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					Originally Posted by  Nicolette Morgandy
					 
				 
				For the gentlemen who are married or have a significant other - 
 
How would you feel if you found out that your wife, fiancee or girlfriend was seeing an escort for clandestine trysts? 
			
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So, is she seeing a 
female escort or a 
male escort???  If a female, there's not much I can do to compete with that.
If a male, my tool is probably too small to compete.  
Honestly, I think we are all in different situations.  Mine: my SO is a wonderful person, and I love her a lot.  We just haven't had sex in years, and don't have too much of an intimate relationship.
So I know that although she is not meeting my needs, I am not meeting hers, either.  Since I hobby, I 
intellectually know that she probably has sexual needs I'm not fulfilling.  Whether or not I could translate that intellectual knowledge into acceptance of her escorting is a good question.  I would hope that I could.  But probably wouldn't know for sure until it stares me in the face.