Haggling is INSULTING

[budman33]

Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

Many providers tend to link some aspect of self-worth, class or quality with their rates. Maybe it's time to figure that out and detach your rate from those qualities.

I don't see how thats possible unless you are only referring to activities. If they purview the market and advertise they have to always decide what they think 'they' are worth. Then the market i.e. us either calls or doesnt call and based on business or lack thereof also have to personally decide on adjusting rate down/ up/ or not. All those things you mention are factors with a slew of others imo.

To the topic though, post rates are non negotiable on website as suggested previously then its done and done. We won't/ shouldnt negotiate then unless we can't read.

[screwey]

Originally Posted by budman33

I don't see how thats possible unless you are only referring to activities. If they purview the market and advertise they have to always decide what they think 'they' are worth. Then the market i.e. us either calls or doesnt call and based on business or lack thereof also have to personally decide on adjusting rate down/ up/ or not. All those things you mention are factors with a slew of others imo.

To the topic though, post rates are non negotiable on website as suggested previously then its done and done. We won't/ shouldnt negotiate then unless we can't read.

That would be kinda like pricing cars base don their ability to get you from point a to point b. While MANY different makes and models are available for that service, we certainly couldn't compare the Pinto to the 458 Italia.

[Frenchy29-2000]

My opinion is that is all part of the game. If a lady is willing to see me at a cheaper price, why would I not. I am not trying to force anyone. I put an offer on the table and it is up to the lady to take it or leave it.
I am always respectful and nice. But price is always negotiable.

[Rand Al'Thor]

Originally Posted by budman33

I don't see how thats possible unless you are only referring to activities. If they purview the market and advertise they have to always decide what they think 'they' are worth. Then the market i.e. us either calls or doesnt call and based on business or lack thereof also have to personally decide on adjusting rate down/ up/ or not. All those things you mention are factors with a slew of others imo.

To the topic though, post rates are non negotiable on website as suggested previously then its done and done. We won't/ shouldnt negotiate then unless we can't read.

When you say they might have to adjust their rates according to whether or not the market calls. Didn't they just detach their rate from their self worth there or did their self worth go down because bunch of johns didn't call them for appointments? Are they less of a person because they're not able to sling pussy at a given price? If they are adjusting or not adjusting rates because of market response, that is a business decision. When they set a rate, that -should- be a business decision.

[budman33]

not so much emotional self worth but service self worth and because they are personally invested in the services they provide. its not such a cut and dry business decision imo. Like the soup Nazi guy, yea its just fucking soup... but its his fucking soup.

[Asian Ann]

Yes, please don't bargain. But there is something worse: I had a repeat client who sheepishly handed me his "donation" at the end of the session. I thought his behavior was odd and should have counted the money right then there. He shorted me $50. Then he texted me later to ask if I would be his fuck buddy. I told him "No"--why on earth do I need a friend like that? I have yet to hear from him again.

Ann
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[WorknMan]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

I knew i was gonna get a lot of shit for posting this and thats fine with me but maybe some guys do not know that some providers find this insulting..

I am not one to haggle, but if I really wanted to see a lady who's rate was a little more than I'd be willing to pay, I'd shoot her a PM to see if she would lower the rate accordingly. Who knows... if business is really slow, perhaps she might go for it. But if she says no, then she says no. If she is insulted by the offer, so be it. If she's not going to see me anyway, why should I care? It's not like I was planning to receive a birthday card from her

That being said, I would never try to haggle at the beginning/end of a session. That is just lame.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by WorknMan

I am not one to haggle, but if I really wanted to see a lady who's rate was a little more than I'd be willing to pay, I'd shoot her a PM to see if she would lower the rate accordingly. Who knows... if business is really slow, perhaps she might go for it. But if she says no, then she says no. If she is insulted by the offer, so be it. If she's not going to see me anyway, why should I care?

Well Said

[Isabel]

I totally agree with Jules... Just shop around for the cheapest lady and you don't have to haggle...

[Logic]

Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Have you ever been in the business of selling pussy??

I have thats why would inflate the rates...But i do like your attitude!! When can i see you!!??

[Munchmasterman]

Originally Posted by Isabel

I totally agree with Jules... Just shop around for the cheapest lady and you don't have to haggle...

Something like that.

In a world where everything is negotiable....even non-negotiability, the only time it is unreasonable is post-delivery of services or in face-to-face pre-delivery negotiations of the to be performed services. You are supposed to be business people. Stop pretending your honor is being besmirched. It is tedious as well as boring. If you don't want to haggle, hang up. It's quick, it's easy, it's legal. It also makes common sense. "Man up" or pull your ads.
Something else would be nice. To see universal condemnation of your ilk who don't live up to their service claims or that post fake pictures, or especially the NCNS, by your ilk.
NCNS has no defense. Absolutely none. If you can’t make a 1 minute call to let someone know something has happened that will interfere with a business arrangement you have set up, you are the lower than the lowest crack whore. My apology to any crack whores I have demeaned by comparing you to someone who bails on an appointment without notice, reason or apology.

Well “ladies”, my balls are in your court.

[rekcaSxT]

Originally Posted by Munchmasterman

Something like that.

In a world where everything is negotiable....even non-negotiability, the only time it is unreasonable is post-delivery of services or in face-to-face pre-delivery negotiations of the to be performed services. You are supposed to be business people. Stop pretending your honor is being besmirched. It is tedious as well as boring. If you don't want to haggle, hang up. It's quick, it's easy, it's legal. It also makes common sense. "Man up" or pull your ads.
Something else would be nice. To see universal condemnation of your ilk who don't live up to their service claims or that post fake pictures, or especially the NCNS, by your ilk.
NCNS has no defense. Absolutely none. If you can’t make a 1 minute call to let someone know something has happened that will interfere with a business arrangement you have set up, you are the lower than the lowest crack whore. My apology to any crack whores I have demeaned by comparing you to someone who bails on an appointment without notice, reason or apology.

Well “ladies”, my balls are in your court.

There is no "standing ovation" button.

[sixxbach]

Call me what you want but I like this guy....

Sixx

Originally Posted by Munchmasterman

Something like that.

In a world where everything is negotiable....even non-negotiability, the only time it is unreasonable is post-delivery of services or in face-to-face pre-delivery negotiations of the to be performed services. You are supposed to be business people. Stop pretending your honor is being besmirched. It is tedious as well as boring. If you don't want to haggle, hang up. It's quick, it's easy, it's legal. It also makes common sense. "Man up" or pull your ads.
Something else would be nice. To see universal condemnation of your ilk who don't live up to their service claims or that post fake pictures, or especially the NCNS, by your ilk.
NCNS has no defense. Absolutely none. If you can’t make a 1 minute call to let someone know something has happened that will interfere with a business arrangement you have set up, you are the lower than the lowest crack whore. My apology to any crack whores I have demeaned by comparing you to someone who bails on an appointment without notice, reason or apology.

Well “ladies”, my balls are in your court.

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Munchmasterman

Something like that.

In a world where everything is negotiable....even non-negotiability, the only time it is unreasonable is post-delivery of services or in face-to-face pre-delivery negotiations of the to be performed services. You are supposed to be business people. Stop pretending your honor is being besmirched. It is tedious as well as boring. If you don't want to haggle, hang up. It's quick, it's easy, it's legal. It also makes common sense. "Man up" or pull your ads.
Something else would be nice. To see universal condemnation of your ilk who don't live up to their service claims or that post fake pictures, or especially the NCNS, by your ilk.
NCNS has no defense. Absolutely none. If you can’t make a 1 minute call to let someone know something has happened that will interfere with a business arrangement you have set up, you are the lower than the lowest crack whore. My apology to any crack whores I have demeaned by comparing you to someone who bails on an appointment without notice, reason or apology.

Well “ladies”, my balls are in your court.

Is that an "Attack Pack" T-Shirt he is wearing?

[Elephant]

Originally Posted by Munchmasterman

My apology to any crack whores I have demeaned by comparing you to someone who bails on an appointment without notice, reason or apology.

Originally Posted by Whispers

Is that an "Attack Pack" T-Shirt he is wearing?

Yep