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BigDeal · 02-07-2012, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

I forgot to add to my post and something everyone else has forgot to mention....it comes down to one word, respect.

Respect the time of others, respect the providers time as she has alloted a certain amount of time for your session with her and the providers need to respect the hobbyists time as its not always easy to sneak out of the house and away from the SO or work.

RESPECT DAT!!

KCJoe · 02-07-2012, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by scorpio31

It must matter since you brought this to the coed forum. Normally it is recommended that a gentleman wait 24-48 hours to allow the girl to make contact, explain what happened (as we all know, life happens) and offer to make it up to the gentleman. In this case she has had two opportunities to make things right, so it is fair to mention her name, it seems to me. On the other hand, what good does it do? The decision is entirely up to you.

Sounds like good advice Scorpio. But if one was to complain about a provider who was real popular with many on the board, than you're just inviting a lot of abuse. That's why I kept my mouth shut. Nothing good would come of it.

AllThisMeat · 02-07-2012, 04:58 PM

Sometimes shit happens. If you really had your heart set on seeing her, I'd wait a while to see if you can get a reschedule. However, if the NCNS thing happens repeatedly and you've communicated since then, I'd post a review concerning it and explain the details of the NCNS in the ROS and the events leading up to it. Sure, it would not get you PA and would be moved to the Coed section anyway and since you didn't see her it would not be linked to her profile... but at least then you've publicly announced the situation and warned others that this may be a normal thing for her.

I have a feeling that this is something that often happens with very popular or highly regarded providers and goes unreported.

bigryan222 · 02-07-2012, 05:00 PM

There is something good that can come from it. If you post it somewhere it can help show a trend. A fair amount of the time there are follow up responses saying someone else had the same or similar problem.

If she is a well reviewed provider and you post it, her reputation will not take a hit as long as it ends up looking like an isolated issue. I doubt there is a girl on here that has kept every single experience a good one. The important thing is that there is not a trend and far too many times the trends are hidden since noone says things.

I would recommend that you at least say something in the Mens Lounge. I would assume that the girl already knows who you are and that this thread is about her, but a little extra detail in the ML can help out sometimes. There will be some white knights, but remember that their shinning armor only exists behind a computer. There may also be guys with the same problems where we should know about it.

MsElena · 02-07-2012, 05:01 PM

If no one complains then the bad behavior will continue.

Its just like if none of us ladies complained or alerted the other ladies as to bad behavior, we're setting all the other ladies for trouble.

If some of you are afraid of the white knights coming to her defense, then get off the board. This board to keep everyone safe and keep people from getting screwed. In which he got screwed not once, but twice.

She shouldn't have fucked up twice to begin with. Let her white knights keep that in mind.

Allthismeat, it may happen with some ladies who are well respected and highly reviewed, but not all. The smart ones know how to run their business. I can honestly say that I have only NC/NS someone once in the time that I've been an escort and that was because of kidney stone/going to the ER. I called him the next day, gave him a discount and extra time.....he was happy and more importantly, he knew it was the truth and cared more about my health.

Guest121212 · 02-07-2012, 05:42 PM

IMO the original post (and post #3) is nothing more than passive aggressive bullshit aimed at the lady that pulled the NCNS . . . It is a veiled threat for her to make it right - or else - and all just a game.

Either name (out) her for the NCNS or shut the fuck up. If you want to play games, do it elsewhere. If you really wanted to let everyone know she has an issue (truly) with NC/NS, you'd have done it in the first sentence and told everyone who she was. So far, all you've done is make a bunch of DNS lists of ladies that can discern their ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to problem clients they don't want to suffer . . .

As much as she needs to take care of business, you need to get a handle on your own. Put up or shut up. I can't believe you're such a gelding that you'd need help or advice from anyone here as to whether or not you should name her after being stood up twice . . . smells to me like a fish for a discount or other consideration for your silence - when, in fact, there may be a perfectly good and reasonable explanation from her for the NCNS.

AllThisMeat · 02-07-2012, 05:52 PM

Jackie sure is spirited. I like that in a lady

AllThisMeat · 02-07-2012, 05:53 PM

I also appreciate the non-diplomatic way she says it like it is. Because, lets be honest, she's right.

big country · 02-07-2012, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

IMO the original post (and post #3) is nothing more than passive aggressive bullshit aimed at the lady that pulled the NCNS . . . It is a veiled threat for her to make it right - or else - and all just a game.

Either name (out) her for the NCNS or shut the fuck up. If you want to play games, do it elsewhere. If you really wanted to let everyone know she has an issue (truly) with NC/NS, you'd have done it in the first sentence and told everyone who she was. So far, all you've done is make a bunch of DNS lists of ladies that can discern their ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to problem clients they don't want to suffer . . .

As much as she needs to take care of business, you need to get a handle on your own. Put up or shut up. I can't believe you're such a gelding that you'd need help or advice from anyone here as to whether or not you should name her . . . smells to me like a fish for a discount or other consideration for your silence - when, in fact, there may be a perfectly good and reasonable explanation from her for the NCNS.

As if fishing were that easy.

Guest121212 · 02-07-2012, 06:14 PM

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Originally Posted by big country

As if fishing were that easy.

LOL - depends on the bait . . . and the fish.

Fastcar · 02-07-2012, 06:28 PM

Oh no, I'm getting my Jackie Mensa wood again.....

Omahan · 02-07-2012, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by AllThisMeat

Sometimes shit happens. If you really had your heart set on seeing her, I'd wait a while to see if you can get a reschedule. However, if the NCNS thing happens repeatedly and you've communicated since then, I'd post a review concerning it and explain the details of the NCNS in the ROS and the events leading up to it. Sure, it would not get you PA and would be moved to the Coed section anyway and since you didn't see her it would not be linked to her profile... but at least then you've publicly announced the situation and warned others that this may be a normal thing for her.

I have a feeling that this is something that often happens with very popular or highly regarded providers and goes unreported.

Reviews are not the right place to report NC/NS. Reviews are to describe a session that happened. If he decides to make a full report it should be in this forum.

Wizard of Ahhhhs · 02-07-2012, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by big country

As if fishing were that easy.

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Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

LOL - depends on the bait . . . and the fish.

And talk in the ML is that big country is a master baiter... wait, did I spell that right?

If the 48 hours is up and she NS'd twice...? Without adequate explanation? Might be worthy to know so other guys can make future decisions accordingly... spit it out... well, unless you are still hoping for the freebie...

BigDeal · 02-07-2012, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie Devlin

IMO the original post (and post #3) is nothing more than passive aggressive bullshit aimed at the lady that pulled the NCNS . . . It is a veiled threat for her to make it right - or else - and all just a game.

Either name (out) her for the NCNS or shut the fuck up. If you want to play games, do it elsewhere. If you really wanted to let everyone know she has an issue (truly) with NC/NS, you'd have done it in the first sentence and told everyone who she was. So far, all you've done is make a bunch of DNS lists of ladies that can discern their ass from a hole in the ground when it comes to problem clients they don't want to suffer . . .

As much as she needs to take care of business, you need to get a handle on your own. Put up or shut up. I can't believe you're such a gelding that you'd need help or advice from anyone here as to whether or not you should name her after being stood up twice . . . smells to me like a fish for a discount or other consideration for your silence - when, in fact, there may be a perfectly good and reasonable explanation from her for the NCNS.

well said Jackie...

Your not obnoxious...just tactfully challenged...I like that in a lady!!

FireSerpent · 02-07-2012, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Omahan

Reviews are not the right place to report NC/NS. Reviews are to describe a session that happened. If he decides to make a full report it should be in this forum.

We get guys posting NCNS reviews all the time. They happen... however, ATM is correct, they get no PA and they get moved to Coed as that is where information of that type is supposed to go.