You want me to say what?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

BTW, Charles, you know this whole paragraph is horseshit right? Just checkin'...

Care to elaborate?

[Indefinable Ms. M]

To get this back on serious note, there is a big difference from dirty talk during a session and a degradation session. I just recently found this out several weeks ago. I was not expecting it and it took me completely by surprise that I was in shock and unable to handle the situation.
It can cause a sort of post traumatic stress disorder for individuals that have experienced any type of abuse in the past, be it mental, physical or sexual. All the feelings of self worthlessness comes back. It can wreck your life if you do not have a strong support network. I am sure that once the hobbyist left the session they had no thoughts or concerns about what they had done to me or the other providers SL mentioned, while it will always stay with us.

[johndoe98841]

There has to be a Sex Therapist lurking in the corner... watching us like rats in a maze. Come out , come out, where ever you are and give your physco mumbo jumbo.
We lack the cognitive emotional attachment of having a healthy relationship, deep down the man or woman RESCENTS the very act of survival that feeds their needs for a few moments of happiness. Money is the need for her and the need of desire for him.
I am sure there is rescent on such a beautiful woman having attention of men and he may be lonely.
A man thinks he has the right to degrade her for the fact she is a provider...
Yes, we all have our issues...
I don't agree with that humiliation and being vunerable may be his thought. The bitch attitude may not be a bad thing ladies.

[tonytiger4u]

That's what the National Black List is for, right? Besides the jerks that don't pay.

[pyramider]

Degradation should be discussed prior to the session, shouldn't it?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Degradation should be discussed prior to the session, shouldn't it?

Yep, but as soon as she sees my cock, she can't help herself. It's uttered spontaneously.

[livn2do]

My S.O. asked me to talk dirty to her. I said Kitchen and bathroom. I had to sleep on the couch.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Gotta disagree Shayla. You are a human being. "Slut" generally is a derogatory term referring to loose sexual morals. You're not a slut. You're a businesswoman (probably a good one, at that). Whether or not you're a slut would probably depend on how easily you move from one guy to the next in your personal life. Your clients would not know that unless you tell them.

And how exactly would you describe this line of work? Strong sexual morals?
... Just sayin'.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Shayla

And how exactly would you describe this line of work? Strong sexual morals?
... Just sayin'.

Cumstomer service specialists!

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by livn2do

My S.O. asked me to talk dirty to her. I said Kitchen and bathroom. I had to sleep on the couch.

You think that's bad, give her a vacuum for her birthday.

Originally Posted by Shayla

And how exactly would you describe this line of work? Strong sexual morals?
... Just sayin'.

Yep. It's business. I'm sure you don't see everyone that contacts you. I'm sure you screen out some. For all I know, you have hard limits regarding your play. I distinguished "slut" by indicating it's about your personal life, not your business life. We all know that most ladies have SOs, BFs, and even husbands. It's in those relationships that I would draw the "slut" distinction. If you fuck around indiscriminately in your personal life, then you'd be a slut. If you have no sexual boundaries, ie engage in acts most women won't, then you might be a slut.

My definition is different than what a church-going prude might give. Without a doubt, the prude would call all of us sluts.

[DallasRain]

I love dirty talk...but nothing demeaning!

Just spank my ass,pull my hair,and call me your dirty liul slut! [lol}

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

I love dirty talk...but nothing demeaning!

Just spank my ass,pull my hair,and call me your dirty liul slut! [lol}

But nothing demeaning... got it! Unfortunately not all providers share your enthusiasm for this kind of conduct!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Indefinable Ms. M

To get this back on serious note, there is a big difference from dirty talk during a session and a degradation session. I just recently found this out several weeks ago. I was not expecting it and it took me completely by surprise that I was in shock and unable to handle the situation.
It can cause a sort of post traumatic stress disorder for individuals that have experienced any type of abuse in the past, be it mental, physical or sexual. All the feelings of self worthlessness comes back. It can wreck your life if you do not have a strong support network. I am sure that once the hobbyist left the session they had no thoughts or concerns about what they had done to me or the other providers SL mentioned, while it will always stay with us.

Ms. M thank you for sharing! I am very sorry this happened to you. I hope some more providers might come forward and share as well!

[johndoe98841]

I want to role play with dear hunte or chica using a strap on dildo and have him bend over while I make him my butt slut bitch. Like a porn star scenario...
I need a lay, Init a lay..lol

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Yep. It's business. I'm sure you don't see everyone that contacts you. I'm sure you screen out some. For all I know, you have hard limits regarding your play. I distinguished "slut" by indicating it's about your personal life, not your business life. We all know that most ladies have SOs, BFs, and even husbands. It's in those relationships that I would draw the "slut" distinction. If you fuck around indiscriminately in your personal life, then you'd be a slut. If you have no sexual boundaries, ie engage in acts most women won't, then you might be a slut.

My definition is different than what a church-going prude might give. Without a doubt, the prude would call all of us sluts.

Fair enough. I think the proper statement would be that we are more liberal on sexual morals... Not stronger.
To have strong sexual morals suggests a more conservative view... To me anyway.