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Autumnkc · 01-11-2011, 09:19 PM

Is it just me or do MOST men have NO problem seeing girls when they are having thier 'time'?
It has been a question I have asked alot of men over the years and I always hear from them that they are kinda grossed out by it... but then I hear stories from girlfriends, that they see men often when they are 'heavy' and they dont seem to care OR know the difference?
Please... you input would be helpful

Autumn

Cheaper2buyit · 01-11-2011, 09:29 PM

Men care most woman don't tell they do the small tampon or cut it in half or other things its best to give a bj or greek special that week or take some time off

jac01 · 01-11-2011, 09:57 PM

If I am with a provider and during the session we both notice that she's started, I don't get upset because I figure hey, things happen. I won't schedule with someone during the time that she tells me that she is currently on her period. Too much risk involved for my taste, what if that condom broke and I was exposed to blood? I hate to think about the potential problem that could cause me. I agree with the last part of what cheaper said, the lady should offer a lollipop special or something else during that time. It would be very dishonest and might make a client pretty upset if she tried to hide it, gave FS, and he found out anyway. If she tells him up front, and he still wants FS, well I can't fault the lady in that situation at all.

astroker · 01-11-2011, 10:19 PM

Some guys want their red wings...

catnipdipper · 01-12-2011, 06:44 AM

Still lots of activities possible during this time. Good time for a man to be lazy and selfish, lay back and........................... ....

Autumnkc · 01-12-2011, 07:31 AM

Alot of girls just wont 'tell' the guy she is on it and I guess the guy is still cool with everything. I guess I wouldnt let it get that far if it was my 'time' and would be upfront, unlike some girls, they dont have an issue with playing while on it, so they just continue and if he finds out, they usually say, 'oh I guess I just started'.
Blows my mind.

guest040711-1 · 01-12-2011, 07:36 AM

It can be quite the experience.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2752

vitokc · 01-12-2011, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Autumnkc

Alot of girls just wont 'tell' the guy she is on it and I guess the guy is still cool with everything. I guess I wouldnt let it get that far if it was my 'time' and would be upfront, unlike some girls, they dont have an issue with playing while on it, so they just continue and if he finds out, they usually say, 'oh I guess I just started'.
Blows my mind.

You make a good point with the just started excuse. There was a discussion similar to this a while back. If she is close, she should know her body better than anyone and should avoid working until it passes. If it doesn't bother the guy, that's his choice. I find it unexcusable. Those aren't the fluids I care to see, or as can be often be the case, smell.

guest010313 · 01-12-2011, 08:48 AM

My very first appointment EVER I totally started right at the end. Everything was fine, he even went down on me, and I got on top, came, and when I pulled off......presto! He was incredibly gracious and saw me again anyway. And I have seen two people while I was ragging since then, one used it as an opportunity to break out the strapon and the other just kinda sighed on the phone and said "I've been married for 30 years" and he didn't care at all lol.

And you men with the "you should know your own body", well it isn't always like clockwork. Can you tell you are premenstrual? Usually. But not always. Sometimes it is a total surprise.

Especially if you spend a LOT of time around other women who don't spend time with each other. Women match cycles with the women they spend time with but if you are being matched to two different cycles it can play silly buggers with your hormones.

I've never dated a guy who cared, and I get so sensitive it is definitely one of my favorite times to get messy.

ampad · 01-12-2011, 07:28 PM

It doesn't bother me at all. My ex started on some new birth control right around the time we got together, and she basically bled every day for the first year we were together so I got very use to it. It took the doctor and her quite a while to get things under control. It bothered me at first, but eventually I had to say 'fuck it' or I was never going to get laid again lol. It wouldn't exactly be a deal breaker if I know the provider very well and there is some trust there. But it isn't something I'm going to seek out ahead of time. I do appreciate being told ahead of time if the lady is aware of it.

vitokc · 01-12-2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ampad

It doesn't bother me at all. My ex started on some new birth control right around the time we got together, and she basically bled every day for the first year we were together so I got very use to it. It took the doctor and her quite a while to get things under control. It bothered me at first, but eventually I had to say 'fuck it' or I was never going to get laid again lol. It wouldn't exactly be a deal breaker if I know the provider very well and there is some trust there. But it isn't something I'm going to seek out ahead of time. I do appreciate being told ahead of time if the lady is aware of it.

When it's your SO, it's a whole different story, accidents happen. In your situation, you adjusted if you wanted to get laid. When you pay for time with a lady..that's a different situation too.

Muffrider · 01-13-2011, 11:49 AM

If the provider wants to stay active while aunt flo is visiting, maybe she should offer a trip to the islands. Personally, it hasn't bothered me when it was someone with whom I was in a committed relationship, but the health risks with a provider are too great.

Muffrider · 01-13-2011, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by SillyGirl

I've never dated a guy who cared, and I get so sensitive it is definitely one of my favorite times to get messy.

They didn't care because your looks and level of enthusiasm/excitement overpowered them, like a form of Jedi mind control over their little heads.

vitokc · 01-13-2011, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Muffrider

Personally, it hasn't bothered me when it was someone with whom I was in a committed relationship, but the health risks with a provider are too great.

The best reason of all. Not just a "oh well" inconvenience.

guest010313 · 01-13-2011, 01:18 PM

I love how the solution everyone gives is bjs and greek! I'd rather not work then not get to have any fun while I'm working