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[Guest121212]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I think you might be a lil sensitive on being called green. Its not an insult, its just stating that you're not a "seasoned escort" and may be in need of guidance. Hence you coming to the board asking your questions.

Um, THIS. I'm sorry that I offended your sensitive sensibilities Angel and you were offended by being called "green". But you are, green. Like Kermit green . . . and frankly, either grow a pair or stop playing (because that's what it is) the victim. This is the life you have chosen, and if you thinck I'm a bitch you haven't seen anything yet. There are people that will chew you up and spit you out, but I have a feeling that you've seen a bit of a side of this business before, maybe just not from a hotel room. There's another provider here that likes to feign offense for sympathy, maybe you two should do doubles.

I have received a communication from you recently that broke protocol, copied private and confidential client info, bits of other communications and whole (entire) conversations (because you didn't think to be discreet enough to strip it out of your reply to me - you just forwarded it off like it was nothing to be treated with discretion) and jeopardized this entire community had it fallen into the wrong hands. As it is, I just deleted it and asked that you never contact me again. Many here would say "well, rookie mistake" - but if you make a mistake on the magnitude that you did, it puts everyone that you've contacted or has contacted you at risk. That is, by definition, green. If it gets me points so be it (it shouldn't, because it doesn't reveal specifics [as in who or what, exactly] - but things here in KC are unsettled to say the least), but people REALLY need to know. Look, here's a piece of friendly advice, don't copy entire conversations you have had with a client (or other clients, and personal material, etc.) when emailing and asking for a reference. Sorry hun, that is piss grass green.

Now ya'll can bash me, I'm almost certain Stacy will call me a @#$* for this post . . . but it is what it is. And I tried to be nice, I really did.

Angel, I'm done with this thread and I've said my peace, I'll leave your threADs alone from now on, best of luck to you in the endeavor.

[Missy Mariposa]

Please don't take this the wrong way - but you need to learn to "play your player". The answers to this question will be as varied as a fingerprint database. Communicate with your client, there is no right or wrong answer to this question, and there's no "playbook" to be formed by the responses you'll receive . . .

Bingo. Everyone is different and location matters. I have found here in Nashville, it's a "get to know you" style of visit. Usually 2-4 hours and really leisurely. When I worked in Vancouver it was 45 min-2 hours and 2 minutes of small talk before BCD and maybe some chatting whilst recharging (my phone number was 778 - ### - MSOG after all). Houston was leisurely visits, Dallas was more Vancouver style.

You just need to learn to read people, which comes with time providing I think. I play poker as a hobby, so I came into this with a 1% edge

[cuddlyteddybear]

Sometimes it's just a matter of mood. There are times when you're in a wicked mood and want to walk into a room and see a sexy lady sitting in a chair like Sharon Stone in Basic Instincts and dive into DATY without asking her name, then there are other times when you want a romantic rendezvous.

I think it just comes down to talking about what you want. Neither the provider nor the hobbyist is a mind reader. She knows you're there for sex....why be shy about what turns you on?

My .02.

[ScubaBad]

Originally Posted by cuddlyteddybear

Sometimes it's just a matter of mood. There are times when you're in a wicked mood and want to walk into a room and see a sexy lady sitting in a chair like Sharon Stone in Basic Instincts and dive into DATY without asking her name, then there are other times when you want a romantic rendezvous.

+1. Couldn't have said it better.

[KCQuestor]

Originally Posted by SpanishJewel

O WOW!!! for YEARS I have just answered the door in lingerie. I am curious as to why you do not like that. Is it just due to them being behind the door when they open it? I've never heard anything to dispel my love to wear cute lingerie until now....

Please tell me more BRyan

xo
J

I can't answer for bigryan, but I *THINK* what he might have been saying goes for me too. When ladies answer the door in lingerie they tend to hide behind the door as they open it. For me, that's unnerving. I don't know who is behind the door.

I would rather that she answer the door in whatever clothes she desires, as long as she opens it like a regular person greeting someone.

[Smoking Monkey]

Not to be a WK here, but I feel Angel's being ripped apart for asking a perfectly valid question that would be informative to both providers and clients.

I obviously don't know how she interacts with the other providers, but from a client's point of view, she's classy and I definitely consider her a professional...not a raw Bp girl at all. She's been doing this long enough as a UTR girl that I wouldn't say she was "green". I know a lot of other "regulars" that would agree with me. Just my two cents worth.

[myfiat]

I'd enjoy a lil conversation, maybe a drink, just don't want it on the clock.

[myfiat]

seems to be alot of that going on in here. always from the same ones, sorry about your experience.

[emplover]

Originally Posted by myfiat

I'd enjoy a lil conversation, maybe a drink, just don't want it on the clock.

Nice, concise answer! +1

At least on the first meeting...

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by myfiat

I'd enjoy a lil conversation, maybe a drink, just don't want it on the clock.

So, a lady should give that time for free? I can see a few minutes (5/10 mins), but nothing more. At least in my opinion.

That's what 90 minute M&G first time sessions are for.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by KCQuestor

I can't answer for bigryan, but I *THINK* what he might have been saying goes for me too. When ladies answer the door in lingerie they tend to hide behind the door as they open it. For me, that's unnerving. I don't know who is behind the door.

I would rather that she answer the door in whatever clothes she desires, as long as she opens it like a regular person greeting someone.

While I respect your preference here, I don't understand the 'unnerving" part. If you are seeing a known and respected provider, so what if she hides behind the door? If I was worried about someone else behind the door I wouldn't be there to begin with.

[Guest082513-02]

Originally Posted by malwoody

While I respect your preference here, I don't understand the 'unnerving" part. If you are seeing a known and respected provider, so what if she hides behind the door? If I was worried about someone else behind the door I wouldn't be there to begin with.

LOL could be because some guys get free or discounted pussy in return for a stellar review... a review that leaves out that she only has one tooth, crossed eyes and tits that hang to her knees? LOL

I noticed that when i wear just lingerie to answer door, to my regulars.. i do hide behind door. Id rather open that door wide and jump in their arms with big passionate kisses... If i were to knock on a boyfriends door and he was hiding behind it.. it isnt such a welcoming feelings. I think if a girl is hiding, its not very welcoming towards the guy.. and its all about GFE.. plus the new clients are nervous. Welcoming them in, while wearing actual clothings helps ease the anxiety that they are, in reality, about to bang a hooker

[guest010313]

Yah new clients usually get pants.

[Allie_Kat]

What if she left the door ajar and hid under the bed? Then when you walked by, she could reach out and grab your ankles.
LOL.

[guest010313]

I totally want to do that to somebody now