screening question

[rrabbit6926]

Would you not see someone based on who they have seen, via reviews etc? I guess a valid question to both hobbist and providers.

[Cpalmson]

Yes. If a provider I might be interested in has been reviewed by someone that I have questions about, it would be a strike against her in my book.

[Shayla]

I'm usually pretty liberal because reading reviews sometimes you can only take with a grain of salt.
I know that some girls don't see guys who post mostly negative reviews and I don't blacklist them for that.
If they didn't click, then they didn't click. However, if I was aware of anything unsafe going on then I wouldn't take a chance.

[shorty]

Yes, I have chosen not to see certain ladies but it wasn't because of review's from other hobbyist. Mine was attitude from the board, the lady getting drunk during the session, is a prescription drug user, question about management, lady always has drama going on, providing while on her period and not saying anything to the client, and unsafe BCD activities. I never rule a lady out until I get confirmation from another hobbyist or through the back channels. Unfortunately for me, my list of To Do Ladies is shrinking by the week.

[Pink Floyd]

I don't let one negative review turn me off. The first thing I look at is the guys other reviews. If he isn't satisfied by anyone then I just ignore his review. Next I look at the girls reviews. There is generally a trend and if I see the same guy review her over a period of time I figure she is probably pretty good. I have reviewed one girl 7 times (I think) so you can be pretty sure I find her interesting. I use reviews to determine services. CBJ or not GFE takes her off my list, also being a cold fish is a turn off. We are all different and what one guy puts at the top may be at the bottom for me.

[Eccie Addict]

I know for sure that there are providers that won't see you if you have seen a certain girl along with a host of other reasons as well. I have never chose not to see a girl if she has seen another hobbyist.

[Sweet N Little]

True, EA ,Ive passed on a couple and also for board responses as well. I'm sure they have me too lol Luckily there are tons out there and someone for everyone

[Guest011914-1]

a guy has every right to see who he wants to however if in checking his reviews I will pass based on who he has seen that I feel may be unsafe or if he appears to get involved with too much drama or sees ladies who are also into drama...

[Carrie Hillcrest]

I haven't ever passed on meeting someone because of another lady they've seen, but I will decline contacting some ladies for references based on previous bad experiences interacting with them. Most ladies are super friendly and helpful, but there are a few who are ... well, not so much.

Like others in this thread, I have skipped meeting people because of a seemingly negative attitude in posting or tendency toward unsafe activities. That's hard to quantify though -- it's not black & white -- and comes down to a gut feeling of concerns over compatibility more than anything. I'm not going to meet someone if I think one or both of us is going to end up disappointed. Let's just save us both the time and trouble, yanno?

On the other hand, board posts and well-written reviews can definitely work FOR someone, too! I get a new board crush like every other week.

[Alyssa Nicole]

I know of a well known hobbyist (still unsure of how to spell that) that has had girls refuse to see him because of how many OK's he has....but not anyone in PARTICULAR, just the amount LOL

[Guest101811-4]

One sniff of management and she's dead to me. I do take the reviews with a grain of salt, though...a bad review here and there is not a deal-breaker to me.

[lucky6565]

Alyssa:
You never screen me, lol.

[Alyssa Nicole]

Originally Posted by lucky6565

Alyssa:
You never screen me, lol.

because i met you at Venus Room LOL

[lilred_robin]

Have I turned someone down based on who they have reviewed?
Yes, because I know there are some ladies who regularly engage in unsafe practices.
Also, if someone's main source of entertainment seems to be SWs, but is also able to afford 250+, then I would think he sees the SWs as a thrill, something dangerous. So what other high risk activities might he partake in?

I'm sure there are many I've seen who have done things I would never want to try with other ladies, but if I can in any way minimize my exposure (by avoiding people I know behave carelessly) then yes, I will.

I don't turn someone down because I think I'm better than anyone. I do it just to protect myself. I only have one body, I can't risk my health or safety for an hour's donation.

[lucky6565]

Alyssa:
I was thinking I am so special...