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allofamber · 06-18-2012, 12:13 PM

Ladies you do NOT have to negotiate your prices if you don't want to....if you do then that is YOUR business, but don't do it because you feel pressured by some guy telling you "it's in your best interest" or "don't you know who I am? I'm (insert loser's name here) and I can get you all kinds of business, just let me see you for $50"..or "Hey I'll write you a glowing review for free services....".....please don't be silly and fall for any of this BS..

Now for the ladies who HATE the negotiation and can't stand when guys try and tell them "lower your rates and I'll see you" or "your prices are too high you'll never make it in this market" ...you ladies have 2 options...

1. ignore his message and block him from contacting you again..pretty simple..and to the point.

2. You can negotiate .....(with a twist)...and have some fun in the process

Your negotiation will sound something like this....

hobby-boy ~ Hi Provider, i was just looking at your pictures and I think you are VERY beautiful and I would love to spend an hour with you this Friday around 2pm. The only problem is your $500 price is a little to high, but I would be willing to offer $200 for your time. Let me know if you are open to this negotiation..all my love Hobby-boy"

Provider ~ Hi Hobby-boy, thank you so much for all the sweet compliments. I see that you are trying to negotiate MY prices is this correct?

Hobby-boy ~ Yes I am, are you in?

Provider ~ Okay since we are negotiating my prices...my new rate is $600? Are you in?

Hobby-boy ~ Wait..What? I'm trying to negotiate a cheaper price. I want to pay you $200. Is that okay?

Provider ~ No, we are negotiating, and now my price is $700. Is that okay?

Hobby-boy ~ I'm sorry to have bothered you...good day....

(yes this scenario HAS happened and guess what 2 days later all of a sudden my $500 price tag wasn't to high because he booked and PAID it)

Whatever you do end up doing ladies do NOT let them set YOUR prices for YOUR time and YOUR body.

You will find negotiation in EVERY aspect of life (including marriage) and it's up to you (THE LADIES) to control how that negotiation is going to benefit you. Not all negotiations are bad....hell i wouldn't have all my motorcycles without negotiation. If a guy comes up to you and offers you a car, house, motorcycle, endless shopping sprees than LEARN to negotiate...if it DOESN'T benefit you then DON'T negotiate....

The facts are this is a BUSINESS, treat it as such and you will BENEFIT from it....

Stay safe ladies, and remember screen like your freedom depends on it, cause it does.

Sexyeccentric1 · 06-18-2012, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by allofamber

Ladies you do NOT have to negotiate your prices if you don't want to....if you do then that is YOUR business, but don't do it because you feel pressured by some guy telling you "it's in your best interest" or "don't you know who I am? I'm (insert loser's name here) and I can get you all kinds of business, just let me see you for $50"..or "Hey I'll write you a glowing review for free services....".....please don't be silly and fall for any of this BS..

Now for the ladies who HATE the negotiation and can't stand when guys try and tell them "lower your rates and I'll see you" or "your prices are too high you'll never make it in this market" ...you ladies have 2 options...

1. ignore his message and block him from contacting you again..pretty simple..and to the point.

2. You can negotiate .....(with a twist)...and have some fun in the process

Your negotiation will sound something like this....

hobby-boy ~ Hi Provider, i was just looking at your pictures and I think you are VERY beautiful and I would love to spend an hour with you this Friday around 2pm. The only problem is your $500 price is a little to high, but I would be willing to offer $200 for your time. Let me know if you are open to this negotiation..all my love Hobby-boy"

Provider ~ Hi Hobby-boy, thank you so much for all the sweet compliments. I see that you are trying to negotiate MY prices is this correct?

Hobby-boy ~ Yes I am, are you in?

Provider ~ Okay since we are negotiating my prices...my new rate is $600? Are you in?

Hobby-boy ~ Wait..What? I'm trying to negotiate a cheaper price. I want to pay you $200. Is that okay?

Provider ~ No, we are negotiating, and now my price is $700. Is that okay?

Hobby-boy ~ I'm sorry to have bothered you...good day....

(yes this scenario HAS happened and guess what 2 days later all of a sudden my $500 price tag wasn't to high because he booked and PAID it)

Whatever you do end up doing ladies do NOT let them set YOUR prices for YOUR time and YOUR body.

You will find negotiation in EVERY aspect of life (including marriage) and it's up to you (THE LADIES) to control how that negotiation is going to benefit you. Not all negotiations are bad....hell i wouldn't have all my motorcycles without negotiation. If a guy comes up to you and offers you a car, house, motorcycle, endless shopping sprees than LEARN to negotiate...if it DOESN'T benefit you then DON'T negotiate....

The facts are this is a BUSINESS, treat it as such and you will BENEFIT from it....

Stay safe ladies, and remember screen like your freedom depends on it, cause it does.

Allofamber has been around a long time, and been very successful at what she does. I think her advice is very wise.

There was a time (showing my age here), when the "working ladies" did not kiss at all. That was way to intimate of an act. They did straight up "lays" and if you wanted anything extra like a blow job you paid extra for it. The "working girls" back in my day didn't bother to bring candles or anything to make a guy feel like his fantasy came true, nope they came to your hotel when you called and did their thing and left. In addition back then, and I am talking back in the 50's and 60's and even late 70's the "working girl" was not a GFE type as we know it today. There was no real conversation and it was hurry up do your thing and leave. Yes, most of the ladies back then that I knew would have never asked for pay after the fact. They got their money upfront before anything occurred.

The ladies in todays time have allowed men on these type of forums (which did not exist back then either) to goat them into doing a hell of a lot more for a hell of a lot less. I personally think the men today are spoiled rotten and forget this is a business that is not legal. So you can whine all you want guys, write all the nasty reviews you want but any lady who is smart knows she is worth what she charges and will not deal with hagglers or complainers.

Good post Allofamber!

PS. Some men expect the "moon and stars" for the low price of $19.99..lmao Women in this industry for the most part are not supermodels and actresses. Stop expecting a porn star with the perfect "stepford wife" attitude for next to nothing. If you want all that then your gonna have to pay for it. Like what was posted earlier your gonna have to stay within your means guys.

NIKKILOVE · 06-18-2012, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexyeccentric1

Allofamber has been around a long time, and been very successful at what she does. I think her advice is very wise.

There was a time (showing my age here), when the "working ladies" did not kiss at all. That was way to intimate of an act. They did straight up "lays" and if you wanted anything extra like a blow job you paid extra for it. The "working girls" back in my day didn't bother to bring candles or anything to make a guy feel like his fantasy came true, nope they came to your hotel when you called and did their thing and left. In addition back then, and I am talking back in the 50's and 60's and even late 70's the "working girl" was not a GFE type as we know it today. There was no real conversation and it was hurry up do your thing and leave. Yes, most of the ladies back then that I knew would have never asked for pay after the fact. They got their money upfront before anything occurred.

The ladies in todays time have allowed men on these type of forums (which did not exist back then either) to goat them into doing a hell of a lot more for a hell of a lot less. I personally think the men today are spoiled rotten and forget this is a business that is not legal. So you can whine all you want guys, write all the nasty reviews you want but any lady who is smart knows she is worth what she charges and will not deal with hagglers or complainers.

Good post Allofamber!

PS. Some men expect the "moon and stars" for the low price of $19.99..lmao Women in this industry for the most part are not supermodels and actresses. Stop expecting a porn star with the perfect "stepford wife" attitude for next to nothing. If you want all that then your gonna have to pay for it. Like what was posted earlier your gonna have to stay within your means guys.

GREAT POST, and nice to hear from the ladies who have been around a lot longer then us!!

Thanks for the advice ladies.

ZedX79 · 06-18-2012, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by bustyamy

I think my service is priceless.

No it's not. $150.

Guest071514-1 · 06-18-2012, 03:08 PM

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Originally Posted by ZedX79

No it's not. $150.

Ya but after that $150 is long gone you will stay with memories of your cock between my tits, and giving me a great face fuck!!! Memories Priceless!!!

ZedX79 · 06-18-2012, 03:25 PM

Nope. I'll get back home and rub one off and end up forgetting about the session eventually. There is no such thing as a unforgettable session. I find that logic to be stupid. Just like an ad that says mindblowing session. Bullshit. I came over, we did the deed and bam....that's it. True some are way better than others, but a provider is just a lay in the end, that's it.

Guest071514-1 · 06-18-2012, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by ZedX79

Nope. I'll get back home and rub one off and end up forgetting about the session eventually. There is no such thing as a unforgettable session. I find that logic to be stupid. Just like an ad that says mindblowing session. Bullshit. I came over, we did the deed and bam....that's it. True some are way better than others, but a provider is just a lay in the end, that's it.

I give great service, and made some real friends along the way, I love the ones who pm me to check in on me from time to time

I just sure hope I am not on your to do list.

SexyCassandra · 06-18-2012, 03:40 PM

I agree with Amy. Im so forgettable Iv had marriage proposals. I guess when you put it on them GOOD, SOME will never forget.

Guest071514-1 · 06-18-2012, 03:43 PM

I got a couple of gentlemen who want to take care of me and me not do this haha, but I LOVE doing it!!! And a marriage proposal a couple months ago. And tons of offers to be my boyfriend aka daddy lmfao.

SexyCassandra · 06-18-2012, 03:45 PM

lmfo

SexyCassandra · 06-18-2012, 03:57 PM

who cares do what you do, and keep doing it well. apparently you are doing it right girl!

boardman · 06-18-2012, 04:25 PM

OK, you fucktards have convinced me. From now on no more negotiating. The ladies will pay me in Pork Skins and Miller Lite. Not one or the other as some of you have gotten away with recently.

You know who you are!

ZedX79 · 06-18-2012, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by bustyamy

I give great service, and made some real friends along the way, I love the ones who pm me to check in on me from time to time

I just sure hope I am not on your to do list.

I'm not saying that you're terrible or anything like that, as your reviews have stated. I just find it silly that some providers use the word legendary, mindblowing, unforgettable, the ultimate and so on. All you (not you directly) do is suck dick a little better and ride a cock a little harder. That's pretty much it. That's the reality. You might have added a few touches like sensuality or a certain way you kiss, but the reality is the reality. There are guys who are nicer than others and check in from time to time and chat. That's fine. There are others who propose to a provider, which I find crazy because those men tend to be people who are missing something their lives (in general). BTW, I do like BBW providers because they are so much fun.

Back to the topic of the thread, I have noticed prices have gone up depending on the woman. Some have GPS and they aren't worth shit, price to performance ratio-wise. But I do notice that certain providers keep their prices lower because they most likely know they can't compete with another type of provider at that higher price point they are trying to match.

Guest121624 · 06-18-2012, 05:03 PM

Amber gave me a lifetime rate and I appreciate it. Unfortunately, I've never been able to take advantage of it cause I don't drive and can't do incalls. I have gotten breaks from other ladies as well who understand my situation and are willing to work with me. Those things remain between us and I always let them make the offer. Usually it's within my budget and on occasion has been more than generous. When you can only afford 2 to 3 times a year you must be selective.

Amber,one of these days i'll get a driver! Amber, I miss our many social meetings, you are great company!

NIKKILOVE · 06-18-2012, 05:05 PM

I have noticed.. those who see HDH's are a lot of times searching for a "Look", not so much a level of service.. because THAT is all you are paying for is the LOOK.. How do you know what type of service a lady who charges 500 has compaired to a lady who charges 200? You don't.. You are going by what catches YOUR eye, or makes YOUR dick hard.. and the majority of hobbyist are in it to hit it and go.. not relax and enjoy or have a memorable experience..

I agree for the most part with you ZedX79.... but I do not think you guys realize how many men in this hobby are paying for time.. not pussy.. LOTS, are looking for other things than just sex.. So in that case.. they could care less about the things the next is looking for.. Lots of men in this hobby have beautiful SO, and yet still see us...

I guess again it really is to each their own , what they are looking for, and what is important to them, and what they put value on.