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Michael_Loomis · 07-11-2012, 02:56 PM

Lately I have been dating a few "civi" girls, that I have met through mutual interest in things or through the popular social network. We have become friends and asked some out on dates.

I can't help but notice how similar it is to Hobbying.

One girl, we were set to meet at 8pm. I texted her about when I got to her area to see if she was ready. She asked if I could give her some time because she wanted to make sure her baby was asleep before she left. So there I aim doing to now familiar "aimless walk through Walgreens/CVS" waiting for a confirmation text to come up. Sound familiar?

Another girl, I'm seeing her this weekend. She lives out of town, but she guaranteed to be giving me a BBBJ before we even leave her driveway.

Thing is she lives with her daughters (a couple of 20 somethings, and a teenager). All Hot btw! So she doesn't have the house to herself so Mom can't bring in some guy and go to her room for a few hours to Fuck, so I would need to get a Hotel. That's about a $150 + $55. Thats the same price for a session with a local provider.

Although I'm having great fun, it seems easier just to stick to Hobbying. One of the girls is already starting to develop "feelings", which is something I may or may not want. Unsure for now.

Sire · 07-11-2012, 05:11 PM

Maybe your civvie girlfriends are secretly providers, and are just caught up in their work pattern.

foxyred73 · 07-11-2012, 05:15 PM

both men and ladys hobby before they get married, down to one night stand or going to a lady for sevice. If you find someone in the hobby world more power to you and at least you are starting the right foot than the wrong foot.

nuglet · 07-11-2012, 05:33 PM

I'm guessing conversation, or letter writing isn't an option.? jusk mesing wit ya babe..

Michael_Loomis · 07-11-2012, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Sire

Maybe your civvie girlfriends are secretly providers, and are just caught up in their work pattern.

I thought about that with the way the second one talks sometimes.

cramster · 07-11-2012, 06:57 PM

I've come to realize there's not a lot of differences between the two groups. It's just that with the providers it's more straight forwards and a lot less guess work. It's usually a more upfront and honest relationship.

313Micah · 07-11-2012, 10:10 PM

Absolutely, 100% more upfront and honest. Guaranteed.

RNB · 07-12-2012, 01:05 AM

There is a huge difference!!!!!

homer13 · 07-12-2012, 01:46 PM

You lost me at 20 yr old daughters.

Toyz · 07-12-2012, 03:02 PM

Seriously when is the last time most of you guys had a legitimate "date"?

Not being mean, just wondering....

homer13 · 07-12-2012, 03:10 PM

I date when I want, I just don't want.

Michael_Loomis · 07-12-2012, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyz

Seriously when is the last time most of you guys had a legitimate "date"?

Not being mean, just wondering....

Last Saturday

Toyz · 07-12-2012, 05:52 PM

Obviously ML, its your thread...

Toyz · 07-12-2012, 05:53 PM

You married Homie...you ain't dating, you fucking around... Can you take a date home with you? Nope you can't.

homer13 · 07-12-2012, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyz

You married Homie...you ain't dating, you fucking around... Can you take a date home with you? Nope you can't.

That was kinda my whole point their Mr Toyz. I have dated in the "vanilla" world as you like to say. I just find that it is cheaper and easier to hobby and then go home. That is not being single, if single I would go back to dating with some strippers mixed in. I say that prayer every night as I lay me down to sleep a single life is one I want to want to figure the fuck out how to keep.