So what's the deal with DATY?

[NormalBob]

Another thought on this.

I've experienced two women who squirt (read: gush in multiple voluminous projectile streams) when they cum hard. These were pretty fantastical fantasy-like experiences previously only seen by me in a movie. I doubt my utilitarian man-tool would have been sufficient to get them to that point. Had DATY/digits been off the table, I would have missed out.

[Guest091813]

Ahh this subject....is always a funny one for me..memories of those that can get me off that way..memories of those that cant and then we moved to a different position and then they did get me off....and one particiular smell tested guy that didnt pass the sniff test...
i sniffed..actually sniffed him before he even got to my door!!PEEEEEEEEUUUUUUUU!!!!!!! !

I turned that session immediately into a fun fetish sesh...wrapped him in saran wrap
and sent him on his way for the same fee..... but yeah love that daty!

[JOHNBALLS]

Originally Posted by jokacz

I passed the smell test.

Are you sure?? did you confirm?? LOL..

[Andrea Davis]

I personally don't mind DATY. And I don't mind letting you know if you are doing it correct. And if you feel its a safety problem then I will bring out a fresh dental dam.

xoxo Andy

[johnhenry1968]

Brooke wrote: "

I just think from my point of view, that even though yes you are paying for my time and TIME only..... it isn't all about the male. If both parties can enjoy their self to the fullest, and have a wonderful time making fireworks... its gonna lead to a better experience then me just "pretending" to get off when really I have other things on my mind, just want it over with ect ect."

I think there is a middle ground here for providers. When I'm at work there are parts of my job I like better than others but if I expect to get a check then I have to do them all. So I give it my honest best effort and try to look happy when I'm doing the less pleasing tasks that come to me.

There is no way providers can enjoy their experience each and every time; nor (I'm guessing) can they chase away legitimate clients just because they don't have orgasms from seeing them. Like everything in life...some things are just better than others. True for everything from a meal in a restaurant to a BBBJ from a provider to DATY from a hobbyist. (I travel for a living...I can still grimace at the thought of some of the meals I've choked down over the years and grin at the sheer joy of some of the others!)

JH

[Biomech]

Originally Posted by NormalBob

I've experienced two women who squirt (read: gush in multiple voluminous projectile streams) when they cum hard.

Hey Bob, would it be too much to ask to PM the names of either or both of these ladies?

I too have seen this in movies, but have yet to experience it and it definitely interests me.

[NormalBob]

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[NormalBob]

[Nightcrawler29]

I'm with Brook in that if the lady doesn't enjoy it, then neither I . I can tell right away when a lady is in a hurry to end the session... there is no chemistry whatsoever, communication between each other is poor, and the moves don't come naturally. The last time I visited a provided she asked what I wanted her to wear, and I just told her that whatever made her feel sexy and comfortable. If I choose for her, she might not get in the mood, and if she doesn't get in the mood, then it won't be a good experience for me either. I truly believe that a session is much more enjoyable when there's a connection with each other. And yes, DATY is fun, but I know its risky.

[Deepthinker]

Originally Posted by NormalBob

This is how I know it must be my fetish. With one particular woman, I've never been able to get her off and she's told me I'll never be able to get her off.

I still probably spent 40 minutes one session simply enjoying the overall experience.

There are a number of things people ask for in a session that I can't relate to but it all contributes to understanding that everyone has their own "thing(s)".

NB: I think I know who you are talking about as she told me the same thing. I have had the chance to have about 15 hours of dates over 3 evenings with her this past month and cracked the code. As she came to me and was seeing me exclusively each date, she was pretty relaxed. Then some tulips and wine to warm things up more. After a jacuzzi and a second bottle of wine, she was a wild woman with everything, including the DATY. Shockingly , she suddenly exploded with a daty/digit combo and soaked the bed. She then passed out briefly from the intensity, and was pretty limp for awhile. I would warn you that she may have torn a clump of my hair out at the same time, and I thought that I may pass out as well from how hard she was pulling me in tighter. WOW! I have only seen 2 other women have that kind of intensity and both of them live 3000 miles away, so nice to have this little development.

[Guest072323]

I would guess that I see about 6-8 different AMP girls per year.
Any of them that offer and "seemingly" enjoy DATY, I will make sure to see again in the VERY near future before they disappear.
I would guess that I only try 2 or 3 "new to me" providers per year. If they allow and seem to enjoy DATY, I put them in "my rotation".
I then have 4 regular "dates" that I see 3 or 4 times a year each.
1 is pretty well reviewed and universally beloved.
The other 3 are somewhere between UTR and VERY UTR.
Those that REALLY enjoy the DATY experience... always reciprocate in kind.
One of my VERY UTR girls once complained to me that while I get her off by tongue EVERY time.... I had never "fucked her" to orgasm.
We scheduled right away for the next week....... and I humbly passed her test.
And it was FUN!!
Not sure if this helps etc.... just my experiences and my well... as NB says.... MY Fetish.
Happy Licking!!

[Laker]

IMHO, DATY is just as integral on the bedroom activity list "session must do" as an appetizer is to a multicoarse dinner! Without it the total is diminished!

[LynnT]

I like it but its a job perk IMO.

The session is about the gentleman's pleasures not mine. You are not my BF nor do I want you as one. You suck it up and provide the service you offer, its a job. You dont always like the job all the time and thats just the way it goes with any job. Just like my day job which I love dearly.. but sometimes I suck up something and do it even if I dont really want to..

If you need to fake it to make the client happy.. you fake it, its part of the job, its all about them. I dont think "capability" has much to do with it. We are not dating or getting married we are spending short times together. part of this job is acting.. question is how well can you act? Its a job, as much as I like it, its still a job. I offer a service. If you cant suck it up for an hour or two well.. (we are not counting A-holes here, just general)

Sure some you will have a better time with than others but the true test of your job is making clients happy all around. Just like some will come back for more and some wont even if they had a good time with you. Thats the way the cookie crumbles.



I do rarely have to fake anything though , I love this job, I do love daty. Im in my prime and ready to go all the time!! This job helps my appetite. Im well rounded and pretty open so I find this job easy and joyful for sure. Things are well. I would say half my clients do it. Its ok of they dont.. reduces risk.


I feel jobless actually.

[BrookeButtons]

i think its safe to say this thread has some how turned into whether or not we like our job or parts of it and the chemistry between a provider and client.... and that wasn't the OP!

I think we should move on and get back on topic. As the orginal question was is DATY safe and do clients perform this regularly on providers....

Edit....for that I believe I would make a great mod someday