Outed by provider

[Lily Blair]

Yesterday I was outed to a family member by another provider. I don't have proof yet as to which provider did it, but it's really no mystery to me. I'm totally devastated and this is probably the worst thing that anyone could have done to me. And it will eventually be repaid.

This is why my website is down at the moment and it's undetermined when I'll put it back up.

Folks, please be careful who you associate yourselves with. This low life could easily do the same to you.

[MistyMtns]

Sad to hear this...

[itsjustme54]

Sorry to hear this happened. Keep your head on straight. You'll see this through.

[hyperkine]

Very sorry to hear but it's not surprising...most every board I've read or been a member of, there have been outings and reports of outings. It's yet another risk that you guys have to bear.

Don't do anything rash.

[OKbud]

Wow. I'm really sorry to hear this Lily. That is incredibly low. The old saying goes "what comes around, goes around." I'm sure whoever did this will get theirs soon enough.

[TechOne]

Be your own person, keep your head up, stand your ground, be the hero we all know you are...then give'em hell for it.

Hang in there, sorry this is happening to you.

[Ginger Doll]

That's horrible, Lily. If there's anything I can do to help, or you need to talk...let me know.

I hope you're able to figure out who did it. That person needs to be exposed...they don't belong here.

[MrGiz]

We don't often refer to females as scumbags. . . . but every now and then , one comes slithering by. That's a damned shame.... Sorry it happened to ya , Lily!!!

Karma can be a Bitch!!

[Sydney Pure]

Lily keep your head UP!!!!

If you need anything CALL ME!!!


lOVE YA-
Sydney !!


and yes KARMA IS A BEOOOOOTCCCCHHHHH!!!!

[urhuckleberry]

Lily,

This is very disturbing. If you are able to develop any proof about who did this, please PM it to me so we can take appropriate action as far as as Eccie is concerned.

Thanks.

Huck

[bistraight69]

Be proud,Stand Tall,We have faith in you.

[Guest032112]

Lily, I'm very sorry that's a situation you have to deal with and pretty ironic in light of our recent conversation. In what formerly was a nice community, the circle of trust seems to be shrinking . . . .

[cowtoy]

Like everyone else I agree that really is inappropriate and I hope you get proof.

Is it ever possible to get to the point where I provider can look at her family and say, "Yes, this is what I do. I enjoy it and make good money. I understand if you don't approve."?

Still, doing so SHOULD BE YOUR CHOICE, not that of someone out to hurt you.

[Lily Blair]

I think I have proof actually. The provider who did it wouldn't give her name to the family member but was described as "super crazy", "fat", and "older" in an email to me which I'm going to send to Huck as soon as I can get to my pc instead of my phone. The stress of all this has made my back go out and I can barely walk.

Originally Posted by cowtoy

Is it ever possible to get to the point where I provider can look at her family and say, "Yes, this is what I do. I enjoy it and make good money. I understand if you don't approve."?

I guess we're about to find out......

[Lily Blair]

Originally Posted by OKbud

Wow. I'm really sorry to hear this Lily. That is incredibly low. The old saying goes "what comes around, goes around." I'm sure whoever did this will get theirs soon enough.

Oh her career here is over, if she ever really had one to begin with. Its back over to backpage with you sweetheart. If you have no friends, you don't target the person with the most friends. Even my enemies are my friends and have offered to help any way they can. This person has probably already realized she just jumped into a swimming pool full of $&!*.