Outcalling hotels

[thejuice]

Originally Posted by Seomon

I'd like to ask any of you ladies, do you feel more discomfort going to an outcall at a hotel? I would if I were you... Even though I'm sure many of you have done so, I would not call you silly for being extra paranoid about it... Would you have more comfort going to certain hotels over others?

Why would there be more discomfort with a hotel? The public aspect? It seems like there could be other discomforts in going to someone's home. In KC many of the providers request a higher donation for incall and less for outcall...while this is not always the norm in other cities.

[KCQuestor]

I don't know if this is still the case, but I was told once that Columbia, MO has a city ordinance barring residents from renting a hotel room in town. I was told it was because drug dealers didn't want to risk their home being seized if they were caught selling from their. I asked a lot of the same questions presented here ("What about out-of-town guests? What if your heat goes out or the water line breaks?") but never got a straight answer.

[aspenxtremes]

Well if I remember from a past thread here is what I heard there. Outcalls, pro for the guy as he controls the environment, con for the lady is that she does not, pro for the lady is that she doesn't have book a room and if there is an issue with the fellow, she can easily walk out and leave. Incalls, pro for the lady as she controls the environment, con for the guy as he does not, con for the lady if she is an extended stay and high traffic as it pulls attention her way (hence why you move), also con for the lady is that if she has trouble with the guy she can't just walk out and leave him in her room. In the big scheme of things, use common sense regardless of where you are. If you are getting a place, don't book the room empty handed, have a bag with you, gym bag, something so it looks like you're actually going to stay there. If you're going to someone's, give them a heads up of where to go if they have not been there so they are bumbling around trying to find an elevator, etc. People walk in and out all day at hotels, at a large one they are not going to remember what every guest looks like. Dress casual (I think that needs no explanation), have the door propped so they are not waiting in the hall knocking or meet them and walk them in (again for the guy side on the walk in, as if you have an incall as a lady and several appts not something you'd want to do).