when should the session timer start and or end?

[dearhunter]

Coed in upstate NY is too tame for an energetic mind..........we like energy in Houston

[ThatManFromTexas]

Originally Posted by dearhunter

Coed in upstate NY is too tame for an energetic mind..........we like Positive energy in Houston

Fixed that for ya...

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

Two Questions:

1. So If DearHunter said, "Pardon me madam ... but would you kindly pass the pussy please?" Would that be considered polite or no?

2. Who is that in your Avatar?

Two answers:

1. Goodness gracious, no, it would not be polite! It might be funny, though. By the way, Doove was referring to my inability to say or type the word in question. It's strange, because I can use much more vulgar ones with no problem. [shrugs]

2. Audrey Hepburn!

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Two answers:

1. Goodness gracious, no, it would not be polite! It might be funny, though. By the way, Doove was referring to my inability to say or type the word in question. It's strange, because I can use much more vulgar ones with no problem. [shrugs]

2. Audrey Hepburn!

Wow I had no idea that was Audrey Hepburn.

Do you think you might ever visit our great city CD?

[camilleMorgan]

Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas

Why didn't you say you were on New York time... that explains everything...

Well now...you learn something new everyday.

[China Doll]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Wow I had no idea that was Audrey Hepburn.

Do you think you might ever visit our great city CD?

It is highly unlikely. I do not travel for business.

[Eccie Addict]

Well that's too bad. It's still nice to have you visit us here in this thread

[bbkid]

Originally Posted by China Doll

I do not travel for business.

Damn, my hobby career is done.

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

It's still nice to have you visit us here in this thread

yeah, what he said.

[Guest120615-3]

Originally Posted by China Doll

Two answers:

1. Goodness gracious, no, it would not be polite! It might be funny, though. By the way, Doove was referring to my inability to say or type the word in question. It's strange, because I can use much more vulgar ones with no problem. [shrugs]

2. Audrey Hepburn!

Wonder if Holly Golightly was a "clockwatcher"?
Couldn't resist the Breakfast at Tiffany's reference.
What was it like $50 for the night? That's some deal!

[Guest091010-2]

Just an FYI on how you can expect the time situation to work when dealing with me-or if you don't feel my system is fair then by all means choose not to deal with me:
#1. You are paying for my time. Talking time. Intimate time. Time spent shooting the shit. Time spent anywhich way that time can be spent. It's your time babe, do with it what you will. Tell me if you prefer to chat a good while or if you prefer a purely physical session, please don't be concerned that you will offend my virgin ears by voicing how you would like your time with me to go.
#2. I will NEVER try to rush you out the door BEFORE your appointment time is up. If you have things to do after you get your rocks off I won't hold you prisoner but if you want every last second of the time you paid good money for then I have ZERO issue with giving it to you.
#3. I will NEVER tolerate guys trying to bully me into free time. I sell my time. If I give it away for free then there's less reason for anyone to buy it. If you are wasting my time I can't be spending it with someone who respects me and my JOB enough to pay me for the time we agreed on.
#4. I take the client's lead RE: chatting it up or getting intimate as soon as the clock starts ticking...I'm not a mind reader and if you don't make the first move then I will do what feels most natural to me which is to chat with you until I feel like getting more intimate-if you wait on me to get you naked you could quite possibly be waiting 45 mins. You're a grown man, come out and say how you want to spend the time you are paying for.
#5. I'm getting a bit tired of this crap with guys attempting to bully their way into FREE time. It seems some guys have taken it into their heads that if they arrive on time and are asked to leave ON TIME that the girl is a "clock watcher" or is depriving them of something. If you want 90 mins pay for 90 mins don't threaten to give a girl a bad review for not GOING OVER THE MUTUALLY AGREED UPON SESSION TIME.

Are guy's concerened that if a girl makes you abide by your agreement that she must be disctracted and pre-occupied with the idea of time while on your date? If so how would you feel about an actual timer being set as soon as the provider sees your smiling face...that way everyone is clear that when the bell dings it's time to wrap things up and keep it moving and since you both know that you don't have to even think about time until you hear that ding?? That's what they do at the bunny ranch and it seems to work out fine.

[Tony Montana]

Chynadoll and camillemorgan have been adamantly trying to express the same point.

Chinadoll has all the guys in this thread admiring her, falling in love with her, and begging her to come to Houston.

Camillemorgan has basically offended and pissed everyone off.

I guess it's true what the say. It's not what you say it's how you say it.

[Guest091010-2]

Nicely said!

Originally Posted by dearhunter

It is a level playing field........the lady is in charge of the clock........the guy is in charge of the review.

[Guest091010-2]

My reaction to that is you were blatantly robbed if that's how things actually happened and she clearly owes you a refund. If you told her you were ready to "go upstairs" and she basically flat out denied you then you got ROBBED. Simple.

Originally Posted by trouserpress

To me it depends on whom is doing the talking. I always schedule at least an hour and expect a few minutes of "getting to know you" time so we both feel comfortable and can lay out our expectations or do's and don'ts in that time. After that, I feel that the person continuing the conversation determines the time frame. If I keep yapping on and on I expect it to come out of my time. If the provider is determined to continue the conversation, I don't expect it to come out of my time. To give an example, I scheduled with a provider once and made it clear that my time that day would be tight as I had numerous things to do. She talked and talked and talked. I told her MULTIPLE times that we needed to get things moving as I needed to leave, but she kept saying "this is part of the experience I provide" while repeating the same stories and her resume over and over. We barely had 15 minutes to accomplish what I came there for. For all the ladies posting here, what is your reaction to that? I tried to move the session to the bedroom where I think it belongs, but she just wouldn't go. I can't drag a provider into the bedroom but why should the customer's time be compromised in such a way? Most of the provider responses on here lean toward the "an hour is an hour is an hour" side, but there has to be some common sense applied I think. There are people who abuse the getting to know you time on both sides, but the responses here don't seem to recognize that. I did post a "no" review on the old board of that provider and this exact same type of thread was the result with the same responses. If a provider has screened the client properly, why would she need more than those few minutes? If the client has done his homework, he shouldn't need more than that either. I know that time is money for the provider, but for the client the money I spend is for activities and not conversation. As I am a 1 pop guy, its only been an issue that one time, but it should never come to that imo.

[Guest091010-2]

Likewise if a CLIENT shows blatant disregard for a provider's time and bullying type tendencies RE: said time then it's best for everyone to get that out in the open too.That way everyone's honest and things can stay nice and simple.

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Nobody threatened anybody with a negative review. Let me quote again what I stated.



I stand by my statement. I guarantee you a lot of other guys feel the same way, they just won't post it.

If anybody wants to be a self proclaimed being clock watcher, that is their business and I respect that. They can just post away.

If any guy chooses not to visit a self proclaimed clock watcher, that is their business and they can take their hard earned cash elsewhere.

Mars/Venus

X/Y

[LAVixian]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I think that it really just boils down to communication. That is the key in any relationship, business or personal. We as clients need to do a little research to see the type of provider we want to see. Ladies just be clear on what you allow and what you don't. If you let us slide on something that's your choice and if you don't then we should understand.

+1

Very well stated. Although I am not in Texas, we run into situations like this where everyone has their own veiw on when to start and stop. As some of the lovely ladies have already stated, the time starts when you walk into the door.

Think about it like this...You contact a well known, highly reviewed provider that is constantly seeked out because of her awesome BCD skills... well, chances are, she probably has a full plate on her hands. ie: the hobby, another job, kids, family, etc... whatever her position in life entails... she is scheduling her appointments around her life. What IF she HAS to leave at exactly 2 o'clock... to pick up her children from school/daycare?

What IF she has to leave at 2 o'clock because she has 15 mintues to get to her real job or possible as another booking setup? Should her next client be punished? Or her real life suffer to appease someone else? These are questions that we ALL take into consideration during screening and booking appointments.

My advice is... if you want to skip the talking and get straight down to the nitty gritty... as soon as she walks in, throw the donation and your ID down on the table, strip down naked and start jacking off. Lol. Then she can quickly count the money and check your ID and I promise that she will take the hint that you are ready to get down on it as quickly as possible.

Another point on the matter is whether you are seeing a GFE or a PSE provider... GFE is more likely going to talk to you to make you more comfortable. If you don't want GFE... then start paying attention to their websites.