Are there times you really want to hook your civilian friends up w/ a provider?

[coefficient]

Sometimes I do. I'm not going to lie, like snoop said "it ain't no fun if the homey's can't have none"

the only problem is, well, I don't want these guys to know I'm into hobbying.

Outside of that, there's been plenty a time I've wanted to give a friend a "birthday gift" and set him up to go to a certain hotel/notel after I've pre-paid the provider.

[Shake_N_Bake]

My best friend is married and his wife is a huge wildabeest.... Whenever we get together he always wants to go to the strip club and this and that. Everytime we go I always think to myself, "this shit is only the tip of the iceberg" and it's hard to get into it as much as he does.

I have thought that he needs a session big time.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

I will tell you what is strange. A good friend of mine from time to time likes to hobby. He knows I check out the ads, he knows I have an account on here, etc.. instead of him looking up the ads himself or doing his own leg work he wants me to come over with my laptop so he can use my laptop. His reason? He does not want any history of him looking, nor does he want to set up an account on here.

The first couple of times I did not mind, now I tell him to either look em up himself or go to an AMP on 1960 which is where he lives.

[Guest021824]

If the friend is single, it may be cool. If they are married it may be more difficult. He may make it obvious that something is different and no longer discreet about the new world you have introduced him to, and cause you both to be outed.......lol

[Don T. Lukbak]

Very high risk of pissing off the provider....your pal might be a good buddy and everything, a perfect gent when he's in his element...but then when he has a shot at a fallen woman the cat might turn into a friggin' criminal. Unless you have had carnal relations with him (in which case you ought to be on the homo board...but that's subject of some other thread), you can't have any idea of how he do when his nose opens up. You can lecture his ass off about escort etiquette but you can't educate him, and there are motherfuckers who are ineducable.

I learned this the hard way, the usual way I finally learned about everything I "know".

[pyramider]

Start him/her off at an AMP without telling them about any happy endings.

[NorthWood]

Nothing good can come of it. Best keep it all on the down low except with those you know who are already it the hobby. I've got one friend, recently divorced, who has been going buckwild with some girls in Dallas and he can't keep his mouth shut amongst his friends. Eventually some husband is going to tell some wife in our circle of friends about and panties will be gotten in a bunch and he will be ostracized over it, I can guarantee it.

Also, what Don T. Lukbak said... No good deed gooes unpunished.

[coefficient]

wow

[Jackie S]

Keep the Hobby Life as far under the radar as you can. This is one cat that once you let out of the bag, it is out forever.

I am a widower who will be 64 years old in 13 days, with nobody to answer to but myself. And I still keep this life a secret.

I agree also with Don. Words of wisdom.

[Shake_N_Bake]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Keep the Hobby Life as far under the radar as you can. This is one cat that once you let out of the bag, it is out forever.

I am a widower who will be 64 years old in 13 days, with nobody to answer to but myself. And I still keep this life a secret.

I agree also with Don. Words of wisdom.

Very sage advice sir.

[wallstreet]

yeah...keeping my friends in the dark.

[The G.O.A.T]

You got your hobby friends and you got your real world friends. Don't mix em. No good can come of it.

[Cousin Dupree]

My friends do not know about this aspect of my life and I intend on keeping it that way.

[Diabolo]

Originally Posted by The G.O.A.T

You got your hobby friends and you got your real world friends. Don't mix em. No good can come of it.

Very sound advice.

[Dad]

These are not really my friends:

• My dad introduced me to the hobby.
• My new banker introduced me to some of the UTRs.
• My golf guys introduced me to some of the HDHs.

I reciprocated in kind to some of them, except to my dad.