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clikrSYR · 06-22-2011, 06:25 PM

Sounds like a question with an obvious answer, but I'm having difficulty deciding. I've done a duo once, in Thailand, and it wasn't as great as I was hoping for. Most of the reason is that they could barely speak English and they were 'rushers' but it was also a bit overwhelming. What the hell was I going to do with all that?

I'm meeting a BP chick tomorrow that I saw about a month ago. She's been my favorite hobby experience so far. I want to bring her friend into the mix but I feel like a complete idiot for not knowing what to do with the friend. Not being one for DATY in my hobbying, I feel that limits the threesome positions significantly. So do I stick with what I know is great and spend around half the change, or am I going to miss out on something spectacular? I feel like a schmuck for even asking, but I am really torn!

Ray Howard · 06-22-2011, 06:48 PM

Sticking with what you know is always safe and comfortable. But it's gotten your attention, so challenge yourself and why not go for it? You can take as passive a role in the process as you want, be as much of an observer as you wish.

Relax, you seem to want to do it, so just do it. Things will happen naturally, I'll wager.

If, by some crazy chance, it doesn't work out perfectly, don't take it to heart.

Keep an open mind and do it. That's my suggestion.

Lexxxy · 06-22-2011, 07:10 PM

Dearest, if these Ladies are true professionals they wont rush you and will do their best to ensure that you thoroughly enjoy yourself. YOU should be the focus, DATY shouldn't play any factor into that, like I said it is about YOU. I used to only do duos when I was UTR for a year. I am a firm believer in the girls having to work well together. My old duo partner and I would have HUGE fights, I would get livid with her about her drinking and what not. As soon as it was time to see a Gent we were professional, we put everything aside and would have wonderful dates because we worked through it.
There is no reason to be afraid of a Duo, it will be fine as long as you chose professional Ladies that work well together.
One thing that I would suggest you ask for is tag team and double oral. I know that Gents really go nuts over it, you can ask the Ladies to take it easy on you so that you don't reach glorification too fast

clikrSYR · 06-22-2011, 08:18 PM

Thanks for the thoughts! I will post my review tomorrow night, but I was teetering and this was enough encouragement to push me over. Duo it shall be.

Lexxxy · 06-22-2011, 08:49 PM

Open communication with the Ladies is key sweets, have a wonderful time with your new experience.

montana1958 · 06-23-2011, 06:27 AM

Good luck with your duo experience. My experience mirrors what Lexxxy said about choosing professional ladies that know they are there for you as well. And double oral, enjoy. It is always said that chemistry between the ladies is critical. I do agree but I have arranged some duo's where the ladies had never met but it was great because they were such professionals. Have fun

stuckinsyracuse · 06-23-2011, 12:11 PM

Montana is the resident duo expert FWIW.

clikrSYR · 06-23-2011, 08:19 PM

Ahhhhg! Well, chica number 2 was a no-go. Not sure what happened. I only got to see Misty. She said she's done duos with Alexis before and that they have a lot of fun with it. Dammit. Thanks for the advice though, and I'll catch the next one I get a chance to!

Ray Howard · 06-23-2011, 08:59 PM

That's the attitude!!

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Originally Posted by clikrSYR

Ahhhhg! Well, chica number 2 was a no-go. Not sure what happened. I only got to see Misty. She said she's done duos with Alexis before and that they have a lot of fun with it. Dammit. Thanks for the advice though, and I'll catch the next one I get a chance to!