day and shifts change they don't know who belongs there and who doesn't.
Anyway, my two cents. Hopefully I don't get flamed.
Incidentally my time yesterday was smoking hot and by the time we were done we were both glistening with sweat so hey have some fun and help out at the same time!

[scooter]

I aint sceared...scoot