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LovingKayla · 01-05-2012, 09:02 AM

I'm down for that. The vote is very split I see. Why would any of you have an issue with this? What about the members here that ask for golden showers and potty slave things? THAT'S not to far for you good ol boys? Or the ones that like to watch providers puke in each other mouths? A bit hypocritical if any of you have voted no here. You'd probably say those people don't have a forum, but that's not really true. There is "another world" forum here that covers alot of that.

We do everything but animals around here (and I question the validity of that statement.) Gays, TS and what ever other kind of human out there are always welcome with us freaks.

LazurusLong · 01-05-2012, 10:23 AM

Another site chose to have a private forum for that.

CM,

Why don't you look at simply having a private forum created that can have reviews ads, whatever?

Sort of another realm only more functional?

Those who truly want to participate can ask to join.

That will remove any of the comments that are typically posted when someone posts a review.

Guest021812-3 · 01-05-2012, 10:37 AM

Wait, there's guys other than Kermit the Frog that like watching girls puke in each other's mouths?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOn1htjSZic

Iaintliein · 01-05-2012, 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by LovingKayla

I'm down for that. The vote is very split I see. Why would any of you have an issue with this? What about the members here that ask for golden showers and potty slave things? THAT'S not to far for you good ol boys? Or the ones that like to watch providers puke in each other mouths? A bit hypocritical if any of you have voted no here. You'd probably say those people don't have a forum, but that's not really true. There is "another world" forum here that covers alot of that.

We do everything but animals around here (and I question the validity of that statement.) Gays, TS and what ever other kind of human out there are always welcome with us freaks.

Excellent post as always. It's always amazed me how narrow minded many here in hobbyland are. The "locker room" on the old board held a lot of what I'd call "country club" attitude, many wanted to charge for any access to the boards etc. to "keep the riff raff out".

And the completely off the chain, judgemental responses I got when I asked opinions on buying my son an appointment when he got home from Iraq (which I ended up not doing due to his lack of interest) was a real shock to me, even one provider I thought I knew pretty well thought I was some kind of perv.

Oh well, to each his, her, their, whatever own. The real key question is: Does it increase the value of the board to the owners without increasing risks etc.? Simply put, is it worth the bandwidth?

I have to believe it would be at least as valuable as the political forum national Sandbox has become.

guest043013-2 · 01-05-2012, 11:17 AM

Considering the number of reviews of 3-somes with 2 girls & 1 guy, with lesbian/bisexual activities between the ladies, I question where the line(s) would be drawn. We've also had a few reviews of MFM, no sword crossing, as well.

Seems like any of the above new 'categories' could fit into the current forums. Might be an issue if a bi-sexual male wanted to have provider status and yet was also seeing & reviewing ladies, thus earning Premium Access. But that should be solvable.

Is the issue wanting the BGLT group to feel that ECCIE (when I say ECCIE here, I really mean the warm-blooded people, not the cold, electronic website) invites them into our little perverted world, or is this rather an attempt to push them aside, and stick them over in their own little forum, out of sight, out of mind. If they want to gain further acceptance, I think they need to be integrated, not segregated.

Homosexual males and transgenders/transexuals are not my cup of tea, and in most cases I would choose to not read the threads/reviews on those topics. However, I don't see any reason we should ban their presence from here. As long as they follow the same guidelines we all follow, I think they are welcome here. (And the rest of us still need to follow the guidelines regarding politeness and respect.)

I am not voting, cuz I am not sure of the motivation for the poll. I do think they may have other internet resources that better fill their needs, but I do not know that for a fact.

guest043013-2 · 01-05-2012, 11:25 AM

I should have done this prior to my response above, though my answer there would not change.

The OP, CM, has shown a propensity (SP?) to post a few rather controversial items over the time he has been with us. I fear he has an agenda. I know not what that agenda might be, and, quite frankly, don't care. The question/poll is a reasonable one, and my original thoughts still remain.

Just felt that I needed to mention this, no reason to hijack this thread to discuss the OP's past opinions, let's carry on with what has been a very civil discussion so far.

guest043013-2 · 01-05-2012, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Iaintliein

...And the completely off the chain, judgemental responses I got when I asked opinions on buying my son an appointment when he got home from Iraq (which I ended up not doing due to his lack of interest) was a real shock to me, even one provider I thought I knew pretty well thought I was some kind of perv. - Had forgotten you were the perv who wanted to do that.

...I have to believe it would be at least as valuable as the political forum national Sandbox has become. - That is a topic for a whole nuther thread, but I agree 100%.

Dang, I find myself agreeing with you a lot these days.

CM · 01-05-2012, 01:30 PM

So far, the poll shows that half of the members on this site want a BGL&T forum. The demand is there, but still no forum. If you're opposed to or find BGL&T disgusting, then simply don't click on the BGL&T forum. Although "Other Reviews" implies a catch all forum, in reality it is a street walkers forum. Most members on this site find street walkers repulsive. There is a street walkers forum, but no BGL&T forum.

Why so much homophobia?

Do we scare you...

KlassyKelliAnn · 01-05-2012, 01:36 PM

LOL! Well Done!

KKA
XOXO

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Originally Posted by CM

So far, the poll shows that half of the members on this site want a BGL&T forum. The demand is there, but still no forum. If you're opposed to or find BGL&T disgusting, then simply don't click on the BGL&T forum. Although "Other Reviews" implies a catch all forum, in reality it is a street walkers forum. Most members on this site find street walkers repulsive. There is a street walkers forum, but no BGL&T forum.

Why so much homophobia?

Do we scare you...

Iaintliein · 01-05-2012, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by tigercat

Dang, I find myself agreeing with you a lot these days.

Don't worry, as opinionated as I am, it will probably pass!

I didn't come out and propose buying the boy a coming home present but dropped enough hints to figure out he wasn't interested. Of course it's not unusual for guys getting home to just want to be alone for some period of time. Now he's got a girlfriend and I sure hope she knows to leave him alone for a while when he gets back from his current deployment, this one's been pretty rough for him. He's already said he just wants to hang in my spare room and watch movies uninterrupted and alone for two or three weeks when he gets back.

I learned too late in life that the hobby is the best way to satisfy the urge, now I can't even pass that on to my son. We all have to learn from our own mistakes I guess.

Stay well.

L.A. · 01-05-2012, 01:51 PM

Fine...I AM homophobic, I don't get turned on by lesbians, bisexual men is just another word for gay, and transgender=speechless.
I AM closeminded, I AM set in my beliefs. I do believe sex should be between a man and a woman. At my age NONE of that is gonna change....so sue me.
Having said all that if another forum catering to this was opened I would simply choose not to enter...easy enough.

Guest021812-3 · 01-05-2012, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by L.A.

Fine...I AM homophobic, I don't get turned on by lesbians, bisexual men is just another word for gay, and transgender=speechless.
I AM closeminded, I AM set in my beliefs. I do believe sex should be between a man and a woman. At my age NONE of that is gonna change....so sue me.
Having said all that if another forum catering to this was opened I would simply choose not to enter...easy enough.

Live and let live. Everybody has beliefs, just don't force them on anybody else. Well said LA, even though I don't really share yours (at least not to that degree).

69er · 01-05-2012, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by L.A.

Fine...I AM homophobic, I don't get turned on by lesbians, bisexual men is just another word for gay, and transgender=speechless.
I AM closeminded, I AM set in my beliefs. I do believe sex should be between a man and a woman. At my age NONE of that is gonna change....so sue me.
Having said all that if another forum catering to this was opened I would simply choose not to enter...easy enough.

This is why I believe this might be a good idea. With such a forum, those who would benefit from such a forum don't need to be exposed to the hate and judgemental attitude of those who are against such things. If such closed minded individuals wander in, and feel inclined to post their "not for me" responses, I would like to see a healthy number of points awarded. This would keep it safe and non-judgemental for those who are interested!

ElisabethWhispers · 01-06-2012, 08:22 AM

I'm speaking as a woman who wouldn't mind jumping in the middle of a lesbian, gay, transgendered, anything goes orgy but I'm against the idea.

My reasons are too in depth to go into much right now but the nickel version is this: We have another realm but this really isn't that type of website.

Also, for the same reasons that I wouldn't want an exclusive BBW forum is the same for the other. We are too sexually segmented as a whole.

We have too much exclusion going on as it is with regard to sexuality. There isn't a reason to put a group of people "over there" for others to gawk out or make judgement calls and if you think that people here would NOT do that? Think again.

Although the idea is good in theory, it's just a problem waiting to happen. Reviews are allowed in another realm and also in city forums under "other reviews". If someone wishes to promote themselves and their desires, it's easy enough to do on this board as it is.

This is pretty much a heterosexual male board with females lending the flavor and satisfying the desires. It's nice that there is an area that other desires are explored and accepted, but I don't think at this point that the other is needed.

Please note, I'm speaking as a woman and just as a member. Not a moderator. And this was the nickle explanation of my reasoning. There is more but oh well ... I'll leave that for later!

Have a good Friday!

Your pansexual escort with a tri - sexual (as in try anything) approach,
Elisabeth

lisa.lisa0302 · 01-06-2012, 08:39 AM

Give them a place to advertise here. They have reviews here. Just makes sense.

Im alittle confused as to why people would have a problem with lesbians though, considering the men out the number the woman here. And if some of you haven't figured it out yet, its oodles of bi-providers here, how many ads do we see, with "Im also bi and I have a friend who loves to play".

Just my 0.1 cents.