Whats the big deal with BDSM?

[DallasRain]

Ms a was right on target!

I consider myself more into the "kink" and "fetish".........any bdsm play that I do is done playfully & sensually.......to me it is all in the attitude as to what degree of bdsm you are into

[cumalot]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Ms a was right on target!

I consider myself more into the "kink" and "fetish".........any bdsm play that I do is done playfully & sensually.......to me it is all in the attitude as to what degree of bdsm you are into

I totally Agree....you two are awesome at it....

[DuckyDan]

What's the deal with "BDSM?"

In 2 sentences:
You like to touch and be touched certain ways.
Other people like to touch and be touched in certain ways - that may or may not be the same as what you enjoy.

It's that simple.

[cumalot]

I wonder if BDSM could be used to build up pain tolerence in RL.....

[pickupkid]

Its all about controled fun...sometimes I'm in control ....somtimes she in control.

[alluringava]

It has its appeal but I'm not into it exclusively. I've tried both sides of the coin as a domme and a sub, but it's exhausting physically and mentally.

[anita]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Fuck that ... I get enough S&M treatment at work.

Lmao !!

[Bigh1955]

I've noticed many providers list their BDSM preferences on P411. That said, I have yet to find a true sub. I have found women who list BDSM and Submission and allow the hobbyist to guide/direct the activities, but only so far as non BDSM activites are concerned...It's a shame...no pretty knots, no reddened ass cheeks, no forced orgasms...etc., etc., etc. The search continues!

[BlackMistress]

Originally Posted by Bigh1955

I've noticed many providers list their BDSM preferences on P411. That said, I have yet to find a true sub. I have found women who list BDSM and Submission and allow the hobbyist to guide/direct the activities, but only so far as non BDSM activites are concerned...It's a shame...no pretty knots, no reddened ass cheeks, no forced orgasms...etc., etc., etc. The search continues!

With women it's a little different. Submission requires a certain level of trust and knowledge (tying a knot is not easy). I'm not about to let a stranger whose play style I've never seen tie me up and whip my ass.