bust a nut in 20???WTF????

[Tiffany Cums]

What I think it is, is that if me and him didn't feel as though we were rushed, and just took our time like we usually do, then he would've been relaxed and got his nut off in time. The fact that we had that time frame hanging over us and we felt rushed is why it wasnt as enjoyable.

I'm not use to quickies. Perhaps if I had more expeirience with them, I may have felt more in control and took things at a better pace.

[Sweet Heather]

Originally Posted by Aguy

Beats me. I've never booked for less than an hour. Even a half hour would feel rushed to me. I figure a provider that is pushing quickies has no desire for any "connection" to her client and that is part of the experience for me.

I only do half hour sessions because I have a busy life and own 3 businesses and only have limited playtime. I see gentlemen that want GFE but don't need a full hour to be satisfied. There are many gents out there that fit that. They simply don't have the need/desire to spend a full hour with someone but like GFE and I fit their needs. PLEASE don't assume that a provider that offers 30 minute sessions is high volume. I may see only 1 gent a day,at the most 3. I don't consider myself high volume, but I don't judge those that are.
The hobby is a big playground with room for everyone and all needs
I see lots of gents that have paid for a full hour, finish in 15-20 minutes and don't want to sit around and chit-chat. There is a place for every need in the hobby. Relax!

[Garland_Bone]

Here is a novel idea:

Charge by the minute, say $5 per minute.
That would make an hour $300, 150 for half, 75 for quarter, etc.

Have a credit card reader. When he comes in, he swipes his card and a timer starts. Nobody has to watch any clocks. when he is satisfied, you stop the timer, and he is charged accordingly. It would be similiar to the way Taxi drivers run thir business. You pay for the exact distance you travel, metaphorical speaking.

Would anyone go for this?

[Tiffany Cums]

Originally Posted by Garland_Bone

Here is a novel idea:

Charge by the minute, say $5 per minute.
That would make an hour $300, 150 for half, 75 for quarter, etc.

Have a credit card reader. When he comes in, he swipes his card and a timer starts. Nobody has to watch any clocks. when he is satisfied, you stop the timer, and he is charged accordingly. It would be similiar to the way Taxi drivers run thir business. You pay for the exact distance you travel, metaphorical speaking.

Would anyone go for this?

Nope, not for me! I do not like that idea at all.

[Freedahavefun]

I do not offer anything less than an hour session, I truly do not know how to do a quicky and do not want to be forced to watch a clock. I have yet to ck the time during a session, I am enjoying myself as much if not more than my client, why would I want it to end?? With me the client shows up we have small talk then we play until we are finished. I will always keep a man as long as I think I can get more out of him...and I am not talking about the donation!!! Truth is I luv men and I luv to play!!

[petiteassman]

you know round 1 i wouldnt last till you clothes hit the floor but i promise rounds 3 and 4 will last much longer

[Eccie Addict]

The only time I have had s time problem in a session was s provider said she offered msog in the hour if wanted so I booked. Went to see her and got the hour. Only problem was that I busted twice in 20 minutes, she was that tight and that good but when I wanted to go again she said 2 times max snd tried to upsell. I was calm and left but extremely disappointed.

[DallasRain]

Ecci babe--you ave not been to the right gals...lol!

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ecci babe--you ave not been to the right gals...lol!

Lol oh I have she is just one. You need to make your way to Houston again

[lisa.lisa0302]

Bust a nut in 20 minutes.....its possible.

I stop doing quickies. Some people like to attempt to go over time, when they should have just paid for a 30min session.

[GenesisNicole]

I have offered quickies in the past but dropped it off of my menu. I ran into too many of those "give an inch, take a mile" type of gents and they were less than willing to be respectful of either my time or compensation.

What I mean is, I offered 15 min quickies. Gent comes over and we get busy, 15 mins turns into 30. Not a problem on my end because I never stack my dates close together. (I prefer to have a couple of hours between each date, and may only take 1-2 dates a day).
I had many gents tell me that they shouldn't have to compensate for the time they went over because it's not like I had another date scheduled right after him...??? WTF!

So instead of being labeled a clock watcher, (1 guy actually called me that when he went 30 mins over date time and I needed to go), I just decided to cater to gents that CAN set aside an hour or longer to spend with me.

*On a side note, I do offer less than hr dates to regulars, (regular being you have seen me more than twice), so those gents can call me up and see me on their lunch breaks and still have time to eat. (pun intended, LOL)

Gen Nicole~

[Garland_Bone]

Originally Posted by Freedahavefun

I will always keep a man as long as I think I can get more out of him...and I am not talking about the donation!!! Truth is I luv men and I luv to play!!

AMEN!

(personal note to self: remember to take little blue pill when scheduling 5 hour date with Freeda)

[bhutgriz]

Originally Posted by 1ThickBlond

Not every client is looking to connect on a deeper level or go through the motions of pretending to be boyfriend/girlfriend for an hour or more. Some just want a basic need filled with no frills...

Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

I have a busy life ... I see gentlemen that want GFE but don't need a full hour to be satisfied... and don't want to sit around and chit-chat.

Thank you ladies for excellent explanations. The two reasons you mentioned are definitely big big reasons I always ask for 1/2 hour or less. I don't hire a pro for a relationship. I have relationships for that. We're all busy, and driving across 2, 3, or 4 counties, often on the down-low, does nothing to help with that.

One more reason for me is what I'm there for in the first place. All I'm interested in - ever - is a well-executed BBBJ. There's a special place in Heaven for those ladies that offer a B+G rate and hold up their end of the bargain. Honestly if you deliver on the B, I'll come through with the G before you ever notice the clock.

The only reason I can see going more than 15 minutes would be unenthusiastic or poorly delivered service, or ironically, if I'm charged an hour rate and I feel like I need to hang on to "get my money's worth." Of course, that predicament has more than once led to the provider looking up after 17 minutes of half-hearted effort and saying, "You can't be serious. There's no way I'm gonna blow you for an hour...." But that is another rant for another day.

My $0.02

[DallasRain]

awesome answers! Thx for feedback!

[Laurentius]

On a first time visit with any woman, I am unlikely to experience orgasm within 20 minutes because I'm in unfamiliar surroundings with an unfamiliar person and I can't relax my level of vigilance enough that quickly. That's why I don't book just 20 minutes. LOL

To compound matters, I'm plenty sensitive but I guess providers are used to guys needing tons of stimulation. So what happens is if a lady is trying to get me off quickly, she'll invariably provide way too much stimulation so it doesn't feel good anymore and she is defeating her own purpose.

However, with a lady with whom I am already comfortable; I suspect I could experience orgasm within just a few minutes; particularly if she can keep me sufficiently engaged.