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Originally Posted by KCQuestor
JR,
Look into "illegal contracts" and "void contracts". It isn't a legal contract if the purpose of the agreement is to achieve an illegal end, or if the contract is contingent on one or both parties performing illegal acts.
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Well Duh;
If someone's word isn't good; don't do business with them. Legal, illegal (that's a sick bird) or otherwise. She made a deal and she should stick to it. If she provides more and you are happy, you should give her a tip or additional compensation for the extra time because "she forgot about the time, she was having such a good time." Thank you, thank you very much for the added service (I know this is an act, she knew. She is in business for the time) and thank you for treating me special. That's what I wanted.
You don't have to say what the agreement was, the office will get the idea. When I was very young, I once had the same crap pulled on me; when I objected a big pimp came into the room. I told him I wanted my money back or I would call the police and make sure he saw the judge. I got my money back. He wanted to steal, but he didn't want the trouble that could go with it. Too many of these jerks think that the hobby is about how they can rip people off. Avoid these people like that like the bubonic plague. There are too many nice people in the world. The real reason that the hobby is illegal is because of the nonsense that goes along with it. If there are no problems, LE just doesn't care. But you can bet the farm that they monitor the hobby closely to weed out those who create problems. When there are problems, like this, they do care - and they care a lot. When they see problems they will act.
Don't hand us any crap about a void contract. We all know that. Duh. Are you trying to BS us about not calling the cops if you are ripped off. Call them and put both the bitch and the pimp in jail. Let the damn pimp know that you will not be messed with. Come back with the police and nail his ass to the wall legally. If he threatens or touches you, charge him for that too, or tell the officer that he did anyway just for shits and grins.
It may be your word against his and/or hers, but you can bet that you will be listened to and believed before those doing the selling. Help me officer, they approached me; I said no and they robbed me.
If you even hear about a pimp involved scream like hell for the cops and run the bastard in, and go to the trial. You make the complaint and you will be listened to. You can bet that if it happened to you, it had happened to others and they do have the names in the system. Add your encounter to the record and watch for the results. The cops do a dossier on most people involved with the hobby. Make sure that, if you get ripped off, you get an entry in theirs. It does make a difference.
As a matter of fact, LE has a dossier on everyone that has ever had any contact with the police, and probably if they have not. There is a file on everyone somewhere.
This is about sex and feeling good about ourselves, not about being ripped off. Most of the time, you can see trouble coming and just walk away. Most of the time you can get a feel for what this is about when you first talk to her on the phone. Hello, if she is drunk when she answers the phone - hang up.
This was blatant. She took the money: wouldn't give it back, and demanded more.
That being said. I want to again say that there are some great people in the hobby, and I have made some good friends. I have found that by taking my time and learning about people, doing my homework and keeping a list of people that I might want to know (and waiting until you am sure) you can find some real jewels out there; ie, don't let you little head do your thinking. and reward people well who treat you well. There are a lot of nice girls here that need the money. Treat them well.
I can remember only two experience like I described in 50 years in the hobby. Just pay attention to what is going on, and you will be OK. Never create problems. You can walk away most of the time. But you don't have to be a wimp either.
JR
A warning to providers who upsell....
