Reality check for all of you who are getting too carried away

[guest032013]

Originally Posted by LillyLilly

The turn on in escorting is not the time together.

Now, go home and try to enjoy your family

Originally Posted by LillyLilly

So, guys, take a good look at what's going on in your life and give yourself a reality check

reality check: i really don't need you telling me what to do, or how to live... so go beg for your family's forgiveness and rid yourself of the guilt and shame that burdens you

peace babe

[offshoredrilling]

I Lilly Lilly Like It by Ryan Bang 2011

[DDarkness]

Lilly,

I appreciate the clarification and while I wouldn't have put it quite like my dear friend Who, I understand his sentiments.

Business is business and I guess we can't confuse lust for ... that other "L" word! But you are right about one thing Lilly if she isn't into you and it shows ... then you've learned and move on!

DD

Originally Posted by LillyLilly

Don't mean to be cryptic or hurt anyone's feelings. Escorting is a business and hopefully escorts restrict their business to only those they really like and enjoy spending time with. Otherwise, it's not very much fun for anyone. Anyone who has been with someone who is distant should realize this person just isn't into you. Unfortunately, really enjoying someones company can lead to problems and everyone needs to keep their feelings in check and respect the other persons feelings and business.

Problems arise when one blurs the relationship and tries to morph it into a non-business relationship.......calling, e-mailing all the time, asking for dates, etc. all the way to stalking and intruding on one's life.

Chloe, you of all people should know this but I can't fault you for taking the guys' side. It's business.

So, guys, take a good look at what's going on in your life and give yourself a reality check if you are expecting more from an escort. Not that I'm saying two people can't find each other through escorting, but don't ever expect it and if you try for more and are told "No", leave it alone.

[Whynottry]

Just as an onlooker I feel like people preach privacy with your personal life but it seems to run rampant throughout the boards that that line gets crossed all the time. Am I wrong here? Please excuse me if I am but also explain how I am wrong

[newcpl]

I think Lilly has the right to speak her mind but it sounds like she should not even be in this business.

[LillyLilly]

Originally Posted by whosdair

reality check: i really don't need you telling me what to do, or how to live... so go beg for your family's forgiveness and rid yourself of the guilt and shame that burdens you

peace babe

That was just plain stupid

[LillyLilly]

Originally Posted by newcpl

I think Lilly has the right to speak her mind but it sounds like she should not even be in this business.

I'm not and I absolutely agree with you.

[LillyLilly]

Originally Posted by Whynottry

Just as an onlooker I feel like people preach privacy with your personal life but it seems to run rampant throughout the boards that that line gets crossed all the time. Am I wrong here? Please excuse me if I am but also explain how I am wrong

Happens all the time with everyone. No doubt about it

[dmc096]

my take is you don't pay an escort for sex...you pay her to leave.

[DDarkness]

Originally Posted by dmc096

my take is you don't pay an escort for sex...you pay her to leave.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by DDarkness

Business is business and I guess we can't confuse lust for ... that other "L" word!

The other L word?

Lube
Lesbians
Lunch

Am I getting close?

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by Chloe

Another nonsense thread......

Chloe..at first I thought your analysis was premature.....but(look down below lillylillys quote, Im gonna continue my thought there..)

Originally Posted by JONBALLS

Im not so sure, with just a few more specific details from

the OP, this thing could really get cranked up !!

it was wishfull thinking on my part..

Originally Posted by LillyLilly

Don't mean to be cryptic or hurt anyone's feelings. Escorting is a business and hopefully escorts restrict their business to only those they really like and enjoy spending time with. Otherwise, it's not very much fun for anyone. Anyone who has been with someone who is distant should realize this person just isn't into you. Unfortunately, really enjoying someones company can lead to problems and everyone needs to keep their feelings in check and respect the other persons feelings and business.

Problems arise when one blurs the relationship and tries to morph it into a non-business relationship.......calling, e-mailing all the time, asking for dates, etc. all the way to stalking and intruding on one's life.

Chloe, you of all people should know this but I can't fault you for taking the guys' side. It's business.

So, guys, take a good look at what's going on in your life and give yourself a reality check if you are expecting more from an escort. Not that I'm saying two people can't find each other through escorting, but don't ever expect it and if you try for more and are told "No", leave it alone.

all this crap did end up being a bunch of useless information I was already aware of..I agree with you on this one after all this time has passed.I had originally held out some hope for this thread turning really fun, but in the end you had the right idea.Thats not that Im automatically going to start listening to evrything.

[DDarkness]

Originally Posted by pyramider

The other L word?

Lube
Lesbians
Lunch

Am I getting close?

Yes

DD

[Mouthful-of-Bees]

LL,

Gut instinct prods me that perhaps human motivation is far too complex to obey every set of rules governing behavior, especially between or among men and women. Of course it's implied that animal lust, not ardent sentiment, is the deal to be fulfilled here. However, even with that in mind, sometimes (probably rarely) the relationship of the two seems intimately communicated during a brief encounter, which may cause confusion. Or, heaven forbid, perhaps a certain clarity. I don't know what motivated you to start this thread, but I am thankful that you did.

[guest032013]

Originally Posted by LillyLilly

That was just plain stupid

Oh good, it worked