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Stopby · 02-01-2011, 03:51 PM

Being someone who enjoys DATY, I'm curious to know if the gents perform on the providers very often? Is it "ok/safe" to do that?

NormalBob · 02-01-2011, 03:56 PM

Define:

'safe'
'very often'

I consider it safe enough that I do it with nearly every quality provider. I used to wonder if I had a fetish and couldn't think of one until it dawned on me that DATY is my fetish.

Reviews friend. Read the reviews.

Stopby · 02-01-2011, 04:12 PM

Sorry, I was trying to be subtle.

'very often' - Is DATY performed on providers by a relatively high percentage of clients. Say 25%+ per week.

'safe' - What is the likelihood of catching Herpes?

It seems I need to dig further into the reviews, thanks again for the help NormalBob. What's the difference between free and premium access in regard to the reviews?

NormalBob · 02-01-2011, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Stopby

What's the difference between free and premium access in regard to the reviews?

$39

Kidding. The real answer to your question is that there is a "secret" portion of each review that becomes visible. It's where guys write about the experience so that the provider doesn't know and so that other guys can tell the provider to gain brownie points.

Also a "Men's Lounge" becomes available where guys can just talk and White Knights can find more material to leak.

It's worth it for newb.

Write a review that gets accepted and the Premium Access is free for 6 weeks.

cravenmorehead · 02-01-2011, 04:26 PM

I love DATY , it's a deal breaker when it's not available . One would assume ( I hate using that word ) that daty with a reputable provider is very safe.

PaGent · 02-01-2011, 04:48 PM

It's my favorite!

I love getting the lady I am with, off that way.

I think when I reach a point I can't get off, I will still continue to hobby just so I can DATY!

OMG! I hope I have a few years left in me!

brutusbluto · 02-01-2011, 05:15 PM

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Originally Posted by NormalBob

$39
It's where guys write about the experience so that the provider doesn't know and so that other guys can tell the provider to gain brownie points.

Also a "Men's Lounge" becomes available where guys can just talk and White Knights can find more material to leak.

It should be noted that it is against board rules to pass along any information from those private areas and if found out will lead to vacations from the board and loss of those privileges.

Nugget4492 · 02-01-2011, 10:43 PM

You can get get any of the STDs through DATY. Some are a very small chance. But herpes, gonorrhea, HPV... Not so small!

I work in the health field, and I DATY. I'm not knocking it, but I know it's a risk every time I do it!

But no one should think it's without risk!!!!!!!!!!

HlavinKitheri · 02-02-2011, 01:09 PM

I go down on hookups and/or SO's if they like that, hoping for reciprocation! I don't mind it at all and I have a not-so-secret technique that works really well.

But I wouldn't with a provider, not because I think they're "dirtier" than other women but because I'm paying. I don't mind DATY, but I wouldn't pay for the privilege.

Maximum4 · 02-02-2011, 02:45 PM

When I see a provider, I'm there because I want it to be all about me. DATY seems to be a waste of time in my book. How can I possibly know if the provider is into it? If you ask about it, they'll say, "no" or "yes". If they say "yes" how do you know if they are faking it or not.

If you need to "get them off" as part of your fantasy, then I guess you'll always do it. I like to be the center of indulgence. Lastly, your reducing your risk if you skip it.

NormalBob · 02-02-2011, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Maximum4

If you need to "get them off" as part of your fantasy, then I guess you'll always do it.

This is how I know it must be my fetish. With one particular woman, I've never been able to get her off and she's told me I'll never be able to get her off.

I still probably spent 40 minutes one session simply enjoying the overall experience.

There are a number of things people ask for in a session that I can't relate to but it all contributes to understanding that everyone has their own "thing(s)".

BrookeButtons · 02-02-2011, 04:43 PM

Any act preformed in a session can be a risk of getting any kind of STD. That's why it is very important to get tested regularly so that you don't end up getting a gift that keeps on giving. If it smells, has weird sores, or not groomed.... I don't go there! Nor should you

Max....I find it rather interesting that you think the appointment is all about you! It takes two to tangle. Both parties should be enjoying their self. You will get a lot of women "faking" their enjoyment with this kind of attitude. But that's just MHO.

MC · 02-02-2011, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Maximum4

When I see a provider, I'm there because I want it to be all about me. DATY seems to be a waste of time in my book. How can I possibly know if the provider is into it? If you ask about it, they'll say, "no" or "yes". If they say "yes" how do you know if they are faking it or not.

I'm of a similar mindset. I ended up trying DATY once, just for the hell of it. However, that whole session, including the DATY, was a bit of a rush job on the provider's part so I can't even tell whether or not I did a good job (Is it strange that we held hands when doing it lol?). I'd be open to trying it again, though.

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Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

If it smells, has weird sores, or not groomed.... I don't go there! Nor should you

Words to live by.

wlhrgfan · 02-02-2011, 05:07 PM

If they fake it it's their business...If they fake it to make you feel better then so be it...If they fake it and you suck at it still is not your problem cause its the same as faking to make you feel better...If you have no clue then ask...If you have a clue or not read her body language and that says it all...

NormalBob · 02-02-2011, 05:16 PM

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or not groomed

You kids these days. /take-drink /does-wheelchair-wheelie